Dating Advice?

  • AndreC17

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    Feb 28, 2012 1:17 AM GMT
    I'm a skinny guy, toned, but skinny, and into bigger/muscular guys. I'm attractive, smart, funny and a well rounded guy, but I just can't seem to find a guy that I'm into. I'm attracted to toned/very muscular guys but I'm afraid my physique really hurts me when it comes to dating. Am I over thinking it? Any advice would be helpful. Thanks!
  • ohioguy12

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    Mar 18, 2012 9:53 PM GMT
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    Mar 18, 2012 10:14 PM GMT
    I checked with Dr. Ruth Firsttimer and she said... jk. You're over thinking it. You're young and although some guys that are toned and very muscular like only the same, I'm sure there are those that like thin young nice looking guys like you. Just keep in mind that the cover of the book does NOT make it a good book. Don't be shallow and instead check out what's inside the book, the story of the right book is more likely much better than the cover.

    Good luck!
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    Mar 18, 2012 10:18 PM GMT
    You look like a diva
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    Mar 18, 2012 10:21 PM GMT
    eb925guy saidI checked with Dr. Ruth Firsttimer and she said... jk. You're over thinking it. You're young and although some guys that are toned and very muscular like only the same, I'm sure there are those that like thin young nice looking guys like you. Just keep in mind that the cover of the book does NOT make it a good book. Don't be shallow and instead check out what's inside the book, the story of the right book is more likely much better than the cover.

    Good luck!


    True. Song of Solomon looked like shit until I read it [a more literal spin on your metaphor, but I think you catch my drift].

    AndreC17, I was in the same boat as you until I realized I was being a bit narrow. I think if you'd like a "toned/very muscular guy" to explore outside his comfort zone and date a "toned, but skinny" guy, you should be willing to do the same
  • Suetonius

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    Mar 18, 2012 10:22 PM GMT
    AndreC17 saidbut I just can't seem to find a guy that I'm into. I'm attracted to toned/very muscular guys but I'm afraid my physique really hurts me when it comes to dating.

    There's a very big club of guys who "can't seem to find a guy that . . ."
    Keep looking.
    Work-out. Most muscular guys want other muscular guys.
    Not all. So keep hitting on/answering ads of/posting ads about getting together with muscular guys. There may be one for you - it just might take a long time to find him. You're on the right site for musuclar or worked-out guys - but you will need to put a lot more on your profile to encourage many to answer any inquiries you make of them.