How to approach a guy I like?

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    Feb 27, 2012 3:46 AM GMT
    Every time I like a guy I never know how to approach them. I try sparking up conversations with them and then from there it leads into asking them to chill. They never respond or have some excuse so I didn't know if by me trying to talk to them I was coming off to strongly. But I don't want to ignore them.

    How should I go about it?
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    Feb 27, 2012 3:49 AM GMT
    Either you're really ugly, or this is all in your head.

    I'm sure they are just shooting you down saying that have other things to do because they might actually have other things to do. You're just asking these guys to hang out, not jump into your bed with you so I don't see why they would keep shooting you down.
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    Feb 27, 2012 4:07 AM GMT
    This sounds similar to my case, but that would be I'm not out to anyone and they're 'straight' (have no idea if they're gay or curious or whatever but they gave signs) so I really had no idea how to approach them. The best bet would be just to become more friends with them first and then see where things go.
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    Feb 27, 2012 4:14 AM GMT
    Chad2468Emr saidEither you're really ugly, or this is all in your head.

    I'm sure they are just shooting you down saying that have other things to do because they might actually have other things to do. You're just asking these guys to hang out, not jump into your bed with you so I don't see why they would keep shooting you down.
    Eh I must be really ugly then. I'm in the same spot as he is and after this long it can't all be in my head
  • HollywoodHist...

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    Feb 27, 2012 4:16 AM GMT
    I'm not a great looking guy, just average, have a lot of work to do on my body - but I've always been very lucky in love. Have had great long lasting relationships with guys WAY out of my league. How did I approach them? I just talked to them. "Hi, I'm Dale" "Having a good day?" Try to find common ground. No expectations, be nice, listen, be a good person, present your best qualities without being arrogant and ... well you just get lucky.
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    Feb 27, 2012 4:43 AM GMT
    MarkRoger saidThis sounds similar to my case, but that would be I'm not out to anyone and they're 'straight' (have no idea if they're gay or curious or whatever but they gave signs) so I really had no idea how to approach them. The best bet would be just to become more friends with them first and then see where things go.


    Just out of curiosity... are you a fan of RENT? (The two main guys are named Mark and Roger).
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    Feb 27, 2012 5:04 AM GMT
    CollegeDude27 saidEvery time I like a guy I never know how to approach them.
    Approach them naked. It's the most effective way.
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    Feb 27, 2012 5:07 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    CollegeDude27 saidEvery time I like a guy I never know how to approach them.
    Approach them naked. It's the most effective way.


    icon_eek.gif *runs screaming* *turns back to look again* icon_biggrin.gificon_wink.gificon_redface.gif *runs screaming*
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    Feb 27, 2012 5:10 AM GMT
    CollegeDude27 saidEvery time I like a guy I never know how to approach them. I try sparking up conversations with them and then from there it leads into asking them to chill. They never respond or have some excuse so I didn't know if by me trying to talk to them I was coming off to strongly. But I don't want to ignore them.

    How should I go about it?
    What does that mean? Can you elaborate?