Tips on How to Be Sexy?

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    Feb 29, 2012 12:49 AM GMT
    I'm really awkward and I don't know how to be sexy. I want to find something that will work for me. I'm not sure how to act or talk around guys. I want to be able to seduce a guy and not just embarrass myself. Any tips?
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    Feb 29, 2012 3:07 AM GMT
  • TheBizMan

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    Feb 29, 2012 6:18 AM GMT
    A lot of peope like aggressiveness/assertivness. You have to be outgoing and willing to approach someone. You have to be able to pull off a perfect mixture of douchiness and likeability. Too much of either can make you seem like an asshole or on the flipside a timid wallflower. Be able to compliment guys without seeming creepy. You have to be sly. Seem mysterious and brooding, make a guy wan't to know more about you.

    That's what I try to emulate....all my smiley gay pictures seem to say otherwise though.icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Feb 29, 2012 12:26 PM GMT
    Don't be a fail-troll using a different name than this OP's character originally had.
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    Feb 29, 2012 5:17 PM GMT
    TheBizMan saidA lot of peope like aggressiveness/assertivness. You have to be outgoing and willing to approach someone. You have to be able to pull off a perfect mixture of douchiness and likeability. Too much of either can make you seem like an asshole or on the flipside a timid wallflower. Be able to compliment guys without seeming creepy. You have to be sly. Seem mysterious and brooding, make a guy wan't to know more about you.

    That's what I try to emulate....all my smiley gay pictures seem to say otherwise though.icon_rolleyes.gif


    Good ideas. I get what you mean. It's just I'm really not sure how I can pull that off icon_confused.gif
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    Feb 29, 2012 5:19 PM GMT
    Here is what you will need:
    1. A Bentley
    2. A one-piece swimsuit.
    3. A pair of stilettos.
    4. A hose.
    5. A Carl's Jr. cheeseburger

  • ohioguy12

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    Feb 29, 2012 5:21 PM GMT
    The sexiest guys are the ones who don't worry about being sexy.
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    Feb 29, 2012 5:26 PM GMT
    you wink at all the boysicon_wink.gif
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    Feb 29, 2012 5:26 PM GMT
    Like Samantha said in SATC "the only words you should be using in bed are dirty ones". The same can also be applied to getting someone in the sack, use suggestive language but be careful, if your talking to an uptight prude/repressed type you might scare them off.

    Also a nice seductive glance while you are talking to them also helps, let them know you wanna fuck them with your eyes.


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    Feb 29, 2012 5:26 PM GMT
    ohioguy12 saidThe sexiest guys are the ones who don't worry about being sexy.


    + 1
  • GoldenBoy12

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    Feb 29, 2012 5:28 PM GMT
    It's easier to look sexy in photos then To actually be sexy
    I'm attractive now but those years growing up as the chubby insecure kid has damaged me
    In my mind I'm still that chubby kid who ate a bag of potatoe chips in the back of class everyday leaving chip grease and crumbs on the pages of my text books
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    Feb 29, 2012 5:32 PM GMT
    Be yourself
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    Feb 29, 2012 5:43 PM GMT
    ohioguy12 saidThe sexiest guys are the ones who don't worry about being sexy.


    This.

    Just be you! You can't take a masterclass in sexiness, some people will find you sexy, some won't. That's it.
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    Feb 29, 2012 5:53 PM GMT
    Confidence (not arrogance) is the ultimate aphrodisiac.

    If u have to ask how to ACT sexy, your not sexy.
  • calibro

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    Feb 29, 2012 6:02 PM GMT
    show people your penis
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    Feb 29, 2012 6:12 PM GMT
    Be confident and engaging. And realize you have nothing to lose.
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    Feb 29, 2012 6:16 PM GMT
    calibro saidshow people your penis


    i agree on this one
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    Feb 29, 2012 6:19 PM GMT
    first your imagination must be highly good not just par...from there you transform yourself inside out...Get it;

    lolz before your penis..like calibro said or your ass does the talk.

    still cant?...you should watch the whole season of NipTuck. icon_cool.gif
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    Feb 29, 2012 6:26 PM GMT
    archon saidyou wink at all the boysicon_wink.gif


    I second this.

    You have beautiful eyes. Be confident and use you eyes. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Feb 29, 2012 6:39 PM GMT
    ohioguy12 saidThe sexiest guys are the ones who don't worry about being sexy.

    so true..