Not sure if I'm gay

  • Drew1213

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    Feb 12, 2012 9:54 AM GMT
    So I've always wondered if I'm gay or not.so confusing!now that I'm in an area like SD I can try it.but why can't I get a date/hookup?I'm a pretty good looking guy!wth
  • alphatop

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    Feb 12, 2012 1:29 PM GMT
    yourname2000 saidImo, not a lot of straight guys spend a lot of time wondering if they're gay. icon_wink.gif


    ^This^

    Btw, don't bother to define your or anyone else's sexuality. Since I stopped labeling people, it's so much more easier and fun.icon_surprised.gif
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    Feb 12, 2012 1:30 PM GMT
    You could start by posting pics on a gay social sites.
  • calibro

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    Feb 12, 2012 1:35 PM GMT
    craigslist
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    Feb 12, 2012 2:27 PM GMT
    I'm about an hour and a half from SD. Send me a pic. If your cute, I'll do youicon_twisted.gif

    Oh yeah, your posting on a gay website, wondering if you are gay, and disappointed you can't do a hookups...... I'd say you are definately gayicon_biggrin.gif
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    Feb 12, 2012 2:59 PM GMT
    antonomad said
    Btw, don't bother to define your or anyone else's sexuality. Since I stopped labeling people, it's so much more easier and fun.icon_surprised.gif

    this
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    Feb 12, 2012 3:01 PM GMT
    Drew1213 saidSo I've always wondered if I'm gay or not.so confusing!now that I'm in an area like SD I can try it.but why can't I get a date/hookup?I'm a pretty good looking guy!wth


    San Diego is a cool place to be for a gay dude. Go check out Mos or Baja Betty's. Both have great food and good friendly crowds. Meet some people and make some new friends. The rest will happen if it happens.

    Stay away from craigslist.. gross
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    Feb 12, 2012 3:32 PM GMT
    yourname2000 saidImo, not a lot of straight guys spend a lot of time wondering if they're gay. icon_wink.gif


    THIS


    you might be gay, you might be bi and it's ok

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    Feb 12, 2012 5:47 PM GMT
    Yeah, I agree with what others said. If you have to ask yourself if you're gay or are wondering you're at least bi IMO.

    Don't worry too much about it as you get the best of both worlds if you are. Just go with your instincts, introduce yourself to the gay scene in the city and the rest should happen naturally.

    It might take some time for you to accept being gay or bi or whatever but once you do, the next step is coming out- at your own pace of course. Though, I only wish I did that sooner.
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    Feb 12, 2012 5:48 PM GMT
    If uve enjoyed sex with girls then u are bi
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    Feb 12, 2012 5:52 PM GMT
    Does this turn you on? Even a little bit?



    THEN YOU ARE GAY!
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    Feb 12, 2012 6:59 PM GMT
    Just stop trying too hard and "go with the flow." You'll learn sooner or later.
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    Feb 12, 2012 7:04 PM GMT
    You guys are too hasty! I'm sure as hell not straight but I get turned off by other guy's dicks.
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    Feb 12, 2012 7:07 PM GMT
    7Famark saidDoes this turn you on? Even a little bit?



    THEN YOU ARE GAY!


    Um...no. And I'm GAY... but that was just strange...
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    Feb 12, 2012 7:55 PM GMT
    adamscott said
    7Famark saidDoes this turn you on? Even a little bit?



    THEN YOU ARE GAY!


    Um...no. And I'm GAY... but that was just strange...


    Ditto...icon_confused.gif
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    Feb 12, 2012 7:58 PM GMT
    If you're on here... you're a lumberjack. You might also be a beaver tracker too. But odds are that you'll be climbing wood in a matter of weeks. Please, please, please... use protection EVERY time you have penetrative sex, even if you're the top.
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    Feb 12, 2012 8:02 PM GMT
    dxj5069 said
    adamscott said
    7Famark saidDoes this turn you on? Even a little bit?



    THEN YOU ARE GAY!


    Um...no. And I'm GAY... but that was just strange...


    Ditto...icon_confused.gif
    you can say that again icon_neutral.gif
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    Feb 12, 2012 10:16 PM GMT
    adamscott said
    7Famark saidDoes this turn you on? Even a little bit?



    THEN YOU ARE GAY!


    Um...no. And I'm GAY... but that was just strange...


    Lol sorry you aren't into muscular guys that can move and have a sense of humor?

    Calm your shit it was a joke.
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    Feb 12, 2012 10:18 PM GMT
    wicked gay
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    Feb 12, 2012 10:41 PM GMT
    I'm not being mean at all when I say this, but I swear.. gay dudes seem to be getting more stupid than stupid girls. Asking stupid questions and posting stupid answers. You're whatever you want to be. Don't settle for a label that someone else has made to categorize and control you. If you are not sure, then perhaps for now you are what you said.. "a man in SD who is not sure if he is gay, fairly good looking but can't get a date/hookup." Yes it is a long label but it's yours, not someone elses. Start using your heads for more than hat racks.
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    Feb 12, 2012 10:46 PM GMT
    People need to learn how to take a joke icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Feb 12, 2012 10:47 PM GMT
    tell you what i'll help you we'll go on a date and i'll end it with me sexing you up and if you like it your gay... remember do it twice if it's nice.
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    Feb 12, 2012 10:51 PM GMT
    7Famark said
    adamscott said
    7Famark saidDoes this turn you on? Even a little bit?



    THEN YOU ARE GAY!


    Um...no. And I'm GAY... but that was just strange...


    Lol sorry you aren't into muscular guys that can move and have a sense of humor?

    Calm your shit it was a joke.


    I laughed
  • Art2D2x

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    Feb 12, 2012 10:56 PM GMT
    Brazilianaire saidI'm not being mean at all when I say this, but I swear.. gay dudes seem to be getting more stupid than stupid girls. Asking stupid questions and posting stupid answers. You're whatever you want to be. Don't settle for a label that someone else has made to categorize and control you. If you are not sure, then perhaps for now you are what you said.. "a man in SD who is not sure if he is gay, fairly good looking but can't get a date/hookup." Yes it is a long label but it's yours, not someone elses. Start using your heads for more than hat racks.


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    Feb 13, 2012 4:07 PM GMT
    7Famark saidPeople need to learn how to take a joke icon_rolleyes.gif


    It was weird but funny lol...icon_lol.gif