Anyone have their first gay experince in their 30's? What happened?

  • bijockmuscle

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    Jun 30, 2008 1:57 PM GMT
    I did. It was about 2.5 years ago when i was 33. Met the guy via ManHunt.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Jun 30, 2008 2:46 PM GMT
    I did as well (at age 33) Hadn't really done anything but kiss a guy and I met this dude via yahoo personals... He was kind of aloof and had a little bit of an attitude, just moved back to Kansas from Denver, CO.

    That was 9 3/4 years ago and he's still my bf.
  • MikePhilPerez

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    Jun 30, 2008 6:34 PM GMT
    I had my first gay experience 34. He is my partner now.
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    Jun 30, 2008 7:15 PM GMT
    I was 36. We met in K-Mart of all places. He was an employee and I caught him checking me out. icon_redface.gif
  • dhinkansas

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    Jun 30, 2008 7:19 PM GMT
    I was 34 and he worked at the bank where I took my companies bank deposit. We chit chatted a lot at the bank, and got together to watch Monday night football one night. I didn't flag him for illegal use of the hands. It was totally unexpected, so you never really know what people are thinking.
  • bijockmuscle

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    Jun 30, 2008 7:22 PM GMT
    NJMuscleNewbie saidI was 36. We met in K-Mart of all places. He was an employee and I caught him checking me out. icon_redface.gif


    and then?
  • bijockmuscle

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    Jun 30, 2008 7:23 PM GMT
    dhinkansas saidI was 34 and he worked at the bank where I took my companies bank deposit. We chit chatted a lot at the bank, and got together to watch Monday night football one night. I didn't flag him for illegal use of the hands. It was totally unexpected, so you never really know what people are thinking.


    more detail?
  • MikePhilPerez

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    Jun 30, 2008 7:44 PM GMT
    I had to fly all the way to Trinidad, to have my first gay experience icon_smile.gif

    I met him on the net, and for all you that complain about picless, and faceless, and unverified, we met on a dating site, and we had no photos, and there was no verified thing on the site either. We verified each other, and that is the way it is supposed to be.

    After a few months of emailing and phoning, I decided to go see him.

    It was love at first sight icon_wink.gif
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    Jun 30, 2008 8:35 PM GMT
    it happened last january 2008 ...

    i'm 38 ... and was a "verified" virgin ... lol ...

    though my mind is not a "virgin" anymore since i have seen tons of gay porn ...

    my favorite sites are "sean cody" and "corbin fisher" ...

    and thats aside from the regular gay porn stuffs like, falcon video, jocks, titan media, rascal video, mustang, bel ami ... etc ... etc ...

    but i have been searching for "love" for 38 years ...

    i did not have sexperience before ... not even with a girl ...

    then i met this guy from a dating site ...

    his name is dean ...

    but before we met face to face in person, we have exchanged emails more than 100 times already ...

    and after more than 100 emails, we became very comfortable with each other ...

    i could see that dean is real ... even if i saw him in photos only ...

    and i know that he was not lying ... he was telling me the truth about him ...

    then i told him that i want to meet and see where it will go ...

    he agreed ...

    dean is my first gay sexperience ... and im 38 ...

    it was amazing ...

    dean knows how to pleasure me ...

    and the funny thing was ...

    dean would not believe me that i'm a "virgin" ...

    he said that i kiss like a pro ...

    he also said that i fuck like a pro ...

    but i insisted that i was a "virgin" ... and he was my first ...

    becoz it's true ... i swear ...

    long story short, dean became my boyfriend ...

    we've been together for almost 5 months now ...

    we are happy ... specially when we are together ...

    and we always have pornstar wild sex everytime im with him ...

    cheers !!! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jun 30, 2008 8:53 PM GMT
    Any One 40 or over, should hang their head in shame.

    Waiting till it's safe, to come out, and after all the hard work had been done; tut, tut, tut.

    When I first come out it was still illegal to be a homosexual, and you could still be kicked out of the armed forces, and police force for being homosexual, as you where still able to be labeled mentally deranged, as all homosexuals of the day where mentally deranged.

    So you could still be arrested, and discharged. Takes very little balls too come out now days.
  • MikePhilPerez

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    Jun 30, 2008 9:05 PM GMT
    Pattison saidAny One 40 or over, should hang their head in shame.

    Waiting till it's safe, to come out, and after all the hard work had been done; tut, tut, tut.

    When I first come out it was still illegal to be a homosexual, and you could still be kicked out of the armed forces, and police force for being homosexual, as you where still able to be labeled mentally deranged, as all homosexuals of the day where mentally deranged.

    So you could still be arrested, and discharged. Takes very little balls too come out now days.




    Oh patty you fool. Read the question. It says "first gay experience". Nothing about coming out icon_rolleyes.gif

    When you come out, you don't have to jump on the first thing you see in pants. I tend to wait until I find a guy I care about, before I have sex.
  • metta

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    Jun 30, 2008 9:17 PM GMT
    what wonderful amazing stories. thanks for sharing. icon_smile.gif
  • dhinkansas

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    Jun 30, 2008 9:41 PM GMT
    Everyone has different experiences and it doesn't make them right or wrong if their first experience with a guy was at 18 or 60. This was a question a member asked, not a debate on the history of coming out and the trailblazers who did that. Save that for another forum.
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    Jun 30, 2008 9:47 PM GMT
    MikePhil saidWhen you come out, you don't have to jump on the first thing you see in pants. I tend to wait until I find a guy I care about, before I have sex.


    Damn...that's about the dumbest thing I've ever heard, Mike!








    Just kidding.