Your ( FIRST SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP ) how old where u then ? how long did it last ?

  • MarcBodybuild...

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    Feb 08, 2012 9:14 AM GMT
    First serious relationship i had was when i was 18. Lasted 4 years he was 22 when i met him, he was my buddy's best friend he swings both ways and we got to get to know one another cause we both love outdoors, we tend to meet at social gatherings with our friends.

    So we found out we both like lifting weights, one day he asked if i would go with him on a road trip with his buds, i said yeah sure why not. We stayed at his family's vacation home far from the city, stayed their with a couple of his buds for 5 days doing horseback riding, swimming at the beach, swimming at their pool, outdoor hiking.

    Anyway one night we were upstairs he was walking around wearing nothing but his undies, he asked me if i was seeing anyone. i said at the moment no... he then asked me if i wanna go out with him on a date, just the 2 of us. At first i said ( u serious >? ) lol.

    He said yeah he was. So the following days we headed out he thought me how to kayak, camping at his favorite spot. and Finally we got the chance to have the entire vacation home to ourselves the next time we headed back there it was just the 2 of us.

    " ah! memories "
  • calibro

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    Feb 08, 2012 1:54 PM GMT
    i was 19. there was no caps lock involved
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    Feb 08, 2012 1:57 PM GMT
    i was 20, lasted a year
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    Feb 08, 2012 1:59 PM GMT
    I was 19, he was 18, and we've been happily together for the last 14 years
  • HndsmKansan

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    Feb 08, 2012 1:59 PM GMT
    First serious relationship with a female: when I was 20 (lasted about 18 months). First serious relationship with a man: I was 32 and it continues now......
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    Feb 08, 2012 4:25 PM GMT
    My first relationship was with a girl at the age of 18 that lasted for 4.5 years. After her was with a man who is one of my best friend for 8 years.
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    Feb 08, 2012 4:39 PM GMT
    i was 23. no relationship over six months for me, thats starting to worry me.
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    Feb 08, 2012 5:31 PM GMT
    Mine was at 25. I loved him the way characters in Greek poetry love one another... and it really burned me when it turned out he loved me like you love a flavor of ice cream.
  • calibro

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    Feb 08, 2012 8:33 PM GMT
    Larkin saidMine was at 25. I loved him the way characters in Greek poetry love one another... and it really burned me when it turned out he loved me like you love a flavor of ice cream.


    speaking of greek poetry... i talked about you at poetry salon yesterday.
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    Feb 08, 2012 8:36 PM GMT
    I'm 23 years old and I've never been in a relationship. That's not a bad thing is it?
  • Diceroll

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    Feb 08, 2012 8:45 PM GMT
    I was 20 - lasted about 4 years.
  • TheIStrat

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    Feb 08, 2012 8:49 PM GMT
    20. Lasted about a year.
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    Feb 08, 2012 8:50 PM GMT
    17, she and I lasted about a year. Any guesses why we didn't work out?
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    Feb 08, 2012 8:51 PM GMT
    I was 18. It lasted for two years he was a sweet guy but we decided to be friends
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    Feb 08, 2012 8:53 PM GMT
    I was 25 or 26. It was with a guy named Wayne Danner who was the lead singer in a Christian rock band called Wet Souls and he also worked at Whole Foods in Studio City on Coldwater Canyon. He had trouble accepting he was gay, even though he spent the night sucking the cock of some guy he met while dating me. We broke up and a short time later he was starring in adult videos under the name Zach Richards. In 1999 he was in the West Hollywood Pride Parade singing on a float wearing a "Porn Star" shirt. I guess he was gay after all.
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    Feb 08, 2012 9:01 PM GMT
    I was 20 and in college and still in the closet. My inability to come out at the time and accept myself is what led to our break up. Sometimes I still think I really screwed that one up, but I think I just give the relationship more weight than it had because it was my first (with a guy)