Is it a top's job to initiate sex?

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    Mar 03, 2012 2:33 PM GMT
    If one is in a monogamous relationship where the bottom never initiates sex is there a problem?
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    Mar 03, 2012 2:33 PM GMT
    Alpha13 saidIf one is in a monogamous relationship where the bottom never initiates sex is there a problem?
    Yes.
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    Mar 03, 2012 2:34 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    Alpha13 saidIf one is in a monogamous relationship where the bottom never initiates sex is there a problem?
    Yes.
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    Mar 03, 2012 2:36 PM GMT
    TropicalMark said
    paulflexes said
    Alpha13 saidIf one is in a monogamous relationship where the bottom never initiates sex is there a problem?
    Yes.
    +1
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    Mar 03, 2012 2:43 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    TropicalMark said
    paulflexes said
    Alpha13 saidIf one is in a monogamous relationship where the bottom never initiates sex is there a problem?
    Yes.
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    Mar 03, 2012 7:42 PM GMT
    Definetly yes! Im a bottom and I initiate sex often (If not always :lolicon_smile.gif
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    Mar 04, 2012 5:50 PM GMT
    I don't think it's a problem. It's okay for a bottom not to want sex.
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    Mar 07, 2012 3:49 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidIt probably depends how new or old is the relationship and whether or not it bothers you. If it bothers you, you should ask him about it. If he never does, it might mean while he might really love you, he is not all that turned on by the sex. Are you a wham bam thank you kind of guy? Maybe he just likes being dominated? In any event I think your best course of action is to ask him why.



    Why has "talking" about stuff become better than speaking with actions. If I talk to him it's as if I am bullying him of threatening him about it. Won't the final outcome be the same since I am not gonna force someone to do anything.