Anal sex question (sorry for the stupidity of it)

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    Feb 23, 2012 11:24 PM GMT
    I have entered a relationship with a guy. (I too am a male)
    I have been putting off anal sex for 6months (oral sex only and we have both been tested)
    I have been so worried about anal sex that I brought a small dildo. Last night I tried to play with it and could only take it a few inches before I was met by a "wall" (as I would describe it) And could not get further.
    I stopped immediately before I encountered any pain (as one would do)
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    Now I'm worried that my rectum will not be able to accommodate his penis. So much so I want to end the relationship.
    Could this be a condition? Or do you think I was just "penetrating" wrongly?
    Like I said, It's probably really stupid and y'all are gonna be like "what the hell is this guy on" but abit of help or ease of mind will help me so much. icon_smile.gif

    sorry for the nature of the question again lol

    Thankyou
  • HollywoodHist...

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    Feb 23, 2012 11:32 PM GMT
    It kind of sounds like you don't want to do this icon_confused.gif If it's not something you feel comfortable with, than don't. Although it can be a great pleasure if you give it a shot.

    I'm not sure what the problem might be. There shouldn't be any kind of "wall" but the interior of the rectum does curve. Perhaps you were just getting it at a bad angle. Did you try moving it around a bit? Try different positions? Lead forward or back, etc. Also (and this may sound gross, sorry) perhaps there is a fecal build up in there. Did you enema first? It's a good idea too. It's not really a requirment but it does make everything a lot cleaner down there, helps ease of penetration and maybe will help with your problem.
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    Feb 23, 2012 11:34 PM GMT
    I guess it could have been cause the dildo was "stiff" with no flexibility lol. I suppose I should just take the plunge and give it a go.
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    Feb 23, 2012 11:43 PM GMT
    lol, still would have more to do with the angle since the body is pretty flexible and can usually still handle a straight "stiff" one. lol. When you're with your partner just make sure that you take it slow the first time, plenty of lube and connect with him - communication is important. And breathe. Once in it is sometimes good to just hold the position for a few seconds to get used to it. Once you have your timing down and your body adapts you should have a great time.
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    Feb 24, 2012 12:05 AM GMT
    The first time inserting any object bigger than a pencil or a finger into your ass is gonna hurt like hell. Don't get too discouraged. It takes a few sessions of penetration for your anus to adapt (ie - "stretch"). It's just a matter of practice.

    If you wanna ease into it with your man while simultaneously "training" your anus, he can give you a rimjob and/or finger you. As always, be sure to wash down there before any ass play (solo or otherwise).
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    Feb 24, 2012 12:08 AM GMT
    MightyMouse87 saidThe first time inserting any object bigger than a pencil or a finger into your ass is gonna hurt like hell. Don't get too discouraged. It takes a few sessions of penetration for your anus to adapt (ie - "stretch"). It's just a matter of practice.

    If you wanna ease into it with your man while simultaneously "training" your anus, he can give you a rimjob and/or finger you. As always, be sure to wash down there before any ass play (solo or otherwise).


    Spoken like a true ho...
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    Feb 24, 2012 9:06 PM GMT
    Chainers said

    Spoken like a true ho...


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