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    Feb 19, 2012 5:20 AM GMT


    ..consider that it's better for each of us to be who we are and how we are, and so not add to the confusion of trying to meet each other online.



    -Marvin fuckin' Poppins, Mary's gay cousin

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    Feb 19, 2012 5:31 AM GMT
    Je ne comprends pas :/
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    Feb 19, 2012 5:38 AM GMT
    Is that your reason for not having separate profiles? Did I guess it? What do I win?

    Edit: oookay i think i'm in the wrong classroom...
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    Feb 19, 2012 5:42 AM GMT
    GreenHopper saidJe ne comprends pas :/


    There's too much judging going on.

    If people into open relationships are slapped on here for saying so, and people into closed ones are slapped on here for saying so, you have a slew of people slapped halfway into next week, and a whole lot of confusion as guys don't disclose anymore and everyone gets to meet incompatible people.

    ..and this goes for other preferences, which are part of the person, as well.


    Now if someone comes here and makes this grindr etc I'll show him the door, like Ariodante did, lol.


    -Marvin fuckin' Poppins

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    Feb 19, 2012 7:35 AM GMT
    OK, so let it be said.. I dont know which I would prefer.. I will see when im in a relationship icon_smile.gif
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    Feb 19, 2012 7:38 AM GMT
    I always thought Dick VanDyke was sorta hot.
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    Feb 19, 2012 3:13 PM GMT
    Rofl at JP's post! icon_wink.gif


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    Feb 19, 2012 3:32 PM GMT
    ....and while I'm at it, this judgment thing also goes for the feminine/masculine stuff as well.

    What's the point of pretending who you're not?

    Ack, heartache hotel.
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    Feb 19, 2012 3:40 PM GMT
    So much for a fake profile....LOL

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    Feb 19, 2012 3:52 PM GMT
    HndsmKansan saidSo much for a fake profile....LOL

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    Feb 19, 2012 4:04 PM GMT
    JPtheBITCH saidYo, Marvin, I'd like to point out that in the original novels by P.L.Travers, your cousin Mary was not portrayed as Julie Andrews with a widdle twinkle in her eye.

    She was a flat-out bitch. Nasty, bad-tempered, stern, who didn't believe in compliments or hugs. She was loyal and fair, but those were about all of her virtues. Disney, as usual, bluebirded her up. Fucking Disney ruined everything he touched, from Pinocchio to Hans Christian Andersen to P.L.Travers.

    All great children's literature has a dark side. That's part of what fascinates kids, who are small and helpless and sense their enormous vulnerability. The stories evolved over time as a way for children to navigate their fears and grow in emotional strength. The dark is needed so they can appreciate the light.

    But not fucking Disney, oh no. Even Cruella deVille has a widdle twinkle in her eye.
    I loathe Disney, and I haven't even mentioned his admiration for the Nazis. Well, I just did, so sue me.


    I agree, the Disney empire is evil... just like in Star Wars. How do you think George Lucas got his inspiration.
  • dannyboy1101

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    Feb 19, 2012 4:22 PM GMT
    I just have come to the conclusion that the chances of meeting someone online u like who u really like in person is minimal. Let's face it: our online personas are different from offline.

    This doesn't mean that one is lying. It means that it's like an inkblot. There is interpretation. Even right now u are reading my words in a voice in ur head that may or may not sound like me. Internet steals inflection so there are plenty of differences that domino effect who u think I am, asshole or otherwise.

    Secondly, one doesn't have to worry about physical consequences which changes what and how one says things. If u were in a gay bar and a troll came up and talked to u, would u say nothing or something snide, take his pic with ur phone and turn and ridicule him to ur friends or would u just say hi and work on getting to the bathroom?

    Finally, pics are always going to be the best of a person unless ur like me and take ridiculous pics so u just post them and say "if you can accept this pic u will be pleasantly surprised bc this is me at my worst day. "

    The only reason people judge so much here is that somewhere along the line people made it acceptable on realjock to a. Have cliques online so that some people are included in conversation and others are left out regardless of what is said (threads directed to one person included - mrass is a hottie thread.) B. this is a "fitness site" so it's ok to judge people harsher bc if u don't have muscle u should just die let alone type this URL. C. Unpopular biases have been acceptable when labeled as a "preference" which we all have so it's ok

    I am beginning to make a conscious effort to meet guys in life vs online. It is all false advertising. Joe has ten yr old pics while Adam gained 70 lbs and hector is silent in real life even tho he's hilarious and not at all shy when texting.