Oh what to say what to say.....

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    Feb 13, 2012 11:52 PM GMT
    I love to go clubbing in Austin (The live music capital of the country people! YEAH BUDDY!!!) with my friends but i only have a few gay friends because im fairly new to the gay world. I want to get to know a few more attractive guys. I want to step out of that normal circle of friends and meet new people, not that i dont like hanging out with my friends but im a very social person and i like to get to meet new people. Could anyone help me with how i would start a convo with a very attractive guy im looking at several feet away from me? I want to know how to get past the awkward moment of trying to start a convo with someone.
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    Feb 13, 2012 11:54 PM GMT
    Notice something interesting about him. It could be superficial or not but thats the only way to break the ice.
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    Feb 14, 2012 12:09 AM GMT
    I just want to start a convo not comment on his clothes lol
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    Feb 14, 2012 12:16 AM GMT
    :O lol my reaction to that was literally :O lol. And with a smile and a chuckle. But seriously i want to get to know and befriend a hot guy. icon_razz.gif
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    Feb 14, 2012 12:21 AM GMT
    JCdenton said:O lol my reaction to that was literally :O lol. And with a smile and a chuckle. But seriously i want to get to know and befriend a hot guy. icon_razz.gif


    Child,listen up

    I'll repeat again. Notice something interesting about him, superficial or not, approach him and make a comment. You can also confess that you're not really good at opening dialogues but something about him that makes you want to get to know him.

    Whether or not he'll take your gesture is up to him but if he still declines in establishing friendship , just smile, say thanks and move to on.

    You're a cute kid so I don't think you'll have a problem.

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    Feb 14, 2012 12:23 AM GMT
    Telling him im not the best at starting conversations would be a big help. Thanks for that.
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    Feb 14, 2012 12:26 AM GMT
    Desiring more than just a physical attraction before putting out isn't prude. I see it as having standards and self-respect.


    AMoonHawk saidjust walk up to him and smile and say, "your hot, i'm hot .... want to fuck?" ... oh ya ... that was the 80's .. sorry ... you youngsters are a lot more prude now days.
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    Feb 14, 2012 12:28 AM GMT
    Forgot to add.

    Isn't the gay street in Austin 6th? From what I can remember during my weekend visits while in tech school, that was pretty much the place to be. As far as a convo starter? That's pretty easy dude. "Go Aggies!"
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    Feb 14, 2012 12:29 AM GMT
    I have standards, i just want to get to know a guy because ive never been the best at getting to know jocks.
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    Feb 14, 2012 12:30 AM GMT
    Actually the gay street is 4th
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    Feb 14, 2012 12:30 AM GMT
    If the comment had been directed at you, I could understand your reply. But...........

    JCdenton saidI have standards, i just want to get to know a guy because ive never been the best at getting to know jocks.
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    Feb 14, 2012 12:30 AM GMT
    Them damn gays and their even numbers! Nothing is sacred anymore!

    JCdenton saidActually the gay street is 4th
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    Feb 14, 2012 12:31 AM GMT
    JCdenton saidTelling him im not the best at starting conversations would be a big help. Thanks for that.


    I actually usually ask people where they are from...I know a lot about places (in your case it will be local) and people love to talk about their town! You can ask if they like it there, if they thought about moving, etc. A good initial foray I think. Good luck but you wont need much of that!
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    Feb 14, 2012 12:35 AM GMT
    JCdenton saidTelling him im not the best at starting conversations would be a big help. Thanks for that.


    Well it'll make him think that you're being cute and he'll help to add further to what now is a beginning of a conversation.

    Gee whiz kid you're a clueless babe aren't ya.
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    Feb 14, 2012 12:50 AM GMT
    lol im fairly new to the gay world and i have many things to learn still.
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    Feb 14, 2012 12:55 AM GMT
    JCdenton saidlol im fairly new to the gay world and i have many things to learn still.


    Someone who lives in Austin...Take him as their Padawan! icon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
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    Feb 14, 2012 12:57 AM GMT
    I actually have a friend who i hang out with and he introduced me to clubbing and the gay world.
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    Feb 14, 2012 12:58 AM GMT
    Ask him what hes drinking, and if he recommends it?
    Or ask him if he dances.. silly shit, then take it from there.. if theres natural chemistry itll just flow.

    it's worked for me.
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    Feb 14, 2012 1:00 AM GMT
    Hikari saidAsk him what hes drinking, and if he recommends it?
    Or ask him if he dances.. silly shit, then take it from there.. if theres natural chemistry itll just flow.


    Your right about that.
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    Feb 14, 2012 1:16 AM GMT
    JCdenton saidI love to go clubbing in Austin (The live music capital of the country people! YEAH BUDDY!!!) with my friends but i only have a few gay friends because im fairly new to the gay world. I want to get to know a few more attractive guys. I want to step out of that normal circle of friends and meet new people, not that i dont like hanging out with my friends but im a very social person and i like to get to meet new people. Could anyone help me with how i would start a convo with a very attractive guy im looking at several feet away from me? I want to know how to get past the awkward moment of trying to start a convo with someone.

    What would you want someone to say who approached you in a club? Now just turn it around and use the same mindset to think of something to say to him.
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    Feb 14, 2012 1:18 AM GMT
    K... the banner ad I'm getting on this thread is for discount tutu's. WTF are you guys talking about? icon_confused.gif
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    Feb 14, 2012 1:20 AM GMT
    Well i would want the guy who approached me to say something first.
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    Feb 14, 2012 1:27 AM GMT
    A common one people use and I sometimes use the technique of pretending you know them from somewhere but can't tell where. It's always a good icebreaker when you really can't figure out another way to say hey.
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    Feb 14, 2012 1:29 AM GMT
    ConfederateGhost saidForgot to add.

    Isn't the gay street in Austin 6th? From what I can remember during my weekend visits while in tech school, that was pretty much the place to be. As far as a convo starter? That's pretty easy dude. "Go Aggies!"



    GIGem Aggies!!
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    Feb 14, 2012 1:32 AM GMT
    oh my gawd lol no aggie vs. longhorns fight on my forum! And pretending i think i know them would be super awkward for me especially if i had nothing to say after that!