We broke up on Valetine's day!

  • manny_89

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    Feb 13, 2012 4:29 PM GMT
    Devastated!. icon_cry.gif

    What a day to do it!

    It took me a while to accept this but then, tomorrow is Valetines! icon_evil.gif
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    Feb 13, 2012 4:57 PM GMT
    manny1989 saidDevastated!. icon_cry.gif

    What a day to do it!

    It took me a while to accept this but then, tomorrow is Valetines! icon_evil.gif



    oh that was last year right, i think that day past so now find a new valentines, ugh why do people cling so much to the pasticon_rolleyes.gif
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    Feb 13, 2012 4:58 PM GMT
    You move on man. Yes I know thats easier said than done, but people make such a big deal about Valentines day. When I am with someone, I dont need a special day to shower them with affection. I do that because I love them, not because it is February 14th.

    When you realize this, you realize why no one should really care about V day.

    Chin up, grab some popcorn, and watch a scary movie. Thats what I do on Valentines day. I prefer something where tons of hot men get slaughtered. Its...welll..hawt!
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    Feb 13, 2012 5:51 PM GMT
    It wasn't on Valentine's Day. It was on February 13, which is just a normal day.

    But you should have been protected by "The Breakup Window".
    http://abc.go.com/shows/happy-endings/episode-detail/the-st-valentines-day-maxssacre/922880
    "The "breakup window" is that period of time around holidays and major events when you simply can't dump someone."

    But would you have enjoyed a Valentine's Day with a guy who wasn't happy being with you? And then for him to break up with you right afterward?
  • SoDakGuy

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    Feb 13, 2012 5:59 PM GMT
    My Grandma's funeral was on Valentine's Day. So ... here's the thing ... the next couple of years, it's gonna hurt, but after awhile, it will subside.

    I'm guessing you're now in a better place than you were a year ago. Be grateful for that and hey! You'll someday meet someone.
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    Feb 13, 2012 6:51 PM GMT
    manny1989 saidDevastated!. icon_cry.gif

    What a day to do it!

    It took me a while to accept this but then, tomorrow is Valetines! icon_evil.gif

    How long ago? How long had you been together? Living together or dating?

    I've been devastated by many things in my life, as have many others here. Difficult to judge and relate to your devastation with so little info.
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    Feb 13, 2012 6:59 PM GMT
    i broke up with my last boyfriend on valentines day two years ago. I had tried ending it 2 previous times and well went to see him for valentines and just couldn't take it anymore.

    so it happens..

    just be practical.. not going to get anywhere by feeling sorry for yourself

  • manny_89

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    Feb 13, 2012 8:37 PM GMT

    archon
    so true!!! and YES that was last year.



    chainers
    that's a good idea! just a day, just an oridarny day icon_biggrin.gif



    skinnybitch

    I never heard of such a thing before! but what you say is very true. being with a dumbass that makes you feel like shit is not worth it!


    sodarkguy

    Thank God I am in a better place now! I just started to remember that day, so I guess it affected me a little bit icon_neutral.gif

    art_deco

    Well, we were together for 3 years and half, and we were also living together. but then we always had trust issues and I just got to a point where I couldnt take it anymore and I had to " put my weapons down "

    zsocerstar

    not getting anywhere! its just the day! icon_neutral.gif



    I didnt think I would get responses. thanks guys!
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    Feb 13, 2012 8:47 PM GMT
    So instead of looking at it as a reminder of something bad, look at it as a celebration of something you overcame and all the new possibilities that are available to you now. Look forward, not back.
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    Feb 13, 2012 8:49 PM GMT
    onaquest saidSo instead of looking at it as a reminder of something bad, look at it as a celebration of something you overcame and all the new possibilities that are available to you now. Look forward, not back.

    agreed. aren't you glad you were out of that relationship a year ago? !!!
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    Feb 13, 2012 8:54 PM GMT
    OMG YOUR EXISTENCE IS POINTLESS AND FUTILE YOUR ALWAYS GOING TO BE ALONE BECAUSE NO BODY WANTS YOU!!!

    manny1989 saidDevastated!. icon_cry.gif

    What a day to do it!

    It took me a while to accept this but then, tomorrow is Valetines! icon_evil.gif

    How did he break up with you on valentines day when it's tomorrow?

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    Feb 13, 2012 9:01 PM GMT
    manny1989 said
    I didnt think I would get responses. thanks guys!


    Ooh formatting. Thanks for taking the time! +1 to organization
  • MrPapo317

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    Feb 13, 2012 10:17 PM GMT
    Broke up with my Ex on his birthday couple weeks back. i kinda felt it coming. Still was kinda crappy. Since i was sensing it coming i thought it was going to be around valentines day
  • manny_89

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    Feb 13, 2012 10:44 PM GMT
    onaquest You are right! thank you!

    ythings I feel better now =)

    lilTanker I meant... Last year.

    SkinnyBitch Yes! thumps up

    Shawnathan Mother's day! wow! no card needed!

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    Feb 14, 2012 12:40 AM GMT
    Single guys: Doesn't matter (whimper)
    Coupled guys: Awwwww, my boo boo got me the sweetest thing EVAH!! <3333333!11!!
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    Feb 14, 2012 2:45 AM GMT
    I think you should spend time with your family or friends who can keep you involved in something other than the whole valentine's day vibe.
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    Feb 14, 2012 3:25 AM GMT

    I think we should all give you hugs Manny.

    *HUG*

    It won't change anything, but it might get you feeling a little better, eh? icon_wink.gif
  • manny_89

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    Feb 14, 2012 4:04 AM GMT
    ricky1987 saidI think you should spend time with your family or friends who can keep you involved in something other than the whole valentine's day vibe.


    thank you! it will be a bit hard but I will be okay! icon_wink.gif
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    Feb 14, 2012 6:59 AM GMT
    Man, it's hard being in a relationship, especially one that already has a weak foundation and is just ready to crumble any moment; during the holidays.

    I almost RATHER be single around this time, than to be with someone who is half ass...
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    Feb 14, 2012 7:14 AM GMT
    TallJock saidMan, it's hard being in a relationship, especially one that already has a weak foundation and is just ready to crumble any moment; during the holidays.

    I almost RATHER be single around this time, than to be with someone who is half ass...


    Well said at least you can do what you want and not have to consult your other half? Relationships can restrict?

    happy Valentines Day!
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    Feb 14, 2012 7:24 AM GMT
    Chainers saidYou move on man. Yes I know thats easier said than done, but people make such a big deal about Valentines day. When I am with someone, I dont need a special day to shower them with affection. I do that because I love them, not because it is February 14th.

    When you realize this, you realize why no one should really care about V day.

    Chin up, grab some popcorn, and watch a scary movie. Thats what I do on Valentines day. I prefer something where tons of hot men get slaughtered. Its...welll..hawt!


    Vday isn't just about showing someone affection. its a day that you go out and do something above and beyond for that someone special. it makes you step back and really think about the other person. you can't do that shit every fucking day. its time consuming and expensive.
  • Rawrdo

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    Feb 14, 2012 7:36 AM GMT
    AvadaKedavra said

    Vday isn't just about showing someone affection. its a day that you go out and do something above and beyond for that someone special. it makes you step back and really think about the other person. you can't do that shit every fucking day. its time consuming and expensive.


    THIS. SO. MUCH.
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    Feb 14, 2012 7:48 AM GMT
    f v-day.
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    Feb 14, 2012 7:57 AM GMT
    Count your blessings.
    You'll realized you dodged a bullet. I guy who's willing to break up on V-day is a guy that you should be thankful is no longer in your life.
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    Feb 14, 2012 8:17 AM GMT
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