Liar!

  • RangerJoshD

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    Feb 25, 2012 12:00 AM GMT
    So This Guy I Met Here In Tennessee Yesterday....Said He Wanted To Hangout Today...So I Told Him To Come At 11am But He Said He Had To Run An Errand. So Then He Said He Would Come By 3pm.....But He Didnt Show And When I Tried To Ask Him Why I Find Out That He Blocked All Points Of Communition Of Me. So Now I Have No Way Of Ever Talking To Him Again.


    So Whats Going On Did He Really Lie To Me?
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    Feb 25, 2012 12:09 AM GMT
    That is the least of your problems. Hopefully this helps:
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  • RangerJoshD

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    Feb 25, 2012 1:01 AM GMT
    cold saidThat is the least of your problems. Hopefully this helps:
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    hehe thx..it Did icon_smile.gif
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    Feb 25, 2012 3:38 AM GMT
    RangerJoshD saidSo This Guy I Met Here In Tennessee Yesterday....Said He Wanted To Hangout Today...So I Told Him To Come At 11am But He Said He Had To Run An Errand. So Then He Said He Would Come By 3pm.....But He Didnt Show And When I Tried To Ask Him Why I Find Out That He Blocked All Points Of Communition Of Me. So Now I Have No Way Of Ever Talking To Him Again.


    So Whats Going On Did He Really Lie To Me?


    Boys freak out when you mention meeting in person probably because they weren't that into you, have fake pics, etc

    Don't take it personal, you might have to deal with many more...c'est la vie.
  • calibro

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    Feb 25, 2012 8:47 AM GMT
    chalk it up to eh
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    Feb 26, 2012 3:12 AM GMT
    yep. Plenty of time-wasting dickheads out there. All fart on the 'net and elsewhere but no shit in real life!
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    Feb 26, 2012 5:09 AM GMT
    cold saidThat is the least of your problems. Hopefully this helps:
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    cold you're alive!
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    Feb 26, 2012 5:36 AM GMT
    Wtf? Lol
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    Feb 26, 2012 3:07 PM GMT
    RangerJoshD saidSo This Guy I Met Here In Tennessee Yesterday....Said He Wanted To Hangout Today...So I Told Him To Come At 11am But He Said He Had To Run An Errand. So Then He Said He Would Come By 3pm.....But He Didnt Show And When I Tried To Ask Him Why I Find Out That He Blocked All Points Of Communition Of Me. So Now I Have No Way Of Ever Talking To Him Again.


    So Whats Going On Did He Really Lie To Me?


    You told him to come at 11 am so maybe he didn't have anything left at 3pm. icon_smile.gif

    I must say I came out when I was a year older than you and there was no internet. I would meet guys in bars and we would exchange numbers after we tricked. I thought I'd see them again. Oh to be young and naive again. In some cases I did but in most I would just run into them at the bar. The internet has made this even worse especially in places like Tenn. There are so many closet cases who have second thoughts or prior commitments (many that involve a wife and kids).
  • HndsmKansan

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    Feb 26, 2012 3:08 PM GMT
    He's a coward.. he either didn't want to and/or didn't care enough to tell you the truth and would rather dodge it than have an honest conversation about it.

    You're better off without knowing him.
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    Feb 26, 2012 6:27 PM GMT
    When this stuff started happening to me it would drive me nuts. I thought it was just me. I would chat with a guy on grindr then agree to meet and 3 times I had guys not show up. Or meet have a great time according to them talks of doing it again to get blown off the following day. Few weeks ago I had this guy over for 4hrs. Oh Joe I just love your eyes your chin. This has been so much fun the last 4 hrs together please text me about getting together again in a few days. soon as that bitch was out the door he had blocked me on grindr. I talked with a few friends and clients about it and they chuckled and said Joe it's not just you. Guys pull this crap on everyone.
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    Feb 26, 2012 6:36 PM GMT
    Sounds like you dodged a bullet. I say smile about it, go on your way and chalk it up as a "Whatever". Dude clearly isn't worth the time of day or a second thought if he's gonna pull a stunt like that.

    For whatever reason, he broke communication off with you so it's not even worth guessing. He couldn't be man enough to just say "Hey, I'm not interested" or something along those lines and so he took the bitch route. Fuck it. His loss and you certainly don't wanna hang with a guy who makes plans with you then flakes out and then gives you the silent/avoidance treatment when you know you didn't do anything wrong and then blocks you which makes it impossible to contact him to try and figure out "what's up?" Fuck it. He did you a favor.

    Consider yourself lucky. Never engage with a person who can't respect you or at least meet you halfway in being a man.
  • RangerJoshD

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    Feb 27, 2012 4:47 PM GMT
    thx man
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    Feb 27, 2012 4:48 PM GMT
    thx guys for all the feedback icon_smile.gif
  • a303guy

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    Feb 27, 2012 4:55 PM GMT
    Maybe He Was Afraid Of Capital Punishment. icon_smile.gif
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    Feb 27, 2012 5:17 PM GMT
    Some people are totally lame like that. You were probably better off. It's their loss. Sorry to hear about that happening :-/
  • Ridiculance

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    Feb 28, 2012 10:50 PM GMT
    atljoe74 saidWhen this stuff started happening to me it would drive me nuts. I thought it was just me. I would chat with a guy on grindr then agree to meet and 3 times I had guys not show up. Or meet have a great time according to them talks of doing it again to get blown off the following day. Few weeks ago I had this guy over for 4hrs. Oh Joe I just love your eyes your chin. This has been so much fun the last 4 hrs together please text me about getting together again in a few days. soon as that bitch was out the door he had blocked me on grindr. I talked with a few friends and clients about it and they chuckled and said Joe it's not just you. Guys pull this crap on everyone.


    I hate guys like this. I can be flaked on and brush it off, but why waste my time and yours if you don't think we have a connection? I invited this guy over and we had great Convos, had similar schedules and interests, and we even hooked up. Now, he hasn't blocked me or anything, but will only respond to me if I initiate the convo. So I stopped initiating. He's still on grindr and I see him all the time but it's one of those things where you know he just wants some attention. Ugh. Frustrating.
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    Feb 28, 2012 10:52 PM GMT
    Why Are You Typing Like This? I Do Not Understand.