Is something still there?

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    Feb 20, 2012 6:06 PM GMT
    So I met this guy who's really nice and very similar to me. I have known him for a few months prior. We both bluntly state that we are extremely attracted to one another. We had a really nice night talking and had some fun with making out and stuff...but obviously thinking back I regret some stupid little comments that I might have made or said (I told him that I was "falling for him", even though I knew it was too soon..). At the end of the night he walked me back to my car and we kissed on the lips. The next day I texted him telling him that last night was really nice and he responded saying that it was very nice and enjoyed having me over and that he'll let me know the next time we can hang out. Would you think that he is still interested and would want to pursue something? How should I go about doing this? Any suggestions would be great...thanks!


    Sincerely,
    a very nervous dater.....lol
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    Feb 20, 2012 6:19 PM GMT

    " Would you think that he is still interested and would want to pursue something? How should I go about doing this? Any suggestions would be great...thanks! "

    Based on what you posted, yes he is. Just relax and enjoy the experience. Ease up the the 'I'm falling for you' comments. It's his turn.

    As for it being too soon, you did say,
    " I have known him for a few months prior. We both bluntly state that we are extremely attracted to one another."

    So this is not someone you just met. icon_wink.gif


    warmly,

    -Doug
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    Feb 20, 2012 7:49 PM GMT
    Thanks for the response, Doug. I know, I just let my emotions get the best of me and I rambled something I shouldn't have...ugh. Hopefully he forgot because we talked for long after that. I'm hoping for the best! icon_smile.gif
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    Feb 20, 2012 7:52 PM GMT
    classdude saidThanks for the response, Doug. I know, I just let my emotions get the best of me and I rambled something I shouldn't have...ugh. Hopefully he forgot because we talked for long after that. I'm hoping for the best! icon_smile.gif



    lol, I always hoped for the best but expected nothing much. Happily, that outlook led me somewhere wonderful.

    -Doug
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    Feb 20, 2012 11:11 PM GMT
    Don't get overly anxious and don't contact him again, he'll think you're needy. If he is truly interested, he'll contact you. Since you don't know him too well yet, you really don't know what his schedule is like so, although it's tough, take a deep breath and just let things play out the way they should. If he doesn't contact you, then perhaps it wasn't as good for him. If he does, pick up where you left all but be careful saying anything that might scare him off, like 'I love you'! icon_smile.gif Good luck.
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    Feb 21, 2012 1:20 AM GMT
    Well, I shall speak from experience. I have been in a similar situation. Our first real date was 9 hrs, our 2nd date was the same. Finally our third date was a 3-day road trip where I finally confessed that I loved him, all along. I was afraid, just like you, to put my vulnerable, bleeding heart out there.

    But you know, he loved me back. And it made us stronger. Don't live with regrets.
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    Feb 21, 2012 1:24 AM GMT
    classdude said.... and that he'll let me know the next time we can hang out. ....l

    That doesnt sound promising to me. Sounds more like a polite kicking the can down the road. I hate to break this to you, but he's not interested. IMHO.
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    Feb 21, 2012 1:43 AM GMT
    DesireIron said
    classdude said.... and that he'll let me know the next time we can hang out. ....l

    That doesnt sound promising to me. Sounds more like a polite kicking the can down the road. I hate to break this to you, but he's not interested. IMHO.


    There was a smiley face following that though if that makes any difference.