Why do you dance with girls at gay clubs?

  • WhoDey

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    Mar 03, 2012 5:24 PM GMT
    ?
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    Mar 03, 2012 5:26 PM GMT
    I don't.
  • mizu5

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    Mar 03, 2012 5:27 PM GMT
    Because after a few weeks of going and no one dancing with me, I'd rather just have fun.
  • disasterpiece

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    Mar 03, 2012 6:32 PM GMT
    Because they mah gurlz and we be poppin it on tha danceflo'.
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    Mar 03, 2012 8:29 PM GMT
    Why are you such a buzzkill?
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    Mar 03, 2012 8:44 PM GMT
    Why do you dance with girls at gay clubs?

    Just to have fun, and see them smile. Because sometimes at a gay club they are the ones that no one will dance with. Women don't interest me sexually, but that doesn't mean I won't be friendly with them.

    From a different perspective, my partner tells me that when he went to illegal gay clubs in the 1950s & 60s, many guys brought along a woman, the original fag hags. So that if there was a police raid, the guys would let go of their male dancing partners and scramble for the women, sort of a variation of the musical chairs game.
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    Mar 03, 2012 8:45 PM GMT
    Art_Deco saidWhy do you dance with girls at gay clubs?

    Just to have fun, and see them smile. Because sometimes at a gay club they are the ones that no one will dance with. Women don't interest me sexually, but that doesn't mean I won't be friendly with them.

    From a different perspective, my partner tells me that when he went to illegal gay clubs in the 1950s & 60s, many guys brought along a woman, the original fag hags. So that if there was a police raid, the guys would let go of their male dancing partners and scramble for the women, sort of a variation of the musical chairs game.


    Do you have a personal story regarding that practice? I am very interesting in the topic of socialization of homosexual men in public when it was deemed illegal by the government!
  • Vaughn

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    Mar 03, 2012 10:16 PM GMT
    They dance rape me.
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    Mar 03, 2012 10:19 PM GMT
    Vaughn saidThey dance rape me.


    Vaughn! Where have you been? I've missed those green ear-phones.

    Yeah, I can understand why those chicks would do that to you (trying real hard to offer something on-topic :s )
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    Mar 03, 2012 10:21 PM GMT
    Ummm, because in those cases they're friends. And it's nice to give friends attention. icon_cool.gif

    At my Toronto going-away bachannal (I moved to Vancouver), one of my friends shot video and eventually started asking people what they were going to miss about me. At the end of the video, one of my female friends responded "the groping from behind..." icon_lol.gif

    It's all about friendship, bonding, being silly, being flirty with someone that is completely safe. Going to a club and dancin' isn't always about "the hookup".
  • Montague

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    Mar 03, 2012 10:31 PM GMT
    Most of the time, it's because they can actually dance.
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    Mar 03, 2012 10:34 PM GMT
    Let me be Frank,

    Well, nevermind I am not him so... I'll be me.


    Gay guys scare me. Especially club gays. Girls can dance where as most guys just bob around. I'm by no means a good dancer but I'm an enthusiastic dancer so it makes for a good time. I can do more than move my hips side to side (Sometimes they go round and round, LIKE OMGAWD!).

    Again, gay guys scare me.
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    Mar 03, 2012 10:44 PM GMT
    I've seen guys do it, but it's just unnatural and should be outlawed. Morals have become so laxed nowadays.
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    Mar 03, 2012 10:53 PM GMT
    Villian saidMost of the time, it's because they can actually dance.


    I disagree. Most just grind their asses on each other or guys. Now if Gay guys don't want to grind their cocks in any female orifices what are they trying to accomplish? Is this some sort of crazy conversion therapy dreamed up by some Evangelical, wackjob, Christian group? Are they infiltrating our clubs to convert/save us? Guys! stear clear of these insidious whores of Babylon! Do not become ensnared in their devious trap!
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    Mar 03, 2012 10:54 PM GMT
    So if I'm lucky I get to kiss someone who doesn't have a sandpaper face for a change.
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    Mar 03, 2012 10:56 PM GMT
    Vaughn saidThey dance rape me.


    See what I mean?
  • stratavos

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    Mar 04, 2012 12:49 AM GMT
    the world of dance doesn't teach same sex classes, so most of my classical training is put to waste, unless it's with a girl icon_sad.gif
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    Mar 04, 2012 12:56 AM GMT
    Why...not?

    I don't' have to fuck everyone I dance with so its okay.
  • ohioguy12

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    Mar 04, 2012 2:53 AM GMT
    I don't. I always try to keep myself available in case someone interesting wants to talk to me.
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    Mar 04, 2012 2:58 AM GMT
    Because I'm there to have fun...
  • jammer11

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    Mar 04, 2012 3:00 AM GMT
    Sometimes its just fun getting down icon_twisted.gif
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    Mar 04, 2012 3:04 AM GMT
    Why not? I am not used to gay clubs or whatever clubs and I do not see any difference when people wants to dance...
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    Mar 04, 2012 3:04 AM GMT
    1. Most of the gay guys are walking around in a mean girls formation/train with the head bitch in front

    2. They are the ones that approach with a smile and start dancing

    3. They are there to have a good time and not show off their outfits and treat the club like it is their personal catwalk
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    Mar 04, 2012 10:06 AM GMT
    In the rare instances where I venture out of my cave, I usually save my club for bonking hot guys over the head and dra---

    ...wait, not that kinda club?

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    Mar 04, 2012 10:19 AM GMT
    adam228 saidWhy...not?

    I don't' have to fuck everyone I dance with so its okay.


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