Are Gay Guys Really So Obnoxious, Horny and Picky?

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    Feb 29, 2012 1:40 AM GMT
    I dunno if those are the right words to describe the behaviour so I'll try to go more in-depth. I find, from at least the guys that I've talked to online that live in my area, that it's all about looks and sex for them. Maybe it's because a proper gay relationship can't exist where I am or something but that's how it comes across to me and then when I read stuff about other gay guys in different parts of the world (USA mainly) it's like just the same thing.

    Since here actually has some normal thinking people (not gay people, just normal thinking people) maybe I can get an unbiased and actually reasonable response to this.

    Thanks!
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    Feb 29, 2012 2:05 AM GMT
    It has nothing to do with gay guys, or guys at all. A huge number of people are shallow, obnoxious, horny, self-centered and stupid. I travel a lot for business and I am in many American and some European cities and I see these sorts all the time, everywhere. Six billion people and my guess is about 5.5 billion are just terrible. Has nothing to do with gay, although the vast majority of the gay men I have met in my life have also been obnoxious and shallow.
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    Feb 29, 2012 4:10 AM GMT
    Gay or straight, the people you encounter online is not a true representation of what's out there in real life. So don't be discouraged. There are some nice people out there.
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    Feb 29, 2012 4:15 AM GMT
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    Feb 29, 2012 4:15 AM GMT
    xrichx saidGay or straight, the people you encounter online is not a true representation of what's out there in real life. So don't be discouraged. There are some nice people out there.


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    Feb 29, 2012 4:20 AM GMT
    Are Gay Guys Really So Obnoxious, Horny and Picky?

    Not all of us... that would be too much of a generalization (I think I broke my "G' key today!) No worse than straight guys (or lesbians) when the conditions are reasonably similar. So don't be discouraged! Just fight for an even playing field where you are!
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    Feb 29, 2012 4:44 AM GMT
    Hell yes!

    I am very picky. When I give you some crayolas and a coloring book you better color inside the lines or its OVER! icon_mad.gif
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    Feb 29, 2012 4:45 AM GMT
    Clay got horny just typing that! LOL
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    Mar 01, 2012 12:53 AM GMT
    Well thanks for the posts, gives me a small glimmer of hope I guess for gays and less for humanity in general lol.
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    Mar 01, 2012 12:58 AM GMT
    You live in a part of the world that is homophobic and the guys you are talking to highly likely won't want a relationship because that pretty much means they would have to come out, whether it be to themselves or to others.
    When they're looking for sex on the down-low they can at least fake being heterosexual by dating a girl for public face.
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    Mar 01, 2012 5:54 PM GMT
    I'm totally with you a lot of the guys I meet are feminine, picky and just wanna fuck, the best way to meet guys that are more like yourself would probably be to go to a pride group.
    PS> nothing wrong with being feminine just saying, I prefer the more masculine men.
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    Mar 01, 2012 5:55 PM GMT
    *fap fap fap*

    Uh, what was the question?
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    Mar 01, 2012 6:04 PM GMT
    YES! CLEARLY, all gays are EXACTLY the same way!
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    Mar 01, 2012 6:06 PM GMT
    Velociraptor saidYES! CLEARLY, all gays are EXACTLY the same way!
    We should have a celebration orgy for our alikeness! icon_biggrin.gif
  • dancedancekj

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    Mar 01, 2012 6:18 PM GMT
    Two things

    MarkRoger saidI dunno if those are the right words to describe the behaviour so I'll try to go more in-depth. I find, from at least the guys that I've talked to online that live in my area, that it's all about looks and sex for them.


    Um, you're online. Where our initial perception of people based is a few words in their profile and a carefully selected photo. What do you expect? In fact, screening for appearance is practically the only way I can decisively filter potentials.

    I'm not saying people don't have more to offer, but unless we have a meaningful interaction (which rarely occurs, maybe 2-5% of the time in my experience) I'm not going to be interested unless you're cute, and have no reason to be interested otherwise.

    MarkRoger said
    Since here actually has some normal thinking people (not gay people, just normal thinking people) maybe I can get an unbiased and actually reasonable response to this.


    You might want to work on the attitude before you try finding a guy to have a relationship. Gay people are people, and there is no such thing as normal people (although there are crazy people) and the self-loathing attitude is kind of a turn-off.
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    Mar 01, 2012 6:45 PM GMT
    A lot of those labels are just stereotypes, they can apply to any sexuality.

    It just depends on what they are after. If it's meaningless sex then appearance is going to trump any other quality a guy may have since the aim is just to orgasm.

    It's a very empty way to live your life though and even the most shallow of gay men have the realization (usually when they are older and don't have their good looks/youth to rely on) that some actual substance is required.

    Personally a website like this is great to me, there is a sea of attractive men here so what makes any one person stand out ? The answer is their personality and intelligence. Otherwise, your just purely masturbation material.