I hate attractive guys

  • mizu5

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    Feb 20, 2012 12:41 PM GMT
    I have no idea where to put this.

    But I hate attractive guys. And I mean that nicely.

    All the guys on here who are stunning just make me angry. Like, Jealous angry. I think maybe I have some self esteem issue.

    In social situation when some hottie gay boy comes over, I just get defensive and jealous and quiet. Musuclar guy? same thing. I look for flaws. SUper confident friendly hottie? convinced they hate me and act awkward.

    Anybody else get me at all?

    Maybe I'm a little crazy. Maybe once I move back in Toronto in a month or two and joib a gym and get buff I won't feel this way.
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    Feb 20, 2012 1:58 PM GMT
    Ugh I know, me too

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    mattyrec said

    uhm Clay... I hate to break this to you but you are one of those attractive guys and very high up on the attractive scale for that matter!!!


    nuh uh
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    Feb 20, 2012 2:10 PM GMT
    That's OK. I don't take it personally.



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    Feb 20, 2012 3:04 PM GMT
    Claystation saidUgh I know, me too


    uhm Clay... I hate to break this to you but you are one of those attractive guys and very high up on the attractive scale for that matter!!!
  • Generaleclect...

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    Feb 20, 2012 7:21 PM GMT
    Sounds like you're giving these guys too much power in your own mind.

    Hot or not, they're just as human as you with flaws, needs, and insecurities. I'm far from looking like an Adonis, but I know I'm no slouch either (neither are you). It helps to remember those things.

    Sometimes it takes a little work, but again it still helps.
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    Feb 20, 2012 7:41 PM GMT
    mizu5 saidI have no idea where to put this.

    But I hate attractive guys. And I mean that nicely.

    All the guys on here who are stunning just make me angry. Like, Jealous angry. I think maybe I have some self esteem issue.

    In social situation when some hottie gay boy comes over, I just get defensive and jealous and quiet. Musuclar guy? same thing. I look for flaws. SUper confident friendly hottie? convinced they hate me and act awkward.

    Anybody else get me at all?

    Maybe I'm a little crazy. Maybe once I move back in Toronto in a month or two and joib a gym and get buff I won't feel this way.


    I don't know why anyone would move back to Toronto from Vanc unless they had to.. if not you must be a little crazy. It's sterile and somewhat boring.. You're going to be back and walk up and down the two blocks of Church Street and go WTF I came back for this!!
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    Feb 20, 2012 8:30 PM GMT
    I kinda get what mizu5 is saying. Guys that are ridiculously attractive get the VIP treatment from everyone and everywhere. But really, I don't think it's something to be jealous or insecure about. Even attractive guys have their insecurities. Work on your own confidence and you'll get more attention from guys. icon_wink.gif