How was your day?

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    Feb 15, 2012 5:00 AM GMT
    When ever someone ask me how my day was I give a quick summary and then ask them how their day was.

    For some reason the last guy I dated and a guy who I'm interested in never ask me how my day was after I asked them about theirs.

    I know it sounds a little selfish on my part but does any one find this as a little rude or do most people find this happening to them?
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    Feb 15, 2012 5:25 AM GMT
    I don't tell people my day unless they ask or if I feel I need to talk about it for some reason/vent.

    I don't ask people about their day because its none of my business unless they want to tell me about their day/vent.

    It probably comes off as a "he doesn't care" kind of thing but meh, its just the way I am when it comes to that kind of thing. icon_neutral.gif
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    Feb 15, 2012 5:26 AM GMT
    My days are all the same. No point in asking me. icon_lol.gificon_confused.gif
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    Feb 15, 2012 5:27 AM GMT
    Tell them, without provocation, that your day sucked and you wish you had never even been born.
    Guilt trips FTW. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Feb 15, 2012 11:32 PM GMT
    I have always felt it was selfish to tell people about things that happen in my day without giving them a chance to share first.

    Never ask my co-workers since I am with them all day so I know what is going on. Also who's better to vent to or discuss things that are on your mind then your partner or someone you are intimate with?
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    Feb 15, 2012 11:43 PM GMT
    ^ Sorry but that sounds like something a child/immature guy would say.

    Did do it w. my ex and he just never shared with me but was happy to do it with his family over the phone. Guess seeing the same thing happen again does bother/worry me some.
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    Feb 15, 2012 11:45 PM GMT
    I generally use "how was your day" as a preamble to talking about something else... I don't typically care how their day was only inasmuch as, like xrichx said above, people's days are usually the same day to day. But it's a way of beginning a conversation about something more weighty.
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    Feb 15, 2012 11:51 PM GMT
    I always ask my bf how his day went. I never assume that his day was uneventful, and I really do care if he had a bad day or a good day at work.
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    Feb 16, 2012 1:14 AM GMT
    my day started terrible todayicon_evil.gif but i fixed iticon_biggrin.gif
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    Feb 16, 2012 1:15 AM GMT
    Pretty damn good so far. Can't complain and I have full expectations of it getting better. It's not ever day I find $300. 00 on the street.
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    Feb 16, 2012 4:06 PM GMT
    ^ See even though it is not much it is nice to hear about hows someone's day was and what they took away from it.