Is it creepy for me to wanna date younger guys?

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    Feb 26, 2012 5:21 PM GMT
    I know ..it depends , how much older right? I realize that hooking up with younger guys, is fashionable, but at what age does it look "creepy" , to ask one out? Does the "creep factor" , go down at all, if I'm in shape and look younger? I really don't find guys, my age , all that attractive, and I don't wanna go back, to dating woman. Ever go down on a woman..it's kinda nasty lol!!
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    Feb 26, 2012 5:24 PM GMT
    NO! Date who you want. Don't let some schmuck on RJ tell you what your limits "should" be.
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    Feb 26, 2012 5:25 PM GMT
    KARATEKID saidI know ..it depends , how much older right? I realize that hooking up with younger guys, is fashionable, but at what age does it look "creepy" , to ask one out? Does the "creep factor" , go down at all, if I'm in shape and look younger? I really don't find guys, my age , all that attractive, and I don't wanna go back, to dating woman. Ever go down on a woman..it's kinda nasty lol!!


    Well, as someone who does prefer older guys, let me say by the time you are my father's age or my grandfather's age (yes, both have happened) and you try to get in my pants, you need to look at your life and look at your choices.
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    Feb 26, 2012 5:25 PM GMT
    if you can pick them up from school and get confused for their dad, it's creepy
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    Feb 26, 2012 5:26 PM GMT
    calibro saidif you can pick them up from school and get confused for their dad, it's creepy


    This...lol...
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    Feb 26, 2012 5:26 PM GMT
    i dont think their should be an age limit either....i prefer guys older than me anyway....age is only a number and if you click with someone then you click
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    Feb 26, 2012 5:29 PM GMT
    KARATEKID saidI know ..it depends , how much older right? I realize that hooking up with younger guys, is fashionable, but at what age does it look "creepy" , to ask one out? Does the "creep factor" , go down at all, if I'm in shape and look younger? I really don't find guys, my age , all that attractive, and I don't wanna go back, to dating woman. Ever go down on a woman..it's kinda nasty lol!!


    The creep factor does go down for sure. I really believe you could find someone on the right maturity level and with the right life experiences to be happy...the problem is mostly the external forces from society that might cause problems for your relationship.
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    Feb 26, 2012 5:30 PM GMT
    Who cares about age? I say go for it. It's only creepy if you yourself are creepy. If you're not, then no worries!
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    Feb 26, 2012 5:31 PM GMT
    pbp456 saidi dont think their should be an age limit either....i prefer guys older than me anyway....age is only a number and if you click with someone then you click


    Pedobear_Too_Young_by_Anonymous206324351


    haha this is not directed at the op icon_smile.gif just being a troll
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    Feb 26, 2012 5:32 PM GMT
    I dont think its creepy. But usually, there are some issues there. Sometimes both guys have them so it works out.

  • Feb 26, 2012 5:32 PM GMT
    I think there's a difference between dating and just having sex.

    The "rules" are much more relaxed with the latter, in my opinion.

    You can have a good time with someone regardless of age, but to make a deeper connection I think it becomes more difficult as the age gap widens.

    If it happens for both of you, though, more power to you.
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    Feb 26, 2012 5:36 PM GMT
    I don't think so !

    I believe the socially acceptable age difference 'measure' is

    the younger person's age (exp. 24) multiplied by two ( 24 x 2 = 4icon_cool.gif and subtract seven (48 - 7 = 41).

    According to this I am too young, but screw that ! Next time your in MTL hit me up ! icon_cool.gif

    J
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    Feb 26, 2012 5:36 PM GMT
    FootballHawk said
    pbp456 saidi dont think their should be an age limit either....i prefer guys older than me anyway....age is only a number and if you click with someone then you click


    Pedobear_Too_Young_by_Anonymous206324351


    haha this is not directed at the op icon_smile.gif just being a troll


    My sister walked in while this was on my screen and she literally rolled on the floor laughing after I explained who Pedo Bear was.
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    Feb 26, 2012 5:38 PM GMT
    No. It is not creepy at all. In fact, I like to date guys that are years older than me, I find them really attractive.
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    Feb 26, 2012 5:45 PM GMT
    Provided it's legal, who gives a hoot?
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    Feb 26, 2012 5:48 PM GMT
    As long as they're not confused and looking for more of a father-figure then I see no problem.
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    Feb 26, 2012 5:50 PM GMT
    Ex_Mil8 saidProvided it's legal, who gives a hoot?


    Exactly!
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    Feb 26, 2012 5:53 PM GMT
    I got asked out by a 20 year old yesterday
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    Feb 26, 2012 5:54 PM GMT
    Thanks guys... do you think, younger guys , would approach me , specifically, or be intimidated? AND...I didn't get even 1 EWWWW....about going down on a woman, being nasty!! lol
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    Feb 26, 2012 5:54 PM GMT
    KARATEKID saidThanks guys... do you think, younger guys , would approach me , specifically, or be intimidated? AND...I didn't get even 1 EWWWW....about going down on a woman, being nasty!! lol


    You will find many youngsters who will approach you.
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    Feb 26, 2012 5:55 PM GMT
    KARATEKID saidThanks guys... do you think, younger guys , would approach me , specifically, or be intimidated? AND...I didn't get even 1 EWWWW....about going down on a woman, being nasty!! lol


    Well, for me at least, I would have no problem approaching you.
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    Feb 26, 2012 5:56 PM GMT
    bboy55 saidI think there's a difference between dating and just having sex.

    The "rules" are much more relaxed with the latter, in my opinion.

    You can have a good time with someone regardless of age, but to make a deeper connection I think it becomes more difficult as the age gap widens.

    If it happens for both of you, though, more power to you.


    Couldn't agree more with this statement.
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    Feb 26, 2012 5:57 PM GMT
    KARATEKID saidThanks guys... do you think, younger guys , would approach me , specifically, or be intimidated? AND...I didn't get even 1 EWWWW....about going down on a woman, being nasty!! lol


    I'd definitely approach you for friendship (I'm basically friends with everyone until you give me a reason not to be) and that's the best start of any potential relationship. As for the lady parts...I think we just try and suppress the mental imagery.
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    Feb 26, 2012 6:00 PM GMT
    KARATEKID saidThanks guys... do you think, younger guys , would approach me , specifically, or be intimidated? AND...I didn't get even 1 EWWWW....about going down on a woman, being nasty!! lol
    I'm just slightly older than you and get approached by younger guys often. Interestingly enough, the couple of bfs I've had that were in their late 20s were very much interested in a relationship and not interested in a 'sugar daddy' or just sex. Although I think this type of a relationship is much hard to sustain, I think the longevity of the relationship will depend on the maturity level of the younger guy.
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    Feb 26, 2012 6:03 PM GMT
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    KARATEKID saidThanks guys... do you think, younger guys , would approach me , specifically, or be intimidated? AND...I didn't get even 1 EWWWW....about going down on a woman, being nasty!! lol
    I'm just slightly older than you and get approached by younger guys often. Interestingly enough, the couple of bfs I've had that were in their late 20s were very much interested in a relationship and not interested in a 'sugar daddy' or just sex. Although I think this type of a relationship is much hard to sustain, I think the longevity of the relationship will depend on the maturity level of the younger guy.


    Totally agree, Ted, you know your a hot motherfucker, get yourself out there and test the waters for real man ! x