Post-anal sex worries[any bottoms help??]

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    Feb 25, 2012 9:22 AM GMT
    I had sex last night for the first time (I used to be a virgin before). I was a bottom. Not much pain in the course; he tried to bareback me for 2-3 sec but I was in pain and I insisted he should use a condom. He didn't use lube though, but I didn't feel much pain anyhow. I got the feeling of wanna shit, but I knew it's a normal reflex so I just went for it.

    Now after having anal sex, is there anything I should do??? I'm really new to this, and I didn't feel any pain or discomfort after the sex. Is it normal?? I do feel a bit uncomfortable if I try to contract my asshole muscle, but it doesn't really bother me if I don't do this.

    Last night after that I went to shit, and found a little amount of blood stain on the tissue paper when I wiped; but it's gone very soon. Today I didn't find any blood on the paper. I have a pile, but it's not a serious one, and it hasn't bothered me for a very long time.
    Does that mean I'm not bleeding anymore?? I'm drinking high-Calcium milk now.

    He cummed outside, and was wearing the condom in the whole penetration, and he said he's clean. Should I worry that I'll get a STD? Will you guys go for a STD checking everytime you have anal sex?? I'll nevertheless go checking 3 months later, but I'm kinda of worry....
    am I being too anxious??

    Please give me some advice. I felt nothing special in my first sex, but I'm kinda worry if there will be something gonna happen in my ass.

    Thanks!!!!icon_sad.gif

  • Matthew_brown

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    Feb 25, 2012 10:32 AM GMT
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  • HollywoodHist...

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    Feb 25, 2012 11:09 AM GMT
    Sounds normal to me, I don't think you have anything to worry about.

    However, NEVER LET A GUY GO BAREBACK!!!! EVER!!!! The ONLY time it's okay is if you are married to the guy and your relationship isn't open but then you had better trust the guy with your life, literally.
  • rnch

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    Feb 25, 2012 11:56 AM GMT
    aphrodisass saidI had sex last night for the first time (I used to be a virgin before)... He didn't use lube...






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    ....DRY...no lube icon_question.gif
  • Nizzo

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    Feb 25, 2012 12:30 PM GMT
    Spotting is normal. The booty hole is a exit not.a entrance.

    You're a champ for going at it with no lube.
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    Feb 25, 2012 4:25 PM GMT
    thank you guys...I really hope I should nothing to worry about....kinda freak me out though I've done with all protective measures....

    I didn't really feel MUCH pain without lube...maybe I've cleaned it with soap and water right before the sex?? he didn't fuck for long anyhow..

    doesn't the condom come with lube on the surface?? when he penetrated me with the condom, I didn't feel much pain when compared with the bareback

    and yes...I'll never in my life let a guy bareback me except in a more committed relationship.
    He just did that for utmost 3 secs...I guess it didn't harm too much....
  • DR2K

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    Feb 27, 2012 12:57 AM GMT
    [quote]

    You're a champ for going at it with no lube. [/quote]

    More like an idiot.