Cuddling?

  • Discoverin

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    Feb 25, 2012 9:13 AM GMT
    What is it with cuddling that people like so much about?
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    Feb 25, 2012 9:14 AM GMT
    Intimacy
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    Feb 25, 2012 10:34 AM GMT
    i like the smell of an oily scalp.

    honestly.
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    Feb 25, 2012 10:35 AM GMT
    Claystation saidIntimacy


    What he said icon_smile.gif
  • Cygnus

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    Feb 25, 2012 4:16 PM GMT
    Feeling the warmth and energy of each other,
    Knowing that you are both present in the NOW!

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    Even better, knowing someone has got your back... and the feeling of knowing you got theirs...
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    Feb 25, 2012 4:33 PM GMT
    With my bf, I could do it all day if we didn't get hungry. It's just amazing how his body perfectly fits with mine. We fall asleep cuddling icon_smile.gif
  • Kinneticbrian

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    Feb 25, 2012 4:35 PM GMT
    What's not to like about it?
  • HollywoodHist...

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    Feb 25, 2012 4:36 PM GMT
    I'm a total cuddle monster. Like the others said, it's about the intimacy and sharing each others space. It just feels good, safe, loving.
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    Feb 25, 2012 4:41 PM GMT
    Claystation saidIntimacy


    exactly.
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    Feb 25, 2012 4:41 PM GMT
    who wants to cuddle with me, IM me icon_smile.gif
  • tuffguyndc

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    Feb 25, 2012 4:45 PM GMT
    Claystation saidIntimacy
    what he said
  • rac727

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    Feb 25, 2012 4:48 PM GMT
    intimacy security feeling loved and close to someone icon_smile.gif
    it just feels good having someone hold you
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    Feb 25, 2012 5:06 PM GMT
    So many things, but most of all - the safety and security that comes when you surrender yourself to someone as strong as you. I feel like my whole life, I've had to be stronger than everyone else. I was the man of the family or the boss or the guy with the plan. But when I cuddle, I'm nothing.
  • mybud

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    Feb 25, 2012 5:14 PM GMT
    The thought of me holding a guy in my arms...nuzzling my nose against the back of his neck....lightly biting on his ear...feeling our body heat combine..gotta love that....And I do.....
  • iceman82

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    Feb 25, 2012 5:20 PM GMT
    It just feels... so safe.
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    Feb 25, 2012 5:23 PM GMT
    Cuddling is awesome !!
    It completes a bond between two peoples and raises the level of intimacy .icon_biggrin.gif
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    Feb 25, 2012 5:23 PM GMT
    cuddling is for insecure people who cannot depend on comfort they can bring themselves.
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    Feb 25, 2012 5:24 PM GMT
    What everyone else said. I'm not sure there's anything to "get" about it. You either like it, or don't.
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    Feb 25, 2012 5:27 PM GMT
    iceman82 saidIt just feels... so safe.
    I agree, good answer. I love it.
  • mikjmn

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    Feb 25, 2012 5:37 PM GMT
    Cuddling is the best... after a long work day nothing is better than to climb into bed and cuddle all night long.

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    Feb 25, 2012 5:38 PM GMT
    Oh my god...cuddling is amazing!

    It's hard to describe, and some would say it's better than sex.
    The feeling of being in a guy's strong arms as you lay on his chest, whilst he gently caresses your head and back just gives you this really safe warm feeling. You forget about everything and being cuddled makes you feel like that 'special someone', it makes you feel as if that guy really really likes you and that he wants to hold you, protect you and keep you safe. In simple terms: it's fucking comforting.

    Being the cuddler: you feel flattered because this guy want you to keep him warm and wrap your arms around him. You feel like a protector a blanket for your guy, and there's nothing like watching a guy snuzzling his head into your chest with a big grin on his face, because he likes every moment of it.

    It's amazing...you should try it. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Feb 25, 2012 5:42 PM GMT
    iceman82 saidIt just feels... so safe.

    Interesting word, safe. I think that is indeed one of the things I feel when I cuddle with my husband. Not the only thing, love being foremost. But safe, protected & secure are some of the things I feel when I cuddle with him.

    And what a wonderful feeling it is! I give him hugs & kisses all day long, and play games with him.

    "Did I tell you how much I love you today?"

    "No."

    "Oh, well there's probably a reason for that." And again:

    "Did I tell you how much I love you today?"

    "No."

    "Then maybe you should earn it."

    Of course he smacks me every time I say those things, and I have a thousand other silly things I say, that he expects. Every time I say "Did I tell you how much I love you today?" he knows i'm gonna say something stupid in reply.

    This is how much we love each other, how much fun we have. And how safe we feel, to have this other guy in our lives.

    Last night I didn't sleep well. And each time I woke I reached for his hand, and even though asleep, he grasped it, and I fell back asleep, knowing he was there.

    I love cuddling, or just holding hands in bed, because I know I have a man who loves me, and I'm not alone. That's all I really need in life, and all the rest is merely window dressing.
  • mar0302

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    Feb 25, 2012 5:43 PM GMT
    I love spooning someone from behind.. It makes me feel really protective and good.. and intimate.. awesome.. one of the best things in life.
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    Feb 25, 2012 5:48 PM GMT
    The intimacy of human contact, the relaxation and bliss it brings, shared warmth (literal and metaphorical). It can also be an entré into foreplay, or an element therein.

    LOVE cuddling!!!
  • FitGayDoc

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    Feb 25, 2012 5:48 PM GMT
    Who doesn't like to cuddle....it's a natural part of a loving relationship, IMO.