Cumming inside your Bottom

  • H0TChocolate

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    Feb 15, 2012 6:38 PM GMT
    I've recently starting bottoming for this guy and even though it wasn't my first time it had been a while since doing so. We went very slowly, he wore a condom and everything was great; however, he began to cum (with the condom on) inside of me. He asked me to remain very still while he pulled out but the fact that he came inside of me made me slightly uncomfortable.

    My question is, is it common for tops to cum inside of their bottom? Usually with other guy I bottomed for he pulled out and came on my chest or something. I just feel like if you cum inside the condom while still in someone's ass you have to be so careful not to break/spill/or leak anything out while ejecting and it just adds extra risk. What do u guys think?
  • BlueMoose

    Posts: 237

    Feb 15, 2012 9:32 PM GMT
    I think it's fine to cum inside a condoms, just need to pull the condom out slowly while holding base tightly to prevent it from coming out. This is common practice and safe.
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    Feb 17, 2012 2:53 AM GMT
    Yeah, cumming inside is common. Though be careful here in Baltimore; the HIV rate among men who have sex with men is 37.5%. That's too risky to me. I just don't get laid.
  • el_pdm

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    Feb 17, 2012 7:03 PM GMT
    there is a much lower risk of transferring stds when using condoms. This is even if your partner comes inside you. It is a lower risk but not risk free.

    It is good that you are concerned about condoms tearing etc. It shows you are protecting yourself. If you are not comfortable with a guy coming in your ass then tell him not to. He should respect this.

    I have often been the bottom and used to let guys come inside me. This was always with condoms but the paranoia I sometimes had after made me wonder if it was worth it.

    It added worries to what would otherwise have been good sex! The top I found tended not to mind either icon_smile.gif
  • Soccorjock95

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    Mar 18, 2012 6:27 PM GMT
    i love my top to cum in me raw.. such an amazing feeling! but do answer ur question, unless the condom broke u have like no chance of getting an std or anything
    and i think its really common for the top to cum inside the bottom.. all the guys ive been with have done that
  • jackthejock

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    Mar 19, 2012 8:28 AM GMT
    I guess when I top I like to cum inside because then I'm coming in the moment. If I stop and pull out and then cum the orgasm just isn't as satisfying...but I am in a monogamous relationship and we got tested before we had sex for the first time and then got tested 6 months later just to be safe (and then stopped using condoms)
  • jackthejock

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    Mar 19, 2012 6:14 PM GMT
    Also I think it matters where he cums outside of the condom too. In porn a lot of the times you see guys pull out, take off the condom and then cum all over the guys ass or lower me that seems riskier for spreading an STD than cumming inside of a condom and then taking it off.
  • sampson12

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    Mar 23, 2014 5:25 PM GMT
    First you have a right to be concerned but it should be understood by both the top and you the bottom that you do not feel comfortable with him cumming inside of you withor without a condom, the top heeds to respect your choice,personally I like to cum inside the cum while I'm still inside of the bottom but if that is not his wish then I can respect as all tops should.
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    Mar 23, 2014 5:34 PM GMT
    Its so common to cum inside, with a condom on, that you need to tell your partner to take the extra step before hand.
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    Mar 25, 2014 12:16 AM GMT
    i love it when a guy cums inside…for me it tells me i did a good job lol
    I've never been a fan of the whole "breeding" or "bareback" thing… I've had guys who insisted on having sex bareback…but i always end up walking away from it lol