How Well Do Know Him B4 SEX?

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    Feb 19, 2012 12:24 AM GMT
    Just curious, how well do you get to know a guy before the horizontal mambo ?
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    Feb 19, 2012 4:15 AM GMT
    LOL.
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    Feb 19, 2012 4:21 AM GMT
    My shortest time between meeting and hitting the sheets was one week. icon_redface.gif
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    Feb 19, 2012 4:29 AM GMT
    Oh, oh oh oh oh! Pick me! I know what this is from... "Shit my lesbian girlfriend says to gay guys"

    Ok, just kidding. But still, this is kind of silly to be asking.

    Ask a Canadian?


    KNOW HIS FAVORITE DRINK
    IF HE'S A SMOKER
    WHERE HE PARKED;
    OR DINNER AND A MOVIE
    DAYS SPENT TALKING AND TEXTING
    AND MEETING HIS FRIENDS;
    SERIOUS.
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    Feb 19, 2012 4:34 AM GMT
    sashaman saidMy shortest time between meeting and hitting the sheets was one week. icon_redface.gif


    Wait. Back-up. The shortest amount of time you've ever had between meeting a guy and having sex is One Week?
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    Feb 19, 2012 4:37 AM GMT
    During my early dating days all I needed to know was his name.....now I'm told I give job interviews...icon_biggrin.gif
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    Feb 19, 2012 4:40 AM GMT
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    sashaman saidMy shortest time between meeting and hitting the sheets was one week. icon_redface.gif


    Wait. Back-up. The shortest amount of time you've ever had between meeting a guy and having sex is One Week?


    Yeah. Is that bad? icon_lol.gif Most of my friends had at least a few one nighters but I usually waited about a month or so. One week was fast for me!
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    Feb 19, 2012 4:40 AM GMT
    malefeet saidDuring my early dating days all I needed to know was his name.....now I'm told I give job interviews...icon_biggrin.gif


    Oh come on. I bet a few slipped by with just a smile and no names exchanged! icon_wink.gif
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    Feb 19, 2012 4:45 AM GMT
    hellurs saidJust curious, how well do you get to know a guy before the horizontal mambo ?


    that he has a penis and that it will be inside me at some point.
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    Feb 19, 2012 4:58 AM GMT
    sashaman said
    malefeet saidDuring my early dating days all I needed to know was his name.....now I'm told I give job interviews...icon_biggrin.gif


    Oh come on. I bet a few slipped by with just a smile and no names exchanged! icon_wink.gif


    Nope...being the sentimental type of guy that I am....I always needed a name and a phone number...written on everything from a piece of paper towel to a matchbook, business card....etc...to put away in a scrapbook. almost 30 years later, I still look through that scrapbook and....remember... icon_cool.gif
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    Feb 19, 2012 4:59 AM GMT
    Some have been a week or so, and some have been an hour or so (in my college years when we all did our share of one-nighters we'd meet out dancing at clubs or fraternity parties). My present and permanent s.o. and I knew each other about a year first!
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    Feb 19, 2012 5:03 AM GMT
    malefeet said
    sashaman said
    malefeet saidDuring my early dating days all I needed to know was his name.....now I'm told I give job interviews...icon_biggrin.gif


    Oh come on. I bet a few slipped by with just a smile and no names exchanged! icon_wink.gif


    Nope...being the sentimental type of guy that I am....I always needed a name and a phone number...written on everything from a piece of paper towel to a matchbook, business card....etc...to put away in a scrapbook. almost 30 years later, I still look through that scrapbook and....remember... icon_cool.gif


    That is really sweet. It might be odd but I still remember the first and last names of all the guys I've been with and even though I've been monogamous for 12 years, I still talk to a few of them on an occasional basis as friends.
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    Feb 19, 2012 5:06 AM GMT
    sashaman said
    malefeet said
    sashaman said
    malefeet saidDuring my early dating days all I needed to know was his name.....now I'm told I give job interviews...icon_biggrin.gif


    Oh come on. I bet a few slipped by with just a smile and no names exchanged! icon_wink.gif


    Nope...being the sentimental type of guy that I am....I always needed a name and a phone number...written on everything from a piece of paper towel to a matchbook, business card....etc...to put away in a scrapbook. almost 30 years later, I still look through that scrapbook and....remember... icon_cool.gif


    That is really sweet. It might be odd but I still remember the first and last names of all the guys I've been with and even though I've been monogamous for 12 years, I still talk to a few of them on an occasional basis as friends.


    That sounds great!...and as far as being sweet..... icon_redface.gif
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    Feb 19, 2012 5:07 AM GMT
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    hellurs saidJust curious, how well do you get to know a guy before the horizontal mambo ?


    that he has a penis and that it will be inside me at some point.
    LOL
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    Feb 19, 2012 5:30 AM GMT
    How hot is this person?
    Are they nice?

    I will use it as an ice breaker depending on who they are
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    Feb 19, 2012 5:52 AM GMT
    As soon as our cocks touch.....
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    Feb 19, 2012 6:14 AM GMT
    Quickest was half hour
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    Feb 19, 2012 6:18 AM GMT
    usually know the guy well...
    had a single one night stand a few years ago... met him at a club - barely spoke to him to be honest and ended up taking him home with me
    have never wanted to do that again since though
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    Feb 19, 2012 6:53 AM GMT
    hellurs saidJust curious, how well do you get to know a guy before the horizontal mambo ?



    That depends entirely on how comfortable YOU are. Everyone's different, and with every person you meet the situation is different as well.

    Don't do anything you're not comfortable with or excited by. icon_wink.gif


    -Doug
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    Feb 19, 2012 5:27 PM GMT
    This thread makes me feel like a slutty McSlut-slut. icon_idea.gif
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    Feb 19, 2012 5:32 PM GMT
    1. Know that he isn't a psycho murderer/drug addict.
    2. Wrap your dick up and play safe.
    3. Is he hot?

    That's all.
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    Feb 19, 2012 5:33 PM GMT
    It depends on your goals I guess.

    I met a guy who moved my furnture for me, and then left his number for me. So, it was p clear what that was for icon_razz.gif

    If I'm dating someone, generally not on the first date (but I wouldn't rule it out) but after the second date its okay icon_razz.gif
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    Feb 19, 2012 5:37 PM GMT
    I had one one night stand, other than that, I've had at least a few dates withe all the guys I've slept with.
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    Feb 19, 2012 5:39 PM GMT
    Never had a one-night stand before. All the people I've slept with were pretty well known before anything happened. Self control and common sense do wonders for one's self esteem and safety.

    Everybody is different. Play at your own risk I say.
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    Feb 19, 2012 6:03 PM GMT
    Depends if the chemistry is right on both side could be within a hours...but by formal means at least a month < thats me...you just don't want be sleeping with a criminal psycho.

    mine was withing 2 hours after a late night flight our company place us in a room King size bed... not twin beds ~ i got stunt icon_eek.gif