How long did it took for u to realize u like guys

  • MarcBodybuild...

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    Feb 29, 2012 7:52 PM GMT
    I believe i was 18 , before then i had girlfriends
  • TheBizMan

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    Feb 29, 2012 8:14 PM GMT
    I dunno.. 3 years old? that's as far back as I can remember
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    Feb 29, 2012 8:21 PM GMT
    As soon as that handsome doctor spanked my minute old ass!
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    Feb 29, 2012 9:07 PM GMT
    To the OP: Just kinda recently surprisingly. I know it sounds odd but I am pretty sure I'm gay but some days I doubt it. Meh... it really shouldn't be that complicated.
  • Generaleclect...

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    Feb 29, 2012 11:56 PM GMT
    Watching pofessional wrestling made me wonder, but definitely when I got curious about porn (13 or so). Fun, innocent times.
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    Mar 01, 2012 12:00 AM GMT
    I didn't come out of the closet, I came out of my mother's womb.
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    Mar 01, 2012 12:02 AM GMT
    I was 16 and he was 18......pleasant memory icon_smile.gif
  • BuckeyeJock13

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    Mar 01, 2012 12:06 AM GMT
    I knew when I was 8. It took a lot longer to understand and accept it though.
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    Mar 01, 2012 12:14 AM GMT
    runnersjock saidI knew when I was 8. It took a lot longer to understand and accept it though.


    Ditto!
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    Mar 01, 2012 12:16 AM GMT
    I think I knew pretty early... but there were complicating factors that led me to desperately want not to like guys. So I did a lot of Orwellian double-think / denial for a loooooong time. Didn't start coming out until I was 22.

    EDIT: but as to specific age, I started noticing things around 5-6.
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    Mar 01, 2012 12:17 AM GMT
    In 3rd grade. Had a stunning realization and had no idea what to do about it.
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    Mar 01, 2012 12:20 AM GMT
    In hindsight: knew when I was 10, acted on it at 35, came out at 50. Nothing is perfect, especially me icon_cry.gif
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    Mar 01, 2012 12:20 AM GMT
    Since childhood, but became fully conscious of it wen i was 7...i felt so 'different' within icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Mar 01, 2012 12:21 AM GMT
    about 8 or 9 when I was getting turned on by bare chested guys on soap operas
  • hebrewman

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    Mar 01, 2012 12:21 AM GMT
    bgcat57 said
    runnersjock saidI knew when I was 8. It took a lot longer to understand and accept it though.


    Ditto!


    ditto +1, however, it was 7th grade PE, first time in the group shower room. two guys---forrest wagner, and david carey gave me, well, a sort of, a weak sensation every time i looked at them. forrest was olive complected, jet black hair and bright 'windex' colored eyes. david was shorter, brown hair and at the tender age of 12, already had a full bush and chest hair. and a huge dick too.
    hmmmmm i wonder where these two are now. forrest ended up dating my sister for a while. you can imagine the tension every time he came to the house to visit.
  • metta

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    Mar 01, 2012 12:23 AM GMT
    I don't remember how old I was but I would just stay... too long...during college. Way longer than anyone else here has mentioned so far. Being shy and having to deal with my father dying during high school/college....I just had a different focus.
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    Mar 01, 2012 12:23 AM GMT
    I was in high school. A friend was over and we were playing on the computer when he suggested we look up porn. And we pulled up some naked dudes. We both acted like we didn't want to see it at first, and then we kinda looked at each other and understood.

    That was a fun friend ;)
  • HPgeek934

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    Mar 01, 2012 12:25 AM GMT
    when i started jacking off when i was 11 and thought abought the boys in my class instead of the girls
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    Mar 01, 2012 12:25 AM GMT
    hebrewman said
    bgcat57 said
    runnersjock saidI knew when I was 8. It took a lot longer to understand and accept it though.


    Ditto!


    ditto +1, however, it was 7th grade PE, first time in the group shower room. two guys---forrest wagner, and david carey gave me, well, a sort of, a weak sensation every time i looked at them. forrest was olive complected, jet black hair and bright 'windex' colored eyes. david was shorter, brown hair and at the tender age of 12, already had a full bush and chest hair. and a huge dick too.
    hmmmmm i wonder where these two are now. forrest ended up dating my sister for a while. you can imagine the tension every time he came to the house to visit.
    OMG.. thats sounds like kris selfridge! I was so enamored but embarrassed at the same time. He had it all.. I looked 6.icon_cry.gif
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    Mar 01, 2012 12:31 AM GMT
    Since I was 4 probably. I don't remember ever finding a girl attractive
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    Mar 01, 2012 12:41 AM GMT
    since the moment i became self aware.
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    Mar 01, 2012 12:45 AM GMT
    7 years old. damn that was a long time ago..... icon_redface.gif
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    Mar 01, 2012 12:52 AM GMT
    i can remember signs back to age 2 or 3, reacting to things i saw on television. I didn't understand about what it meant to be gay until my mid-to-late teens. I'd never even understood the concept before, that guys liked guys sometimes. I was certainly active on the internet and was...explorative...but i never stopped and thought about whether or not it was "normal" except when someone came in the room...i snapped the back off a perfectly good danish modern chair one time my mom surprised me. I even spent time with a gay uncle AND HIS BOYFRIEND but nothing ever bothered me about it. I just thought they liked cats and gardening (had some AMAZING flowerbeds). But it was probably right around 2004 that i finally put 2 and 2 together when i started watching Will & Grace, hahah. I almost immediately came out to my parents and after graduation came out completely.
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    Mar 04, 2012 7:47 AM GMT
    jus now.. saw ur face & fell in love xP .
    lmao dont get your hopes up . c:
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    Mar 04, 2012 7:53 AM GMT
    I did plenty of gay things before I realized, but it was a week to my 13th birthday. Also the day I accepted it. Noone can tell me to hate myself cause they're an insecure asshole!

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