Feb 19, 2012 10:33 PM GMT
paulflexes saidI think it's totally possible to be straight and have homo flings...especially if you go straight from one homo fling to the next.
lilTanker saidI totally agree with that! But I also love Dan Savage, he's just hawt hehe
I've talked about this with people before, some times a woman will just do it for me, I mean they will do it for me, I'll go home and have a wank thinking about them. Hell, I've done more then just want over'em hahaha
I consider myself to be gay, I've no interest in having a long term relationship with these girls, I just wanna climb into bed with them and have fun and enjoy it!
Although when a woman orgasms and her nails dig into your back, it's kinda hot hehe
But people always try to slap the bi label on me like OOOH your bi not gay, I'm like na, I don't want a relationship with them, I want a relationship with a guy, it's what I enjoy the most.
But the gay community seems to want to grasp hold of anything remotely considered gay and shove them into that category and it's helped along by straight guys holding onto this stupid stigma that somehow being gay is defined by a sexual act rather then a life time desire.
Claystation saidIts typical in society to demonize gay men. No one gets discouraged when a girl likes to play sports or work on cars, in fact their fathers actually encourage it. But if a boy wants to dress up dolls then its a problem. Same as when you hear the religious nut jobs preaching about how man can't lay with another man. You never ever hear them talk about women laying with other women, even though its implied of course its never actually said because the impact it would have is really not as severe as two men laying with each other. Remember two women together is hawt in a lot of straight male fantasies, two men is just gross.
Also this just isn't a double standard in the straight community (straight guy has a fling with another guy and is instantly branded gay) the double standard extends to the gay community as well. Totally masc bro says he's masc and likes masc things is over compensating and the second he does something like lisp or admit to watching a musical or something he's a closet queen but an over the top gay guy is loud and proud and an inspiration etc...not over compensating and the second he does something masc he's not labeled anything.
My eyez be rollin
Nickrolled saidI agree with him, but I think it would be unusual for a straight guy to actually identify with this matter. It's normal for men to think about other men, including straight men, and the majority of men also have more sex related dreams than woman do. It would just be difficult for a straight guy to relate to what Dan Savage is saying. I still think it's completely normal though, back in Ancient Greece, men would have sexual relations with other men for pleasure whilst having a wife and kids. They didn't identify sexual orientation as we do now.
Webster666 saidI adore this man, and I have all of his books.
But, I absolutely disagree with him on this one issue.
You can "identify" as anything you CHOOSE.
But, if you're sexually attracted to someone of the same sex, you're either bisexual or gay/lesbian.