Wild and Rough Role Play and Rough Play, why do some guys get freaked out by it ?

  • MarcBodybuild...

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    Feb 25, 2012 8:26 PM GMT
    I remember a few guys i'ved been with in the past that was all jock on the outside, but was the shy type when it comes to bed !

    i like rough wild role play and foreplay, dominating ur partner and he dominates u back.

    Do some guys get freaked out easily , when u get too dominant when having sex ? lol
  • HollywoodHist...

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    Feb 25, 2012 9:31 PM GMT
    No, it's hot! icon_twisted.gif
  • mizu5

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    Feb 25, 2012 9:36 PM GMT
    sometimes its crazy hot, but sometimes its not fun.

    Being like..domatined to do things you dont really endeavour to do, not fun.

    and if the guy is too rough? I don;t want PAIN lol. a little is one thing but like, some rough is too rough.

    I don't wanna puke on your dick when you jam it down my throat, graze my teeth, and hold me there. i WILL bite you, and then I WILL push you out the door bleeding and naked.
  • HollywoodHist...

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    Feb 25, 2012 10:04 PM GMT
    mizu5 saidsometimes its crazy hot, but sometimes its not fun.

    Being like..domatined to do things you dont really endeavour to do, not fun.

    and if the guy is too rough? I don;t want PAIN lol. a little is one thing but like, some rough is too rough.

    I don't wanna puke on your dick when you jam it down my throat, graze my teeth, and hold me there. i WILL bite you, and then I WILL push you out the door bleeding and naked.


    Yeah that's not good, it's all about communication. I'd never let a guy do something to me that I wasn't okay with and if it starts to get to be to much I tell him to knock it back a couple notches. When you're doing it right the submissive is the one who is actually in control. Sounds counterintuitive but it's true.
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    Feb 26, 2012 12:38 AM GMT
    mlitsonata said
    mizu5 said... i WILL bite you, and then I WILL push you out the door bleeding and naked.
    {note: DO NOT PISS THIS GUY OFF!} icon_twisted.gif


    Yeah that's not good, it's all about communication. I'd never let a guy do something to me that I wasn't okay with and if it starts to get to be to much I tell him to knock it back a couple notches. When you're doing it right the submissive is the one who is actually in control. Sounds counterintuitive but it's true.


    This.


    I always try to work out an understanding of what a bottom/submissive's hard limits are before getting into rough play. Not all subs are wired the same way; some will not tolerate much beyond light ass-slapping or a little rough face-fucking.

    Other guys will want to be publicly humiliated by being choked and fucked in "public" (at a venue specially catering to this) and then turned loose for any horny top/verse guy to wreck his ass/piss on/slap around/hit with a cattle prod, etc.

    Not that I'd know of this from personal experience or anything...icon_razz.gif
  • HollywoodHist...

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    Feb 26, 2012 12:44 AM GMT
    Alpha is possibly the perfect top!
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    Feb 26, 2012 7:03 AM GMT
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