Rules of RJ

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    Feb 18, 2012 10:54 PM GMT
    A few I have noticed. Please add more so that we all know what is expected of us:

    *If you can't create perfectly clever MEMES - yer not allowed to be Gay anymore.

    *You can take your shirt off as long as you don't have a BF. Otherwise you are asking to be gang-fucked and you are obviously a whore.

    *If someone dies and they did not have any relevance in YOUR life - NO ONE should care about them. Ever.

    *If you are 19 and not coupled - you are Forever Alone.

    *The less likely you are to leave your room the more likely you are to know exactly what EVERYONE else is doing wrong with their lives.


    Feel free to add any others. The best ones will be published in the new upcoming addition of the Gay Agenda.

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    Feb 18, 2012 11:01 PM GMT
    Whereas each member of RJ has his own personal and unique life situation and circumstances, and

    Whereas society can still be a dangerous place for some gays, and

    Whereas it is none of your fucking business why in the first place,

    Still, every member is required to mention, point out, criticize, ridicule and in every other way question and demean another member for not having a face pic on display in the forums.

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    Feb 18, 2012 11:11 PM GMT
    Whereas repeatedly quoting a posting simply repeats the material over and over, and...

    Whereas repeating the same material over and over results in vastly enlongated indented posts, and...

    Whereas it is almost impossible to match up the statements with the indented author after a while.

    Still, every member is expected to just keep repeatedly quoting posting over and over without editing out the old material and only leaving the last response to go with your reply.

    For example:

    Blackguy4you said
    NNJfitandbi said
    Blackguy4you said
    NNJfitandbi said
    Blackguy4you said
    NNJfitandbi said
    Blackguy4you said
    NNJfitandbi said
    Blackguy4you said
    NNJfitandbi said
    phemt saidOne reason cheating is wrong is because is it unfair. By cheating you are allowing yourself to have sex with other people while the other person thinks he/she is playing by the orignal monogamist agreement. I can unstand an one time "accident", but to repeatively cheat and to know you will do so in future is out right WRONG! It Dosn't matter if you are bi, str8 or gay.Not only are you lying to your partner but you are playing double standards. Maybe your partner also has desires to have sex with other people, but has not acted on it because he/she is playing by the rules you orginally agreed on (i.e., monogamist relationship).


    This is exactly true. It is clear-headed and not hysterical. It doesn't make the claim that cheating is something that no sane person would do, or that to do so makes someone beneath the scum of the earth. Cheating is wrong, unfair, hurtful, all of those things. It risks emotional pain and is a breach of trust.

    So are many, many, many other things that people do in relationships. (Arguably, a spouse who cheats safely is endangering his spouse less than if he drinks and drives with her, or talks on a cell phone or texts while driving.) They are all wrong, terrible, hurtful. And yet people stay together despite them.

    My gripe with some of the posters here (and it's only some) is that they create this bogeyman and know nothing whatsoever of his circumstances. Marriage has barely existed in the gay world. As more and more gay people have married families with children, gay people will better understand what is wrong about cheating on a lawful spouse, just what a private violation it is, just how hurtful, just how awful. And just how human.

    But you can't -- you shouldn't -- just walk out on a marriage. So you have to deal with these things. And I'm just not prepared to say that anyone who commits adultery is beneath contempt. If true, then beneath contempt are a bunch of my friends, coworkers, relatives, etc. And me, too. And I'm telling you now, it means a bunch of everyone's friends, coworkers, relatives.

    What I think we have here, more than anything, is anger at bisexual men because for some people, they bring up issues, just like gay people bring up issues for homophobic men. For some reason, the sexuality of others can elicit very emotional responses in people, and turn ordinarily good people into self-righteous prigs.

    My contention: the reaction to bisexuality among some gays is of a piece with homophobia. Both are emotional, and not based on reason. They come from a primitive, self-defensive, fearful place within us.


    This is such a bunch of bull that I don't even know where to beginicon_exclaim.gif
    Let me say this - There is no excuse for cheatingicon_exclaim.gif None!


    Give me a break. Who is excusing cheating?


    You are! Read your posts!



    Not too carefully.


    Perhaps I wasn't clear enuff on my earlier post. So let me rephrase

    You are! Read your own posts and you will clearly see what I'm talking about about when I said you are attempting to justify cheating


    See, you miss the point again and again and again. Things are black and white to you. I'm not justifying anything. I'm trying to point out that there are contexts for things, and that it's really not anyone's business to judge a man based on imperfect behavior. I read a book once by a rabbi to who told a woman to have an extramarrital affair. I'm sure you would say she was "scum." She certainly was deceiving her husband. But guess what, if you looked at her situation compassionately, you could see why she did what she did, and with the rabbi's blessing.

    If he was cheating on you, I guess I could understand your anger. But he's not. And you sound like a fool to me.
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    Feb 18, 2012 11:11 PM GMT
    It all comes down to Madonna vs. Gaga. Always know what side you are on and stay there. And to those who like neither, stop derailing the thread.
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    Feb 18, 2012 11:14 PM GMT
    - No one will pay attention to you on the forums, unless you act like a douchebag. Maximum douchebag = maximum hawtness!!

    - If you're over 25, you're considered an old creeper.

    - If an attractive guy looks at your profile more than once, he's trying to flirt with you. If he's not attractive, then he's stalking you.

    - If you don't own a Mac and/or an iphone, then you're not truly gay.
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    Feb 18, 2012 11:14 PM GMT
    Whereas thread postings are quick, extemporaneous remarks, and

    Whereas it is a common misspelling phenomenon to mistype certain words in haste, such as: there/they're/their and your/you're for mental reasons yet unexplained,

    Still, every member is requrie to cite and report each such misspelling, as if it reflects on the spelling ability, intelligence, or education of the author of such typos.
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    Feb 18, 2012 11:16 PM GMT
    The first rule of RJ is..
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    Feb 18, 2012 11:17 PM GMT
    Cash said A few I have noticed. Please add more so that we all know what is expected of us:

    *If you can't create perfectly clever MEMES - yer not allowed to be Gay anymore.

    *You can take your shirt off as long as you don't have a BF. Otherwise you are asking to be gang-fucked and you are obviously a whore.

    *If someone dies and they did not have any relevance in YOUR life - NO ONE should care about them. Ever.

    *If you are 19 and not coupled - you are Forever Alone.

    *The less likely you are to leave your room the more likely you are to know exactly what EVERYONE else is doing wrong with their lives.


    Feel free to add any others. The best ones will be published in the new upcoming addition of the Gay Agenda.



    Hmmm, must be me.
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    Feb 18, 2012 11:18 PM GMT
    adam228 saidThe first rule of RJ is..

    Rule #1: You can not address Caslon directly until you've reached a thousand posts.

    ...everybody knows that.




    NO adress Caslon  'til thousand posts!!1!




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    Feb 18, 2012 11:22 PM GMT
    Caslon18453 said
    adam228 saidThe first rule of RJ is..

    Rule #1: You can not address Caslon directly until you've reached a thousand posts.

    ...everybody knows that.


    You can however communicate your points using cat pictures and interpretive dance icon_cool.gif
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    Feb 18, 2012 11:25 PM GMT
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    Cash said
    Hmmm, must be me.


    *Any general post descibing a general thought about no one in particular is genrally specifically about YOU.
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    Feb 18, 2012 11:28 PM GMT
    Cash said
    7Famark said
    Cash said
    Hmmm, must be me.


    *Any general post descibing a general thought about no one in particular is genrally specifically about YOU.


    K, meow...was kidding...
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    Feb 18, 2012 11:29 PM GMT
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    Caslon18453 said
    adam228 saidThe first rule of RJ is..

    Rule #1: You can not address Caslon directly until you've reached a thousand posts.

    ...everybody knows that.


    You can however communicate your points using cat pictures and interpretive dance icon_cool.gif


    or both....

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    Feb 18, 2012 11:34 PM GMT
    Caslon18453 said
    MsclDrew said
    Caslon18453 said
    adam228 saidThe first rule of RJ is..

    Rule #1: You can not address Caslon directly until you've reached a thousand posts.

    ...everybody knows that.


    You can however communicate your points using cat pictures and interpretive dance icon_cool.gif


    or both....

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    I'm sensing a pragmatic commentary on the role of midgets in 16th century haberdashery?
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    Feb 18, 2012 11:42 PM GMT
    MsclDrew said
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    I'm sensing a pragmatic commentary on the role of midgets in 16th century haberdashery?

    Close... but it's titled: "Did Someone say "Caslon"?"


    ....and this, children, is how you hijack a thread. ... icon_wink.gif
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    Feb 18, 2012 11:58 PM GMT
    Hmm...

    *if your post count is under four digits, your threads/posts are irrelevant

    *You MUST post in the 'guy above you' threads, or you are not a real RJer

    *A twink isn't a twink unless they are gold digging whores with daddy issues

    *You MUST have at least ONE picture wearing leather or you're not a real gay

    *All men over fifty CLEARLY want to jerk off with twinks (herp derp icon_razz.gif)





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    Feb 18, 2012 11:59 PM GMT
    Caslon18453 said
    MsclDrew said
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    I'm sensing a pragmatic commentary on the role of midgets in 16th century haberdashery?

    Close... but it's titled: "Did Someone say "Caslon"?"


    ....and this, children, is how you hijack a thread. ... icon_wink.gif


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    Feb 19, 2012 12:02 AM GMT
    *Race wars will always end badly.

    *If you are black or Asian, you must start a thread lamenting your perceived position in the pecking order of dating

    *You cannot be a Christian and gay
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    Feb 19, 2012 12:16 AM GMT
    - Maybe that new post in a thread you posted in is quoting your post? Hurry click on it and see! D'awww too bad icon_sad.gif

    - If someone likes something different to what you like it is a DIRECT attack on what you like and you MUST retaliate immediately by trashing them for what they like.

    - If somebody bad mouths a celebrity you like you MUST trash them or else that means you don't really like that celebrity and they'll find out and they won't like you.

    - How long a post we're willing to tolerate from you is directly proportional to your hotness and or popularity.

    - Do you have a a crush on a straight guy? We would really be interested in a lengthy and detailed explanation about that situation.

    - Dumb ignorant post? Don't sweat it you're hot bro!

    - Interesting insightful post from no pics newb? How the fuck are we supposed to understand what your words mean without images of what you look like?

    - Average stranger buddy lists you? The FUCK, this isn't Facebook! We're not friends! Please understand how rude you are acting.

    -Hot stranger buddy lists you? Thanks for the list bro! So how's it goin buddy? Do you Skype?
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    Feb 19, 2012 2:12 AM GMT
    No socializing on a social site. Dems da rulz icon_neutral.gif
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    Feb 19, 2012 2:18 AM GMT
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    Claystation saidNo socializing on a social site. Dems da rulz icon_neutral.gif


    Huh??? icon_confused.gif


    Dont talk to me. What do you think this is, a social site? Send private messages and dont spam the threads with conversation. You get one post per thread so dont waste it icon_biggrin.gif
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    Feb 19, 2012 2:19 AM GMT
    Claystation saidNo socializing on a social site. Dems da rulz icon_neutral.gif


    OMG!!!! Take it to PM will ya?!?!?!?!??!?!!
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    Feb 19, 2012 2:20 AM GMT
    Cash said
    Claystation saidNo socializing on a social site. Dems da rulz icon_neutral.gif


    OMG!!!! Take it to PM will ya?!?!?!?!??!?!!


    Stop addressing me icon_mad.gif
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    Feb 19, 2012 2:28 AM GMT
    Ariodante said- Maybe that new post in a thread you posted in is quoting your post? Hurry click on it and see! D'awww too bad icon_sad.gif
    Or it's a troll icon_mad.gif
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    Feb 19, 2012 2:53 AM GMT
    Rising above the passive-aggressiveness...

    * You can want to be MotD, you're just not allowed to SAY you want to be MotD