Feb 08, 2012 11:44 PM GMT
I live in Fremont, a part of the SF bay area where little opportunity exists to meet guys my age and enjoy a nice night out. I like going to the clubs in Castro, but it seems like many guys all have their own personal agendas. That, or they're in a pretentious stuck-up clique! So the alternative option I've been using to meet people is a4a. Although slightly effective, I have many criticisms regarding that method too. Not only are the guys I meet there even worse than the guys I meet in person, but everyone seems as if they're exclusively looking for sex. I can't even get a simple conversation going without being asked how big my penis is, whether I enjoy being a top or bottom, and being blocked or ignored for no apparent reason. There also is an added element of racial exclusion present on quite a few profiles but that's really beside the point. People have their preferences. So whats the deal people!? Am I just looking in all the wrong places or what?