How did you meet your bf?

  • thejellyjoker

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    Mar 02, 2012 8:45 PM GMT
    Ok guys lets hear your stories. Tell us about how did you meet your bf or current fuck buddy or whatever you call him.
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    Mar 02, 2012 8:55 PM GMT
    Craigslist! icon_biggrin.gif


    No just kidding.


    Its was actually on plenty of fish.


    Just kidding again.



    I'm actually single. icon_confused.gif lmao
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    Mar 02, 2012 8:56 PM GMT
    Online.

    Be prepared for this thread to fail. Most threads asking about other people's relationships don't work out because nobody's in one.
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    Mar 02, 2012 8:56 PM GMT
    Met him on RealJock. Will be one year in June icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 02, 2012 8:58 PM GMT
    Online via okcupid. Kind of happened by accident after I kept checking out his profile. He messaged me first. Been together for a year and 3 months. After dating a lot of mismatches, think I've finally found a keeper at the ripe old age of 28. icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 02, 2012 9:53 PM GMT
    Anduru saidOnline.

    Be prepared for this thread to fail. Most threads asking about other people's relationships don't work out because nobody's in one.


    haha awww ok I don't feel so bad now
  • Latenight30

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    Mar 02, 2012 9:58 PM GMT
    AOL and then went to coffee. I just never left
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    Mar 02, 2012 9:58 PM GMT
    In a parking garage on South Beach.

    ...srsly...
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    Mar 02, 2012 10:02 PM GMT
    I have two guys that I'm "dating"... wouldn't use the "boyfriend" word, but also they are much, much more than "fuck buddies".

    One I met here, the other I met on G-Harmony (Grinder).
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    Mar 02, 2012 10:07 PM GMT
    Online and its working out quite well
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    Mar 02, 2012 10:09 PM GMT
    EasilyDistracted saidI have two guys that I'm "dating"... wouldn't use the "boyfriend" word, but also they are much, much more than "fuck buddies".

    One I met here, the other I met on G-Harmony (Grinder).
    That's called "friends with benefits," but I still use "boyfriend" for simplicity.
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    Mar 02, 2012 10:16 PM GMT
    I met the last guy I dated on manhunt.net. That went god awfully wrong. Not finding a boyfriend on hook up site ever again.
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    Mar 02, 2012 10:19 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    EasilyDistracted saidI have two guys that I'm "dating"... wouldn't use the "boyfriend" word, but also they are much, much more than "fuck buddies".

    One I met here, the other I met on G-Harmony (Grinder).
    That's called "friends with benefits," but I still use "boyfriend" for simplicity.
    Yeah I can see where it would be construed as "FWB" but there is a lot of declarations of "missing", "adoring", "getting attached", "wanting to go slow". And we don't always have sex, I waited with both of them for about a month... I haven't decided which one, if either, would be suitable to shoot for "long term, monogamous partner status". It's been two months approximately with each so I think if it isn't inherent by the end of the 4th then it's time to cut both or one loose. Ya think 4 months is a good timeline?
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    Mar 02, 2012 10:25 PM GMT
    I met my previous boyfriends on Adam4Adam. One place to meet a guy is as good as another as long as you keep to your own standards of what is acceptable and what you're there for.
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    Mar 02, 2012 10:28 PM GMT
    EasilyDistracted saidYeah I can see where it would be construed as "FWB" but there is a lot of declarations of "missing", "adoring", "getting attached", "wanting to go slow". And we don't always have sex, I waited with both of them for about a month... I haven't decided which one, if either, would be suitable to shoot for "long term, monogamous partner status". It's been two months approximately with each so I think if it isn't inherent by the end of the 4th then it's time to cut both or one loose. Ya think 4 months is a good timeline?
    lol wow I don't think it's fair to either of them that you're dating another person unless they both know about it.
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    Mar 02, 2012 10:35 PM GMT
    Anduru saidlol wow I don't think it's fair to either of them that you're dating another person unless they both know about it.

    They don't know each other personally but we do have disclosure that we are not committed. We also have the "free to see other people" talks, one of them is seeing other guys the other second is just seeing me and is ok with the looseness of our situation. It's above board. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 02, 2012 10:36 PM GMT
    I met him at a rock night that was on at a student nightclub. He was tall and masculine/rugged so I didn't know whether he was into guys but he kept staring at me all night.

    He came up to me at one point and said I was gorgeous. I was taken aback but because I was tipsy I had a tonne of confidence so I pulled him into a corner of the club and put my hands over his body. When I felt those big pecs underneath his NIN T shirt I knew I was gonna fall for him big time.

    We exchanged mobile numbers and went on our first date the next week.
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    Mar 02, 2012 10:37 PM GMT
    I roughed him up in a darkroom. It was really romantic.
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    Mar 02, 2012 10:37 PM GMT
    on here. been awhile now, and things just get better and better icon_smile.gif

    i have no plans to be without him icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 02, 2012 10:46 PM GMT
    in the showers at the gym.
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    Mar 02, 2012 11:00 PM GMT
    dm921 saidin the showers at the gym.


    Thats the most romantic story I have ever heard
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    Mar 02, 2012 11:07 PM GMT
    dm921 saidin the showers at the gym.
    if every guy I met in the shower had an ending like that I'd be living on a polyamorous commune of gay men.

    ...definitely an anomaly ending to a shower meeting, but very sweet... however it happens. icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 02, 2012 11:09 PM GMT
    GreenHopper said
    dm921 saidin the showers at the gym.


    Thats the most romantic story I have ever heard


    There's so much more to it. But I'll spare you the boring sappy details.
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    Mar 02, 2012 11:09 PM GMT
    oops, wrong link, lol.

    Here you go Johnnyange!

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/1438173
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    Mar 02, 2012 11:11 PM GMT
    Edward23 saidWalmart store in the Electronics department


    Lol buying CD s of Aaliyah?