Really need some helpful advice...

  • lemres15

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    Mar 03, 2012 5:46 AM GMT
    I have this guy in my class who I'm madly in love with. But there are four problems. One, he teases me alot. I heard that this was a sign of flirting, but it's really getting on my nerves. Because of this, I can't really have a good conversation with him. And I already have a hard time just saying hey to him. He doesn't do this to any of the other guys in my class except me. Two, I have no idea if he's gay. When the topic comes up in class, it seems to me that he tries to ignore it. But he occasionally says something offensive to gays to not blow his cover(if he is gay). Three, he's very defensive, especially to me. Combined with my shyness and his defensiveness, it would be very hard for me to ask him straight up if he was gay. Four, we don't have the same interests. He likes soccer and watching soccer, and I like playing and watching tennis. He loves cars and knows alot about them, but I could care less. But the weird thing is that he constantly looks at me from across the room. We make lots of eye contact and it's pretty awkward. I want to at least be friends with him because he's a really cool guy, but I can't with the things he does. I really need some advice right now. Should I forget about him? I still feel like he does other things, but I can't think of them right now.
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    Mar 03, 2012 5:48 AM GMT
    All you need is 10 seconds of insane courage and great things will happen.
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    Mar 03, 2012 6:05 AM GMT
    "I want to at least be friends with him because he's a really cool guy, but I can't with the things he does."

    This won't change even if you did in fact go out together, unless you take an interest in his thing, and he in yours. icon_wink.gif

  • lemres15

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    Mar 03, 2012 4:05 PM GMT
    Karaoke_kid saidAll you need is 10 seconds of insane courage and great things will happen.
    But I'm so scared to do it! I get so embarrassed in front of him icon_redface.gif I hate the feeling of love!
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    Mar 03, 2012 4:15 PM GMT
    lemres15 said
    Karaoke_kid saidAll you need is 10 seconds of insane courage and great things will happen.
    But I'm so scared to do it! I get so embarrassed in front of him icon_redface.gif I hate the feeling of love!



    How exactly is that the feeling of love? Infatuation with someone you have nothing in common with is what I'm reading. icon_wink.gif
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    Mar 03, 2012 4:32 PM GMT
    attraction is weird. no one can explain it. sometimes u are just drawn together despite your differences. he sounds like a dickhead to me, but most guys are. my advice: next time you get into the staring-across-the-room thing, just calmly wink and flash a smile at him. then look down at your crotch, and back up at him.see what happens. icon_wink.gif