sanjose470 said28 years old: never been on a date, never kissed, never had any sort of relationship status, never actually had a conversion with a Guy about me being gay face to face. Wth is wrong with me?
Since everyone I know went on a date tonight for Valentine's day it just got me thinking about it.
I know I'm shy but I think its also fear of taking the first step.
Just a hunch, but you might be getting a little crowded by your existing set of friends. Supporting and helping them with their varied needs and interests may crowd out yours, especially if they're not contributing in kind. If so, try to communicate a need for a little space during your free time.
I wouldn't suggest looking to RJ for matches if you were in some faraway locale, but I can't imagine there's not one good guy for you in the SiliValley area on here. Strike up more platonic chats with local guys on here and decide if you want to meet more formally after a few chats.
One other thought... if you're not doing so already, is to consider putting in some volunteer time at local LGBT-supportive places like the DeFrank Center. Probably plenty of supportive people there, plus you'll make a difference for others, and there's probably some pretty good avenues to find dates with fellow gay fans of Sharks/Quakes/MMA/cycling/W's/Niners/etc.