Not sure how to be gay anymore...

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    Feb 25, 2012 3:26 AM GMT
    Is there some sort of pamphlet I'm missing? icon_rolleyes.gif

    Dont seem to fit into either world right now.
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    Feb 25, 2012 3:27 AM GMT
    How about instead of being gay, you be yourself. Your sexuality is such a small part of who you are, do not let it define you.
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    Feb 25, 2012 3:33 AM GMT
    Chainers saidHow about instead of being gay, you be yourself. Your sexuality is such a small part of who you are, do not let it define you.


    I came out and things sort of fizzled out after that, I'd like to progress, but I haven't had a good date in 6 years.
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    Feb 25, 2012 3:37 AM GMT
    mikeinslc said
    Chainers saidHow about instead of being gay, you be yourself. Your sexuality is such a small part of who you are, do not let it define you.


    I came out and things sort of fizzled out after that, I'd like to progress, but I haven't had a good date in 6 years.


    What are you doing to meet people? Have you joined any gay themed groups or volunteered or anything like that?
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    Feb 25, 2012 3:38 AM GMT
    Chainers said
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    Chainers saidHow about instead of being gay, you be yourself. Your sexuality is such a small part of who you are, do not let it define you.


    I came out and things sort of fizzled out after that, I'd like to progress, but I haven't had a good date in 6 years.


    What are you doing to meet people? Have you joined any gay themed groups or volunteered or anything like that?


    No, I should probably go to pride this year.
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    Feb 25, 2012 3:39 AM GMT
    mikeinslc said
    Chainers said
    mikeinslc said
    Chainers saidHow about instead of being gay, you be yourself. Your sexuality is such a small part of who you are, do not let it define you.


    I came out and things sort of fizzled out after that, I'd like to progress, but I haven't had a good date in 6 years.


    What are you doing to meet people? Have you joined any gay themed groups or volunteered or anything like that?


    No, I should probably go to pride this year.


    Yea you should lol. I know I said be yourself, but if you dont do any activities with other gay men you most likely will not meet any. See if your local chamber has events and the like, and focus on meeting people, not dating. The date and match will come on its own.
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    Feb 25, 2012 3:40 AM GMT
    Chainers said
    mikeinslc said
    Chainers said
    mikeinslc said
    Chainers saidHow about instead of being gay, you be yourself. Your sexuality is such a small part of who you are, do not let it define you.


    I came out and things sort of fizzled out after that, I'd like to progress, but I haven't had a good date in 6 years.


    What are you doing to meet people? Have you joined any gay themed groups or volunteered or anything like that?


    No, I should probably go to pride this year.


    Yea you should lol. I know I said be yourself, but if you dont do any activities with other gay men you most likely will not meet any. See if your local chamber has events and the like, and focus on meeting people, not dating. The date and match will come on its own.


    I'm kinda sick of Utah, TBH, but I'm not sure if it will be better anywhere else.
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    Feb 25, 2012 3:42 AM GMT
    mikeinslc said
    Chainers said
    mikeinslc said
    Chainers said
    mikeinslc said
    Chainers saidHow about instead of being gay, you be yourself. Your sexuality is such a small part of who you are, do not let it define you.


    I came out and things sort of fizzled out after that, I'd like to progress, but I haven't had a good date in 6 years.


    What are you doing to meet people? Have you joined any gay themed groups or volunteered or anything like that?


    No, I should probably go to pride this year.


    Yea you should lol. I know I said be yourself, but if you dont do any activities with other gay men you most likely will not meet any. See if your local chamber has events and the like, and focus on meeting people, not dating. The date and match will come on its own.


    I'm kinda sick of Utah, TBH, but I'm not sure if it will be better anywhere else.


    For dating? Not really. Granted Im stuck in Montana now, I met a lot of people in SF, but I find that big cities are big on sleeping around. If you are thinking of moving, try finding a small city that has a big gay community. A good example is Albaqurque NM, it has a gay community there that is more focused on dating than sleeping around.
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    Feb 25, 2012 4:10 AM GMT
    What do you mean by "how to be gay?" What worlds are you trying to fit into?

    I think everybody goes through this. Maybe it's time for a change. If what you're doing isn't working, then try something else. It's overly simplistic advice, but you know what I mean.
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    Feb 25, 2012 4:10 AM GMT
    Just bend over baby
  • araphael

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    Mar 01, 2012 3:03 AM GMT
    Yeah I agree, don't let the illusion of "gayness" fool you. Be who you naturally are.
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    Mar 01, 2012 3:22 AM GMT
    Dick goes inside ass.

    Mouth goes on dick.

    Tongue goes in ass.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Mar 01, 2012 3:25 AM GMT
    Fit into your own world and do what makes the most sense....don't conform to others.. be comfortable in your own skin....
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    Mar 01, 2012 3:31 AM GMT
    How To Be Gay

    http://thoughtcatalog.com/2010/how-to-be-gay/

    Hope that helps.
  • eddieg

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    Mar 01, 2012 5:15 AM GMT
    It's like ridding a bike. icon_lol.gif
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    Mar 01, 2012 5:16 AM GMT
    eddieg saidIt's like ridding a bike. icon_lol.gif


    A foreskinny bike
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    Mar 01, 2012 5:18 AM GMT
    mikeinslc saidIs there some sort of pamphlet I'm missing? icon_rolleyes.gif

    Dont seem to fit into either world right now.



    shit ive been asking myself the same question for a while now..but i hope your not too worried or feeling bummed...this lifestyle i believe..hmm it grows as you grow to accept and know how to live your life, know what you want out of life.. Just dont over think things as while you grow and mature you will start to understand how to navigate life..while being a gay male.. thats what im finding out each day so give it time.
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    Mar 01, 2012 5:18 AM GMT
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    eddieg saidIt's like ridding a bike. icon_lol.gif


    A foreskinny bike


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    Mar 01, 2012 5:19 AM GMT
    Page 726 of The Gay Agenda offers a variety of refresher courses. Intermediate and Advanced levels of Gayness are available and many classes are on nights and weekends.

    They are pricey but they come with free drink tickets.
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    Mar 01, 2012 5:21 AM GMT
    Cash saidPage 726 of The Gay Agenda offers a variety of refresher courses. Intermediate and Advanced levels of Gayness are available and many classes are on nights and weekends.


    Aren't they cross listed as a bodysculpt pilates classes too?
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    Mar 01, 2012 5:23 AM GMT
    Haaretz saidHow To Be Gay

    http://thoughtcatalog.com/2010/how-to-be-gay/

    Hope that helps.

    brilliant!!
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    Mar 01, 2012 5:45 AM GMT
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    Cash saidPage 726 of The Gay Agenda offers a variety of refresher courses. Intermediate and Advanced levels of Gayness are available and many classes are on nights and weekends.


    Aren't they cross listed as a bodysculpt pilates classes too?


    Those are only the weekend excursions offered by Atlantis Cruise Lines.
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    Mar 01, 2012 6:11 AM GMT
    Chainers saidHow about instead of being gay, you be yourself. Your sexuality is such a small part of who you are, do not let it define you.


    Well said, and it's the truth.
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    Mar 01, 2012 8:10 AM GMT
    Ariodante saidDick goes inside ass.

    Mouth goes on dick.

    Tongue goes in ass.
    this.