dating 18 and still in hs?

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    Feb 13, 2012 2:49 AM GMT
    So met up with this guy this morning for breakfast off OKCUPID - he's legit 18 but still in high school.. it went great .. we had bfast walked on the pier and chatted.. he's intelligent and we have a group of friends in common which was weird but kinda in a pickle?

    classic error and we made out but kinda wanna see where this goes although dont want to overstep any boundaries ? any advice ?
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    Feb 13, 2012 2:59 AM GMT
    GO FOR IT - he sounds mature and before you know it he will be out of HS. Dude, I sense if you let him go you will be playing what ifs for the rest of your life!
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    Feb 13, 2012 3:02 AM GMT
    18 and 23? I dont see an issue.

    did he JUST turn 18?

    I mean 18 and in HS would be a redflag for me, depending on the reason.
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    Feb 13, 2012 3:03 AM GMT
    mizu5 said18 and 23? I dont see an issue.

    did he JUST turn 18?

    I mean 18 and in HS would be a redflag for me, depending on the reason.


    I was 18 and in HS cause my bday is in Sept. I would have provided other red flags for you though!
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    Feb 13, 2012 3:14 AM GMT
    yeah like only a month ago... lol saw his ID and everything... i mean imma try and play it cool but its w.e ! dont want to get too involved cause hes moving to ny for school in july so maybe we can just do whatever? idk icon_smile.gif lol
  • mizu5

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    Feb 13, 2012 3:15 AM GMT
    NJDewd said
    mizu5 said18 and 23? I dont see an issue.

    did he JUST turn 18?

    I mean 18 and in HS would be a redflag for me, depending on the reason.


    I was 18 and in HS cause my bday is in Sept. I would have provided other red flags for you though!
    What why were you in HS then? grade 13? I was only 18 ebcause my bday is in feb.. so I turned 18 while in grade 12.
  • DesireIron

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    Feb 13, 2012 3:16 AM GMT
    How tall is he?
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    Feb 13, 2012 3:24 AM GMT
    haha how tall is he? he's 5'11?
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    Feb 13, 2012 4:01 AM GMT
    go for it, but don't have long term expectations...after all he is in high school. once he gets to college, perspectives will likely change
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    Feb 13, 2012 5:35 AM GMT
    closer85 saidgo for it, but don't have long term expectations...after all he is in high school. once he gets to college, perspectives will likely change


    of course!!! need to have fun while it lasts tho icon_smile.gif
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    Feb 13, 2012 1:14 PM GMT
    mizu5 said
    NJDewd said
    mizu5 said18 and 23? I dont see an issue.

    did he JUST turn 18?

    I mean 18 and in HS would be a redflag for me, depending on the reason.


    I was 18 and in HS cause my bday is in Sept. I would have provided other red flags for you though!
    What why were you in HS then? grade 13? I was only 18 ebcause my bday is in feb.. so I turned 18 while in grade 12.

    Actually I should have been in the class following but my parents wanted me out da house ;) so they petitioned to allow me into the class I shouldnt have been in.
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    Feb 13, 2012 2:55 PM GMT
    I've done it before.

    At a certain point age is just a number if you find each other interesting. Having friends in common REALLY HELPS too, since they would have waved one of you off if it was such a bad idea from a detached perspective.

    Just don't have great expectations about where this is going. Have fun with it and don't take it too seriously too soon. Just realize most 18 year olds can't even spell monogamous relationship, much less understand what it means.