Your first boyfriend

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    Jun 29, 2008 5:01 AM GMT
    Most guys of my age always act like "whores", so I find it really hard to connect emotionally with boys. What I'd like to know is how old were you when you meet your first serious boyfriend and how did you meet him.... Thanks guys
  • qalbi30

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    Jun 29, 2008 5:44 AM GMT
    Was 17 when a friend of my parents introduced me to their son who had returned from a study period in Europe.

    He was 12 years older,handsome and sophisticated and I fell for him in a big way.especially as at first he did not take much notice of me.
    However the "hero worship" got me where I wanted to be,in his bed.

    Like most first love we grew apart,he found a french student who was nearer in age and I found variety in the chase,loving each person for what they were,not what I wanted them to be.

    Now prefer the calm of friendship and good sex to the wilder shores of love.
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    Jun 29, 2008 5:43 PM GMT
    I haven't had one yet but hope I meet Mr right someday or at least a guy who wont cheat but finding him is all part of growing up I guess. I personally would try to be best friend's at first or later on BFFL/BF, but that's just my ideal happy hunting broicon_wink.gif
  • bad_boy018

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    Jun 29, 2008 5:48 PM GMT
    i was 18, but he was 26... its all about finding men that are mature so that always seemed to me like you needed to find someone older... that trend still hasnt changed.
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    Jun 29, 2008 6:23 PM GMT
    Only had one serious one, and it wasn't until last year, so I was 23.

    Learned a lot.


    Don't be so rough on the guys who're acting like whores. Some'll stay that way, sure, but I know a lot of people (*ahem* including me) who went through a crazy phase. Lots of them will grow out of it pretty soon.
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    Jun 29, 2008 6:30 PM GMT
    Well I feel the same way. Thats why I dont date Boys anymore. I am attracted to men and thats what I want to date. My first was for 8 1/2 months I was 19 he was 28. But I learned that age doesn't always mean maturity.
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    Jun 29, 2008 6:40 PM GMT
    I was 18 when I had my first boyfriend. He was a year older. That year was terrible. Neither of us were mature enough to have a long term relationship. There was never any infidelity, but the endless Sturm und Drang.

    If I could do it all over again, I would have just dated heavily rather than talking about marriage and kids.
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    Jun 29, 2008 6:54 PM GMT
    We met in my dreams, under a starry sky, he kissed me and then we had to separate because we occupy the same body... icon_cry.gif

    And that would be incest.
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    Jun 29, 2008 7:32 PM GMT
    I was 28 and he was 17. We met online at nearly 2500 miles apart and decided to see where it would lead and just to make sure we were right for one another. After a couple breaks we managed to still be together being eachothers first guy ever. We never know for sure where tomorrow will leave us but as far as today, everything is awesome!
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    Jun 29, 2008 8:09 PM GMT
    never had one....still searching.
  • Mikeylikesit

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    Jun 29, 2008 8:13 PM GMT
    wizer1989 saidMost guys of my age always act like "whores", so I find it really hard to connect emotionally with boys. What I'd like to know is how old were you when you meet your first serious boyfriend and how did you meet him.... Thanks guys


    Welcome to the real world......ALL gay men are whores......LOL
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    Jun 29, 2008 8:23 PM GMT
    HELL NO.

    Hope you're speaking for yourself.
  • TRASHxIT

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    Jun 29, 2008 9:39 PM GMT
    I was 14 and he was 20, he was my manager of a local McDonalds in my town. I thought it was so awesome because of the fact I was so young and sneaking around the store and being secretive kept everything very interesting and fun. However, it ended horribly when I found out he was cheating on me with another person we worked with, it was mortifying.
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    Jun 29, 2008 10:27 PM GMT
    met him on here. a couple months ago. i'm 24, he's 31. and to point out, just cuz they're young doesn't make them whores. some of the older guys are whores too.
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    Jun 29, 2008 10:43 PM GMT
    I feel like a late bloomer with relationships overall. I had my first girlfriend at the age of 25....didnt last long. I met my first boyfriend at the age of 29 and we are still going strong.
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    Jun 30, 2008 9:15 PM GMT
    Met him in college (UCLA). I was 19 and he was 22. That was 32 years ago, and we're still together.
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    Jun 30, 2008 9:48 PM GMT
    My very first serious one - if you don't count the angst ridden mess I had in high school - was at 23. Boy did I learn a lot from that one. Ended very badly but I learned several relationships worth from that one experience. Had a series of flings after that, leading to one short-term bf, before the last and final! The screwball on the left in my profile pic. icon_razz.gif
  • auryn

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    Jun 30, 2008 9:48 PM GMT
    I met him at the candy store, he turned around and smiled at me. You get the picture? That's when I fell for the leader of the pack.

    My folks were always putting him down, they said he came from the wrong side of town. They told me he was bad, but I knew he was sad. That's why I fell for the .... oh wait that's a song by The Shangi-Las; my bad.
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    Jun 30, 2008 10:16 PM GMT
    I was 19 and he was 35 , in college. He was living with somebody else, never say he love me (eventhough he keep saying how sexy and how much I turn him on). Our affair last for 7 years. He say he love me but not in love with me. So I guess it probably not right to say he is my bf, friend with benefit a more better word.

    My first live in lover appear in my life when I was 23 (he was 27). That one love me with all his heart, eventhough I was never faithfull to him.
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    Jun 30, 2008 10:28 PM GMT
    Auryn said
    My folks were always putting him down, they said he came from the wrong side of town. They told me he was bad, but I knew he was sad. That's why I fell for the .... oh wait that's a song by The Shangi-Las; my bad.


    Were you an uptown boy living in an uptown world and he a backstreets guy? icon_smile.gif
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    Jul 01, 2008 12:29 AM GMT
    I was 34.
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    Jul 01, 2008 12:33 AM GMT
    i was a junior in high school and we met in all-state chorus. he lived in bethesda MD and was a swimmer. it went well for about 6 months but the distance killed it- and he was an awful kisser lol- he was SO new to the whole thing- i think that's why ever since, i've preferred to date older, more experienced guys.
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    Jul 01, 2008 3:55 AM GMT
    haven't really had a *boyfriend* at this point in my life. But I am in a weird phase right now where I am kind of dating someone and there has even been talk of kinda making it something more serious. There is interest and attraction from both sides--but I keep second guessing myself because I wonder if I subconsciously want to experience a serious relationship so much that I am rationalizing things to make it happen instead of really being into the dude. He is 21 and hasn't done the relationship thing either.
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    Jul 01, 2008 4:42 AM GMT
    I was 46, he was 26. We're no longer together, but still love each other very much.

    Odds are that you won't wait as long as I did, but I can say from experience that no matter how long you wait, you should never give up hope. And when it finally arrives, the time you waited is irrelevant.

    There is no "right time" for everyone. We are all different. All our experiences simply make us who we are. All unique. All snowflakes. Each beautiful. All we need to do is acknowledge our own beauty and then we are.

    ...

    *looks around*

    I was promised cookies if I got the highest demographic score.

    *waits quietly*

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    Jul 01, 2008 4:47 AM GMT
    wizer1989 saidMost guys of my age always act like "whores"...


    One reason why I have yet to obtain a "first boyfriend."

    My first boyfriend's gotta be out there somewhere...