Long Distance - How Do You Know?

  • Kyboy270

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    Feb 07, 2012 10:06 PM GMT
    I live in Madrid; he lives in Paris.

    We met on Recon. A "cruise" followed by a "what's up sexy?" followed by a few more brief messages. He invites me to visit him, I accept. Within a couple hours of meeting he kisses me and by the end of the weekend he is calling me "baby" and wants me to come live with him.

    Since then (last August), he's been here to visit 3 times and I've been there twice. I've decided that, if things keep going this way, I'll move in with him in July. I think that (1) it might be too soon and (2) I don't really want to move to Paris, so this will be a big leap of faith on my part. For this reason, my decision is riddled with doubts. At this point we've only been around each other for 25 days or so total. I don't even REALLY know him, do I?

    Am I completely out of my mind to consider this move?
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    Feb 07, 2012 10:23 PM GMT
    Are you sure you two aren't lesbians?
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    Feb 08, 2012 2:25 AM GMT
    Go on a lengthy vacation with him and see how things turn out.
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    Feb 09, 2012 2:51 PM GMT
    Trust your instincts. If you decide to follow your heart and things don't work out, you can always go back to Madrid.
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    Feb 09, 2012 2:52 PM GMT
    WestCoastGuy saidGo on a lengthy vacation with him and see how things turn out.

    This. You need a longer trial period.
  • Kyboy270

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    Feb 11, 2012 1:30 PM GMT
    Thanks for the advice guys. I really have no idea how this is going to turn out, but I want to try, because he's such a sweet man.
  • LuckyGuyKC

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    Feb 11, 2012 1:37 PM GMT
    Trust your instincts - if you have doubts keep meeting as as others suggested try a longer period of time trial.

    Like - him two weeks with you and you two weeks with him really close together.