Start gay life in new city or in college?

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    Feb 23, 2012 12:21 AM GMT
    Hey guys, I'm looking to come out soon and live the life I want, though I am up in the air between moving out of state to a new city or go off to college.

    I want to move out of this cold depressing state, out west for more opportunities...though I would be moving completely alone, getting a fulltime job, and taking a break from school for the first time. I want to do this badly, though Im concerned ill have trouble meeting friends and guys in a new city.

    My other option is to stay in this POS state and live the college life.I did this last semester though was to chickenshit to live the life I wanted, oppressed by homophobic roommates and basically hated the school, so Im back at my hometown now. I am weary of getting a BA due to the job market, though I feel like this is the only time in my life where I can experience the carefree college life, while making connections through the classroom and so on.

    So if you just came out of the closet, would you think the lifestyle would be best in a new city or away at college?
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    Feb 23, 2012 12:24 AM GMT
    Pfft...I came out in my podunk hometown in Arkansas. Pop. 3000 including pigs and horses. Cows and chicken houses had the population outnumbered.

    In 1991 no less...

    Grow some balls and come out where you are. icon_wink.gif