hey guys,,, i will get marry soon from my lover,,, ( in Germany ),,,, so,,,, i will have a dark blue suit and he will have a dark gray suit almost black

have we wear the same colors or that will be ok?

what about the ties?,....i am so confused about the color if we have to wear the same ties,,,,i think dark red tie will be good?

what about brown shoes on the dark blue suit?,,,or will it be better to have black shoes?

any suggestion? any gay couple pictures in suits that i can see?

thanks for reading and thanks for help