Is It Bad I Am Wanting Some One Stable

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    Feb 17, 2012 11:06 PM GMT
    is it bad that i want someone to stable financially like to go out to dinner with and them be able to pay the bill sometimes by no means do i want sugar daddy but i have expectations is that normal ?
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    Feb 17, 2012 11:31 PM GMT
    Financial stability is an unreasonable expectation.
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    Feb 18, 2012 12:47 AM GMT
    Money talks, nobody walks. There's no shame in wanting a loaded dude.
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    Feb 18, 2012 1:12 AM GMT
    Say it with me "Its ok to be a hooker."
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    Feb 18, 2012 1:17 AM GMT
    There's nothing wrong to hope for a guy to be financially stable, but there might be something wrong to throw away a perfectly good guy just because he's broke as shit.
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    Feb 18, 2012 1:22 AM GMT
    If you're financially stable, then yes, it's ok to want another guy who's also stable.
    If you're not, then you're just a fucking mooch.
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    Feb 18, 2012 1:28 AM GMT
    Scottyrvalentine saidis it bad that i want someone to stable financially like to go out to dinner with and them be able to pay the bill sometimes by no means do i want sugar daddy but i have expectations is that normal ?


    Absolutely! What must you do go after parasites?
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    Feb 18, 2012 1:35 AM GMT
    Sometimes the answer to the question posted for a thread is so fcuking obvious that I really wonder what's up with the OP.
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    Feb 18, 2012 1:35 AM GMT
    At one point I was a broke kid. And now, I make a decent living. You never know the earning potential of the guy you like. Follow your heart.
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    Feb 18, 2012 1:38 AM GMT
    Scottyrvalentine saidis it bad that i want someone to stable financially like to go out to dinner with and them be able to pay the bill sometimes by no means do i want sugar daddy but i have expectations is that normal ?


    There is nothing wrong with that. It seems quite reasonable to me; I'd like the same thing myself. However, you yourself would be more likely to remain financially stable if you learned how to write sentences properly. Here is a suggested revision:

    "Is it bad that I want someone financially stable to go out to dinner with, who is able to pay the bill, and will sometimes do so? I by no means want a sugar daddy, but I do have expectations. Is that normal?"
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    Feb 18, 2012 3:29 AM GMT
    Maybe you'd attract the right person if you knew how to use punctuation, understood sentence structure, and didn't post while under the influence.
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    Feb 18, 2012 3:31 AM GMT
    Depends - are you financially stable? If so, then, I'd say it's reasonable.
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    Feb 18, 2012 9:08 AM GMT
    I had a bartender friend of mine who said he had three requirements a guy had ot meet before he wouuld date them: he called them the four C's: car, career, checking account and credit card. In his opinion thise four things together demonstrated at least a basic level of financial responsibility, intellectual activity and independence. I completely agree with him and have used those standards ever since.
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    Feb 18, 2012 10:38 AM GMT
    I guess it depends on your definition of financially stable. If all you really want is some equality and the relationship then it's probably a good thing, right? But if you're expecting someone with significantly more money than you have that might be a problem. And not just because very few people actually have a lot of money but because of the disparity between your two financial statuses
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    Feb 18, 2012 11:59 AM GMT
    If our brains are truly wired more like a females than a hetrosexual man's then it would make perfect sense.

    What's wrong with wanting someone who can look after you ? Not bad at all mate.
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    Feb 18, 2012 12:18 PM GMT
    yeah, i'm waiting for a guy with a stable too... dudes who own horses are usually loaded
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    Feb 18, 2012 12:20 PM GMT
    whateveryo saidIf our brains are truly wired more like a females than a hetrosexual man's then it would make perfect sense.

    What's wrong with wanting someone who can look after you ? Not bad at all mate.


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    Feb 18, 2012 12:22 PM GMT
    adam228 said
    whateveryo saidIf our brains are truly wired more like a females than a hetrosexual man's then it would make perfect sense.

    What's wrong with wanting someone who can look after you ? Not bad at all mate.


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    Feb 18, 2012 1:47 PM GMT
    As others have said already, I think it's perfectly legit to look for someone who is financially stable. Nothing wrong with wanting someone who is capable of paying and taking care of themselves. However, as someone here also said, you shouldn't necessarily cut them out of the race immediately. Sometimes people do hit bad patches down the road of life. I would say observe the situation and see if the person in question has intentions of being able to provide for themselves i.e. they get a job or seek a better one or see if they are being gold diggers and seeking a sugar daddy.

    If they are fine with what they make and feel they don't need to pull their own weight in a relationship then I would suggest not being them unless you willing want to take care of them.