Big question...

  • jetracer1

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    Feb 24, 2012 3:57 AM GMT
    I need some input. Recently I had feelings for my best guy friend so couple of nights ago I told him. he is my roomate. And his exact reaction was "thanks for being honest". Thats it.

    Before I had all intenions he was straight. But now I dont know. Here is what I find odd:

    1. He has a gf but constantly talks about their sex. Like he wants everyone to know he is fucking a girl

    2. Very homophobic, even with lesbian sex. Like he is insecure and has to have the womens full attention

    3. Puts on a elaberate show.Extremely careful on what he reveiles and goes to all kinds of extreme measures to cover his feelings

    Now I know most of this can be from a straihht guy as well. Has anyone had this experience? Or know someone who turned out gay after putting on a EXTREME straight show??
    Thanks!
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    Feb 24, 2012 4:38 AM GMT
    he's straight.. move on.
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    Feb 24, 2012 5:19 AM GMT
    "I need some input. Recently I had feelings for my best guy friend so couple of nights ago I told him. he is my roomate. And his exact reaction was "thanks for being honest". Thats it. "

    Then that, indeed, is it. I think if you pursue this you'll put a strain on your room-mating.

    -Doug
  • Bunjamon

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    Feb 24, 2012 1:01 PM GMT
    Even if he were gay, the guy sounds like a jerk, and not worth anyone's time until he cuts the crap and grows up.
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    Feb 24, 2012 1:04 PM GMT
    He stated his opinion just like you stated yours. To pursue him and hope on fairy dust that he is gay is kind of disrespectful and will end badly. If he is gay, give him time and let him come to you. Otherwise, you might as well move out now.
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    Feb 24, 2012 1:35 PM GMT
    Hungry like a wolf?
  • HndsmKansan

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    Feb 24, 2012 1:42 PM GMT
    I'd move on unless he indicates an interest otherwise..
  • alphatop

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    Feb 24, 2012 1:50 PM GMT
    Not worth it. Move on.
  • jetracer1

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    Feb 25, 2012 12:50 AM GMT
    Thanks. I know he has to be the one to make the move. I've tried to be objective on every thing. Just his reaction was odd. Like he was turned on by me thinking he was hot(he pushed out his chest and flexed some with a smirk). It just struck me odd. He is very homophobic so I expected a worse reaction. But just the opposite he acts as if nothing is wrong. He is actually a great guy and very religious

    Just curious here...Has any of you experienced or knew a guy so deep in the closet that he made some great strides and elaberate means to cover up himself???