Lies & Truth.....Do You Agree ?

  • masculumpedes

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    Feb 08, 2012 4:55 PM GMT
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    #1 LIE: When a relationship ends, it's usually because you've fallen out of love. icon_confused.gif

    TRUTH: People don't fall in and out of love, as if love can be measured. People fall out of trust, intimacy, and respect, not love.

    #2 LIE : If you loved each other more, you would be able to make the relationship work. icon_confused.gif

    TRUTH: Love is only a prerequisite. Great relationships take deep partnership, and a commitment and a willingness to grow together and individually on all levels -- emotionally, mentally and spiritually -- by both people.

    #3 LIE: If the relationship ends, you have failed. icon_confused.gif

    TRUTH: The failure is overstaying. Be honest with yourself and each other when it's time to end your relationship. Talk to each other instead of resorting to behaviors that cause drama, deceit and devastation. Your goal is not to become the next reality TV show, but to use the power of unconditional love and respect (that you hopefully started the relationship with) to gracefully transition out of the relationship.
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    Feb 08, 2012 6:47 PM GMT
    Where is this coming from?
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    Feb 08, 2012 6:52 PM GMT
    i lieu of an ending relationship, overstaying or fighting for what was once there and now lost ?

    *i do agree on all points, its just finding the courage and self-respect to do it. Despite of and always of battle between logic and feelings.
  • Lawrencium

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    Feb 08, 2012 7:07 PM GMT
    frackin love this
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    Feb 08, 2012 7:21 PM GMT
    i like this too... i should send it to the ex...icon_wink.gif
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    Feb 08, 2012 7:21 PM GMT
    Sounds cute but mostly ridiculous icon_razz.gif

    You can love someone that you can't trust, have no intimacy or respect for..that doesn't make much sense...

  • masculumpedes

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    Feb 08, 2012 8:50 PM GMT
    adam228 saidSounds cute but mostly ridiculous icon_razz.gif

    You can love someone that you can't trust, have no intimacy or respect for..that doesn't make much sense...



    I have a person in my life that I would worry about if something happened to him and have a certain amount of love for even after our break-up 26 years ago.....but I would never trust him or respect him again.....I think you always remember your first. icon_wink.gif
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    Feb 08, 2012 9:38 PM GMT
    this is beautiful. now if only all the rotten apples can see this!