"Wanna ??? on cam for me?"

  • spluis

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    Feb 10, 2012 11:17 AM GMT
    Hi there guys!

    Well. I created a profile here because a friend of mine told me it was more "serious", since I was tired of all the Manhunt and Gaydar bullshit...

    So first time I login to this site some guy sends me an IM - "wanna wank on cam for me?"

    Really?!

    Is this just another hookup site, but maybe just with beefier people? icon_confused.gif

    What has been your experience so far? (Talking to those of you who are here to meet people or simply chat, without the annoying "wanna fuck?" messages...)

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    Feb 10, 2012 11:17 AM GMT
    Avoid the chatrooms, post on the forums. Problem mostly solved.
  • spluis

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    Feb 10, 2012 11:22 AM GMT
    Anduru saidAvoid the chatrooms, post on the forums. Problem mostly solved.


    I haven't even tried the chat yet. Good to know. LOL
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    Feb 10, 2012 12:55 PM GMT
    Of course you'll get someone trying to get you to wank on cam for them.
    It's like a rite of passage in which you must say no to succeed.
  • HPgeek934

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    Feb 10, 2012 1:40 PM GMT
    Agreed. Every website in creation that caters to gay men is going to have some very horny men on it. Don't let the intent of one guy on here tarnish how you view the site. Most of us are just on here to get some fitness tips and meet some cool new people.
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    Feb 10, 2012 1:49 PM GMT
    Just do you. As long as you stay true to the reason(s) you came here then you should be fine. Don't let others intentions/actions ruin what could be fun for you.
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    Feb 10, 2012 2:17 PM GMT
    You will get less of that if you post public pictures of yourself. Creepers are drawn to other creepers.
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    Feb 10, 2012 2:27 PM GMT
    Isn't that the whole reason why webcam functions are built into the IM's on this site ?

    Oh no, thats right, it's so that guys can talk about working out and critique each other physiques in the pursuit of fitness..........icon_razz.gif
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    Feb 10, 2012 2:59 PM GMT
    Turn im off,works wonders for me
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    Feb 10, 2012 3:02 PM GMT
    kikio said
    Anduru saidAvoid the chatrooms, post on the forums. Problem mostly solved.


    I haven't even tried the chat yet. Good to know. LOL


    Avoid Adult chat.

    Realjock chat is great and probably one of the only places you can actually chat with level headed guys.

    Stop by anytime you two!
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    Feb 10, 2012 4:52 PM GMT
    I've also experienced this. But, I don't really mind. Kinky web-caming is not for everyone. I'm just flattered to be asked.
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    Feb 10, 2012 4:53 PM GMT
    I turned my IM off.
    I haven't even tried the chat rooms, I much rather use the forums. At least this way if I have to leave/log off for whatever reason I can come back and see what I need to address/what someone directed at me and continue.

    As far as the whole "sup bro" "u hot" "lets chat" messages, turning off the IM has cut that down considerably AND if I get a message (in my inbox) stating as much I'll usually just say thanks and then never hear from them again.

    I'm sure the people on the other end of that message draw up their own conclusions. "maybe he don't like me" "hes not interested" what an asshole" "fuck that loser" "oh look there is someone else who is hotter" "asshole cant even pay back the compliment" etc.... all I can say to that is........ meh if there is one thing I don't give very much of, its a fuck
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    Feb 10, 2012 5:20 PM GMT
    kikio saidHi there guys!

    Well. I created a profile here because a friend of mine told me it was more "serious", since I was tired of all the Manhunt and Gaydar bullshit...

    So first time I login to this site some guy sends me an IM - "wanna wank on cam for me?"

    Really?!

    Is this just another hookup site, but maybe just with beefier people? icon_confused.gif

    What has been your experience so far? (Talking to those of you who are here to meet people or simply chat, without the annoying "wanna fuck?" messages...)



    You will get a ton of web cam requests, but I have actually met some really great friends on here and one of them is the guy I have been seeing for a long time. This place has been great for me and I think you will enjoy it. The forums get a little emotional every now and then, but I think they mean well.
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    Feb 10, 2012 5:24 PM GMT
    when i first joined I got a ton of those. .
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    Feb 10, 2012 5:24 PM GMT
    DatBeef saidOf course you'll get someone trying to get you to wank on cam for them.
    It's like a rite of passage in which you must say no to succeed.


    This. Truth be told, I am actually most of the faceless profiles on this site. I try to bait everyone into sending me nudes so that I can use them as blackmail.

    So far, it hasnt worked :-(
  • nomadfornow

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    Feb 10, 2012 6:51 PM GMT
    Yeah, just keep your IM turned off and stick mainly to forums and you should be fine for the most part. Also, if you post some pictures, you'll get more attention.
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    Feb 10, 2012 7:02 PM GMT
    kikio saidHi there guys!

    Well. I created a profile here because a friend of mine told me it was more "serious", since I was tired of all the Manhunt and Gaydar bullshit...

    So first time I login to this site some guy sends me an IM - "wanna wank on cam for me?"

    Really?!

    Is this just another hookup site, but maybe just with beefier people? icon_confused.gif

    What has been your experience so far? (Talking to those of you who are here to meet people or simply chat, without the annoying "wanna fuck?" messages...)



    You mean your pictureless, empty profile didn't get you a load of "serious" friends on the first day?!?!?!?!?!?!

    How could that be?!?!!

    You have the right idea though, judge a site and it's members by the first message you get.

    That makes good sense.

    The type of guy to wants to wank on cam with someone he cannot see and knows nothing about is probably not the sort you wanna base opinions of ANYTHING on.

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    Feb 10, 2012 7:09 PM GMT
    no IM, dude. Just forums and probably sending private messages to ppl.
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    Feb 10, 2012 7:37 PM GMT
    There is an IM feature on this site...?












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    Feb 10, 2012 7:42 PM GMT
    I think I've never IM'ed anyone, but I always leave it on, just in case someone wants to talk to me.
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    Feb 10, 2012 10:40 PM GMT
    Dallasfan824 saidwhen i first joined I got a ton of those. .
    >excuse for poster to brag
  • DesireIron

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    Feb 11, 2012 12:22 AM GMT
    Your first day on the site and you start off whining? Srsly? Maybe you dont below on a men's site.
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    Feb 11, 2012 12:36 AM GMT
    Claystation saidI turned my IM off.
    I haven't even tried the chat rooms, I much rather use the forums. At least this way if I have to leave/log off for whatever reason I can come back and see what I need to address/what someone directed at me and continue.

    As far as the whole "sup bro" "u hot" "lets chat" messages, turning off the IM has cut that down considerably AND if I get a message (in my inbox) stating as much I'll usually just say thanks and then never hear from them again.

    I'm sure the people on the other end of that message draw up their own conclusions. "maybe he don't like me" "hes not interested" what an asshole" "fuck that loser" "oh look there is someone else who is hotter" "asshole cant even pay back the compliment" etc.... all I can say to that is........ meh if there is one thing I don't give very much of, its a fuck


    SUP BRO??!!

    You hot!!

    Let's chat!

    Wanna wank?!

    *checks "tease giant oak tree" off to-do list*

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    Feb 11, 2012 1:22 AM GMT
    One1313 said

    SUP BRO??!!

    You hot!!

    Let's chat!

    Wanna wank?!

    *checks "tease giant oak tree" off to-do list*



    Sup brah!

    I know, tell your friends.

    I just finished wanking, but you can send me your noodz!!

    /grabby hand
    //moar noodz pleaz
    ///MOAR icon_mad.gif
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    Feb 13, 2012 2:41 AM GMT
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