Crossing the line?

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    Feb 08, 2012 3:23 AM GMT
    So recently a guy came down from NOLA and was visiting Austin. While he was down here, I happened to meet him. Great guy, attractive, personable, and just awesome personality.

    Spent two days with him before he left back for business. I recently just purchased a plane ticket to go visit him during Mardi Gras next weekend, is that drastic?
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    Feb 08, 2012 3:27 AM GMT
    Is this a surprise visit?
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    Feb 08, 2012 3:33 AM GMT
    Haha, not at all. Was actually invited, my take on it just keeps changing the more I think about it.
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    Feb 08, 2012 3:34 AM GMT
    Look at the bright side. If things dont work out, you still have Mardi Gras
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    Feb 08, 2012 3:35 AM GMT
    Yeah.. So what's the dilemma?
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    Feb 08, 2012 3:37 AM GMT
    Well I'm a 20 year old college kid who purchased a plane ticket to go visit someone who I hung out with for two days. Granted, I think he's amazing and there's definitely a connection there.
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    Feb 08, 2012 3:52 AM GMT
    texas11 saidWell I'm a 20 year old college kid who purchased a plane ticket to go visit someone who I hung out with for two days. Granted, I think he's amazing and there's definitely a connection there.
    Maybe it's love at first sight? Or maybe it's a horrible horrible mistake.
    Only way to find out is to go see him. icon_cool.gif

    But if his boyfriend answers the door, there might be some complications. icon_lol.gif
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    Feb 08, 2012 3:55 AM GMT
    texas11 saidWell I'm a 20 year old college kid who purchased a plane ticket to go visit someone who I hung out with for two days. Granted, I think he's amazing and there's definitely a connection there.


    Enjoy, I read he is older? By how much?
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    Feb 08, 2012 3:59 AM GMT
    texas11 saidWell I'm a 20 year old college kid who purchased a plane ticket to go visit someone who I hung out with for two days. Granted, I think he's amazing and there's definitely a connection there.


    Just be on the look out for red flags. You know, his BF answers the door (like xrichx said) or he wants you to go and look at his dungeon or even the more subtle red flags like him asking if you want to stick a sugarcane in his ass while he gives a BJ to a donkey icon_eek.gif
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    Feb 08, 2012 4:02 AM GMT
    Claystation said
    texas11 saidWell I'm a 20 year old college kid who purchased a plane ticket to go visit someone who I hung out with for two days. Granted, I think he's amazing and there's definitely a connection there.


    Just be on the look out for red flags. You know, his BF answers the door (like xrichx said) or he wants you to go and look at his dungeon or even the more subtle red flags like him asking if you want to stick a sugarcane in his ass while he gives a BJ to a donkey icon_eek.gif


    dang!
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    Feb 08, 2012 4:05 AM GMT
    Claystation said
    texas11 saidWell I'm a 20 year old college kid who purchased a plane ticket to go visit someone who I hung out with for two days. Granted, I think he's amazing and there's definitely a connection there.


    Just be on the look out for red flags. You know, his BF answers the door (like xrichx said) or he wants you to go and look at his dungeon or even the more subtle red flags like him asking if you want to stick a sugarcane in his ass while he gives a BJ to a donkey icon_eek.gif

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    Feb 08, 2012 4:12 AM GMT
    Also try and keep an eye out for slang/code words. Like if he asks you if you like to play football, don't just say "yes". Be sure and ask him what he means by "football". Cause he just might say:

    "Well that's when I dress up like a football player and start running around in circles then shove a football in my ass and you tackle me by hitting me in the face with your dick then I fall down and start screaming and hollering and then snort some cocaine then I give you a Cleveland steamer."

    Because you sure as hell don't want to agree to something like that........I'm just sayin icon_neutral.gif
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    Feb 08, 2012 4:33 AM GMT
    If things fail, you still have a fabulous vacation and may be a lifelong memory.

    On a serious note, make sure you have enough money. I don't know your situation but if things go ugly and the guy doesn't want you in your home or such, you have enough money to get a room in a hotel etc. Just run all scenarios.

    Have a fun and safe trip.
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    Feb 08, 2012 7:15 AM GMT
    NJDewd said
    texas11 saidWell I'm a 20 year old college kid who purchased a plane ticket to go visit someone who I hung out with for two days. Granted, I think he's amazing and there's definitely a connection there.


    Enjoy, I read he is older? By how much?



    Haha, a whopping 24 years older than me!
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    Feb 08, 2012 7:17 AM GMT
    Yeah, I've been putting much thought into every scenario that can go down. Just going to stay optimistic and confident in my decisions.

    As far as red flags, wouldn't be the first time I met a guy with a dungeon icon_cool.gif
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    Feb 08, 2012 11:21 AM GMT
    Yup your acting exactly like a 20 year old, doing something stupidly impulsive!

    Have fun icon_biggrin.gif

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    and I mean of the Mardi Gras
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    Feb 08, 2012 11:29 AM GMT
    texas11 saidYeah, I've been putting much thought into every scenario that can go down. Just going to stay optimistic and confident in my decisions.

    As far as red flags, wouldn't be the first time I met a guy with a dungeon icon_cool.gif

    Love it!
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    Feb 08, 2012 11:30 AM GMT
    texas11 said
    NJDewd said
    texas11 saidWell I'm a 20 year old college kid who purchased a plane ticket to go visit someone who I hung out with for two days. Granted, I think he's amazing and there's definitely a connection there.


    Enjoy, I read he is older? By how much?



    Haha, a whopping 24 years older than me!


    Damn. he is one lucky dude!
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    Feb 08, 2012 9:20 PM GMT
    lilTanker saidYup your acting exactly like a 20 year old, doing something stupidly impulsive!

    Have fun icon_biggrin.gif

    Take photos icon_biggrin.gif

    Wear protection icon_biggrin.gif









    and I mean of the Mardi Gras




    Haha, will do! You only live once, might as well do stupid shit while I can! icon_razz.gif
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    Feb 08, 2012 9:23 PM GMT
    Claystation saidAlso try and keep an eye out for slang/code words. Like if he asks you if you like to play football, don't just say "yes". Be sure and ask him what he means by "football". Cause he just might say:

    "Well that's when I dress up like a football player and start running around in circles then shove a football in my ass and you tackle me by hitting me in the face with your dick then I fall down and start screaming and hollering and then snort some cocaine then I give you a Cleveland steamer."

    Because you sure as hell don't want to agree to something like that........I'm just sayin icon_neutral.gif


    OMG, that's hilarious. icon_razz.gificon_razz.gificon_razz.gif

    to the OP, just take it as you feel it. Like Clay said, watch for any red flags, though and have fun at Mardi Gras.
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    Feb 08, 2012 9:25 PM GMT
    Out of curiosity...why would you be interested in a man 24 years older than you? What is your relationship like with your father? And why is this man interested in someone who is 24 years his junior. I'm not being critical...just wondering.
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    Feb 08, 2012 9:27 PM GMT
    If you're questioning it, than maybe you have reason not to go through with it.
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    Feb 08, 2012 9:29 PM GMT
    TotalTopJock saidOut of curiosity...why would you be interested in a man 24 years older than you? What is your relationship like with your father? And why is this man interested in someone who is 24 years his junior. I'm not being critical...just wondering.



    Just like any other person, we all have preferences. Some like short guys, some like asian guys, some like big dicks, and I just happen to like them all... including guys 24 years older than me. icon_smile.gif


    Chemistry isn't just based on physical appearance, well at least for me it isn't. I just happened to connect well with this guy,
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    Feb 08, 2012 9:39 PM GMT
    texas11 said
    TotalTopJock saidOut of curiosity...why would you be interested in a man 24 years older than you? What is your relationship like with your father? And why is this man interested in someone who is 24 years his junior. I'm not being critical...just wondering.



    Just like any other person, we all have preferences. Some like short guys, some like asian guys, some like big dicks, and I just happen to like them all... including guys 24 years older than me. icon_smile.gif


    Chemistry isn't just based on physical appearance, well at least for me it isn't. I just happened to connect well with this guy,


    there ya go!
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    Feb 08, 2012 10:15 PM GMT
    If it doesn't pan out, it's still New Orleans and it's still Mardi Gras -- and thus worth the risk. If you were going to ButtfuckingEgypt, Boondook USA then it would be a different story.

    Go to enjoy a good time in a great city; a continued connection with him would just be icing on the cake.