atljoe74 saidWhen this stuff started happening to me it would drive me nuts. I thought it was just me. I would chat with a guy on grindr then agree to meet and 3 times I had guys not show up. Or meet have a great time according to them talks of doing it again to get blown off the following day. Few weeks ago I had this guy over for 4hrs. Oh Joe I just love your eyes your chin. This has been so much fun the last 4 hrs together please text me about getting together again in a few days. soon as that bitch was out the door he had blocked me on grindr. I talked with a few friends and clients about it and they chuckled and said Joe it's not just you. Guys pull this crap on everyone.
I hate guys like this. I can be flaked on and brush it off, but why waste my time and yours if you don't think we have a connection? I invited this guy over and we had great Convos, had similar schedules and interests, and we even hooked up. Now, he hasn't blocked me or anything, but will only respond to me if I initiate the convo. So I stopped initiating. He's still on grindr and I see him all the time but it's one of those things where you know he just wants some attention. Ugh. Frustrating.