Did you ever had sex with your straight friend?

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    Feb 23, 2012 1:43 PM GMT
    Alright so, i been knowing this guy since uuffff.... Long long time!
    He WAS my friend..... I can say he was my best friend
    And we used to had a lot in commun...
    So, one day we did some stuffs and since that day we started to make love
    Sometimes icon_lol.gif

    But i started to notice that he just wanted to use me as a sex friend or not even that just for sex
    I did too so i didnt care haha
    But its weard how that just destroid our relationship and now we dont talk no more... Because he just felt like he wasnt doing any good
    And i understand i mean he has a son but his single...
    But he lives here and his son in mexico..
    But i dont know i guess having straight friends not always is good
    You can fall in love haha
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    So what about all of the realjock guys! Have you ever fall in love with a straight friend? And if you did have you ever told him?


    By the way its my first post so dont judge me icon_biggrin.gif
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    Feb 23, 2012 1:48 PM GMT
    Many times, yes. But I try not to do it too often because straight guys suck.
  • HollywoodHist...

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    Feb 23, 2012 1:51 PM GMT
    Yes! My first "boyfriend", we had been close friends our freshman year of high school and went separate ways the other three years. I didn't come out until a couple of years after graduation and we met up again online. He always told me that he was straight but that he was a bit curious and we started messing around and not long after starting making love like you and your friend. We were sort of together for a while, I think it was about 3 months but it was a long time ago - could have been longer. He could tell that I was starting to really fall in love with him, which I was, and I wanted more. The sex was great and he showed me a lot of love, but he wasn't in love with me and we broke it off.

    We continued to be friends for a while after that but it was hard for me. I had really fallen for this guy. Eventually he got married and now has kids. We don't talk anymore and I'm kind of his dark little secret. He was always terrified of anyone finding out about us. He's a good guy though and I hope he's happy.
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    Feb 23, 2012 1:52 PM GMT
    well if you and him slept together that doesn't make him straight.

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    Feb 23, 2012 1:54 PM GMT
    AlexanderB saidwell if you and him slept together that doesn't make him straight.

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    Clearly at least a Kinsey 1 but straight by identification.
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    Feb 23, 2012 2:06 PM GMT
    mlitsonata saidYes! My first "boyfriend", we had been close friends our freshman year of high school and went separate ways the other three years. I didn't come out until a couple of years after graduation and we met up again online. He always told me that he was straight but that he was a bit curious and we started messing around and not long after starting making love like you and your friend. We were sort of together for a while, I think it was about 3 months but it was a long time ago - could have been longer. He could tell that I was starting to really fall in love with him, which I was, and I wanted more. The sex was great and he showed me a lot of love, but he wasn't in love with me and we broke it off.

    We continued to be friends for a while after that but it was hard for me. I had really fallen for this guy. Eventually he got married and now has kids. We don't talk anymore and I'm kind of his dark little secret. He was always terrified of anyone finding out about us. He's a good guy though and I hope he's happy.




    I know like we talked and we got into a point that we was goin to be just friends
    But i dont know
    I guess we couldnt... It was hard
  • HollywoodHist...

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    Feb 23, 2012 2:11 PM GMT
    Yes, it is hard and I'm sorry you're going through this. If it's possible for you to let go of what ever romantic feelings you have for him, and if he can accept that his relationship with you is a part of his past and is open about that - then I think it's possible for you to still be friends. But if he keeps this secret or if you can't let go, it's probably not likely. icon_sad.gif
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    Feb 23, 2012 3:03 PM GMT
    mlitsonata saidYes, it is hard and I'm sorry you're going through this. If it's possible for you to let go of what ever romantic feelings you have for him, and if he can accept that his relationship with you is a part of his past and is open about that - then I think it's possible for you to still be friends. But if he keeps this secret or if you can't let go, it's probably not likely. icon_sad.gif




    Nahh its not hard for me..
    Not anymore...
    I guess everything happens for a reason..
    But everytime i see him sometimes i feel like i just want to smash him and get wild icon_lol.gif and sometimes i feel that i can do better
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    Feb 23, 2012 3:20 PM GMT
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    Feb 23, 2012 3:26 PM GMT
    A few times. Its fun being the first one but the down side is they suck at sex.
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    Feb 23, 2012 3:27 PM GMT
    If you had sex with a straight guy, you had sex with a gay guy.
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    Feb 23, 2012 3:41 PM GMT
    Haaretz saidIf you had sex with a straight guy, you had sex with a gay guy.


    ^^ That. Or at least the old bi-curious thingy.

    As for me, only getting it on with a straight male friend's girlfriend (also a "friend," not just by association), right before the kickstart of a feverish bi phase in younger years. It was kind of a swap deal, no need for a long story. But I couldn't bear to imagine nookie with an allegedly straight buddy, certainly not the jagoffs I know and recall. Not trying to help cross off any stuff like that off their bucket lists.
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    Feb 23, 2012 3:44 PM GMT
    Haaretz saidIf you had sex with a straight guy, you had sex with a gay guy.


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    Feb 23, 2012 3:48 PM GMT
    Uh no, because my friends are actually straight and not pretend "straight."
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    Feb 23, 2012 7:20 PM GMT
    O yeah sure of course!!! He's still my friend!! We kept hanging out (no sex) after that no problem.. sometimes we just kind of giggle about it
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    Feb 23, 2012 7:21 PM GMT
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    Haaretz saidIf you had sex with a straight guy, you had sex with a gay guy.


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    No way, he was bi-curious

  • Feb 23, 2012 7:25 PM GMT
    travaldavas_taz saidAlright so, i been knowing this guy since uuffff.... Long long time!
    He WAS my friend..... I can say he was my best friend
    And we used to had a lot in commun...
    So, one day we did some stuffs and since that day we started to make love
    Sometimes icon_lol.gif

    But i started to notice that he just wanted to use me as a sex friend or not even that just for sex
    I did too so i didnt care haha
    But its weard how that just destroid our relationship and now we dont talk no more... Because he just felt like he wasnt doing any good
    And i understand i mean he has a son but his single...
    But he lives here and his son in mexico..
    But i dont know i guess having straight friends not always is good
    You can fall in love haha
    icon_razz.gif

    So what about all of the realjock guys! Have you ever fall in love with a straight friend? And if you did have you ever told him?


    By the way its my first post so dont judge me icon_biggrin.gif


    If he had sex with you he is not straight.
  • GoldenBoy12

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    Feb 27, 2012 8:27 PM GMT
    YES
    I almost told him yesterday
    sometimes he gives me signs
    and whenever I act a little girly with him he responds to me in a careful manner
    not like grow some balls or stop being a fag, He actually shows that he cares about me
    we've had our little moments or sexual tension but we quickly dismissed them
    idk I think I may have over-anazlayzed alot because I just want him that bad
    but I dont want to ruin our friendship, I dont know what I would do if I didnt have him in my life
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    Feb 27, 2012 8:32 PM GMT
    Dallasfan824 saidA few times. Its fun being the first one but the down side is they suck at sex.


    Really?

    Why?

    Are they just THAT clueless?

    I always thought same-sex sex was easier because we know how everything works on one another.

    Or are they just too timid to go for it and simply lay there shivering?
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    Feb 28, 2012 12:21 AM GMT
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    Dallasfan824 saidA few times. Its fun being the first one but the down side is they suck at sex.


    Really?

    Why?

    Are they just THAT clueless?

    I always thought same-sex sex was easier because we know how everything works on one another.


    Or are they just too timid to go for it and simply lay there shivering?


    You would think...

    But a shocking number of guys are bad at kissing and bad at sex... for no obvious reason besides laziness, selfishness, or stupidity.
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    Feb 28, 2012 12:39 AM GMT
    no... but one of my straight buddies had always been flirty with me like all of them do... and then one day he told me he had been hooking up with guys the last year or so. He then told me we should get together and have sex. He facebook messages me and texts me all the time to flirt and ask me to hang out. This is while he is engaged to a very nice girl.
    Of course, I've always just laughed it off but I'm actually starting to wonder if it's my place at all to try and get him to *not* marry his girlfriend... I'd hate for him to ruin her life in a few years when she finds out... cuz I'm sure she will.
    But then - is it really my business? *awkward*
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    Feb 28, 2012 12:46 AM GMT
    given/received head(alcohol induced)
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    Feb 28, 2012 12:47 AM GMT
    Yea. We were both drunk after prom night and went over to his house next thing i knew we started fucking. We didn't see each other after that
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    Feb 28, 2012 12:52 AM GMT
    Haaretz saidIf you had sex with a straight guy, you had sex with a gay guy.


    I spent many years having sex with women and that didn't make me straight. So how can you assume the other way around. Each person has their own issues that drive them to engage in behaviors that do not reflect who they really are.

    People just aren't that simple and can't be classified so simplistically.

    The important thing is that each person finds the path that brings them true happiness in life.
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    Feb 28, 2012 1:01 AM GMT
    Dallasfan824 saidA few times. Its fun being the first one but the down side is they suck at sex.


    So true. The fantasy is often hotter than what you get but it is fun messing around.