I'm scared I look gay!

  • jayson5

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    Mar 06, 2012 5:02 AM GMT
    Why do guys hit on me in non-gay settings. That must mean I look gay, and i'm sorry but that bugs me!!! I thought gay guys are or should be too chicken to hit on random guys since the vast majority of men are straight.

    On Saturday I was at Bergdorf Goodman and some guy follows me into the elevator and tries so hard to hit on me and literally brushes against me like the perv he is and follows me around trying to talk. There are many other similar instances.

    I don't get it, I ask gay friends if I look or act gay and they say no. But I must look gay if guys are hitting on me in public. It's really starting to get to me.
  • gymrat1

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    Mar 06, 2012 5:26 AM GMT
    You can't change who you are. God created you that way- enjoy your life, and don't worry. You are prolly super hot, and that's why guys are hitting on you icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 06, 2012 5:31 AM GMT
    Are you wearing slutty things? Showing crack?
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    Mar 06, 2012 4:39 PM GMT

    These guys might be gay. Hard to say.
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    Mar 06, 2012 4:41 PM GMT
    Lol, you were at Bergdorf Goodman. . .I'd say that is a pretty gay setting.

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    Mar 06, 2012 4:44 PM GMT
    7Famark saidLol, you were at Bergdorf Goodman. . .I'd say that is a pretty gay setting.




    At least he knows excellent fashion. That's a plus.
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    Mar 06, 2012 4:45 PM GMT
    Were you wearing this sort of attire ???? icon_biggrin.gif

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  • HollywoodHist...

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    Mar 06, 2012 4:45 PM GMT
    He knew you were gay because you were in Bergdorf Goodman and didn't have a woman on your arm. duh. I don't see the problem here. icon_smile.gif
  • HollywoodHist...

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    Mar 06, 2012 4:46 PM GMT
    7Famark saidLol, you were at Bergdorf Goodman. . .I'd say that is a pretty gay setting.



    crap, you beat me to it, lol.
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    Mar 06, 2012 4:47 PM GMT
    jayson5 saidWhy do guys hit on me in non-gay settings. That must mean I look gay, and i'm sorry but that bugs me!!! I thought gay guys are or should be too chicken to hit on random guys since the vast majority of men are straight.

    On Saturday I was at Bergdorf Goodman and some guy follows me into the elevator and tries so hard to hit on me and literally brushes against me like the perv he is and follows me around trying to talk. There are many other similar instances.

    I don't get it, I ask gay friends if I look or act gay and they say no. But I must look gay if guys are hitting on me in public. It's really starting to get to me.


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    Mar 06, 2012 4:47 PM GMT
    For real. . .most straight guys don't populate Bergdorf without their wife/girlfriend/whatever

    Were you eyeing the Louboutins?
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    Mar 06, 2012 4:49 PM GMT

    And the truly closeted ones Windows-shop online from the comfort of their bedrooms.
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    Mar 06, 2012 4:51 PM GMT
    jayson5 saidI don't get it, I ask gay friends if I look or act gay and they say no. But I must look gay if guys are hitting on me in public. It's really starting to get to me.

    Bergdorf's is mostly a women's store. Forget about Dudley Moore shopping there in the first Arthur movie. You want men's clothing in NYC go to Barneys, for gawd's sake. Or a private men's tailor, but not Bergdorf's, which was your first mistake.

    Second, you have no pic here. How can we judge? Or a video clip that reveals your mannerisms & voice. Maybe you are indeed a total flamer - we have no way of knowing.
  • HollywoodHist...

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    Mar 06, 2012 4:57 PM GMT
    whateveryo saidWere you wearing this sort of attire ???? icon_biggrin.gif

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    DAFFYD!!!

    Yup, this could have been a clue.
  • CuriousJockAZ

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    Mar 06, 2012 5:01 PM GMT
    jayson5 saidWhy do guys hit on me in non-gay settings. That must mean I look gay, and i'm sorry but that bugs me!!! I thought gay guys are or should be too chicken to hit on random guys since the vast majority of men are straight.

    On Saturday I was at Bergdorf Goodman and some guy follows me into the elevator and tries so hard to hit on me and literally brushes against me like the perv he is and follows me around trying to talk. There are many other similar instances.

    I don't get it, I ask gay friends if I look or act gay and they say no. But I must look gay if guys are hitting on me in public. It's really starting to get to me.



    Try not wearing that "I'm NOT Gay, But My Boyfriend Is" T-shirt icon_eek.gif
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    Mar 06, 2012 5:02 PM GMT
    Art_Deco said
    jayson5 saidI don't get it, I ask gay friends if I look or act gay and they say no. But I must look gay if guys are hitting on me in public. It's really starting to get to me.

    Bergdorf's is mostly a women's store. Forget about Dudley Moore shopping there in the first Arthur movie. You want men's clothing in NYC go to Barney's, for gawd's sake. Or a private men's tailor, but not Bergdorf's, which was your first mistake.

    Second, you have no pic here. How can we judge? Or a video clip that reveals your mannerisms & voice. Maybe you are indeed a total flamer - we have no way of knowing.


    What exactly do you think Barney's has that Bergdorf does not? Hmm icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Mar 06, 2012 5:02 PM GMT
    We need a pic of you OP. If it's not the clothes then I'm betting it's either your face or body language.
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    Mar 06, 2012 5:07 PM GMT
    7Famark saidWhat exactly do you think Barney's has that Bergdorf does not? Hmm icon_rolleyes.gif

    A focus on men's clothing that Berdorf's does not have. They sell to both sexes, but each has their focus. Barneys is menswear.
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    Mar 06, 2012 5:07 PM GMT
    Work it gurl!
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    Mar 06, 2012 5:13 PM GMT
    I can why he's following you around; if you WERE wearing this "striped bottom sweater":
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    Mar 06, 2012 5:14 PM GMT
    Srsly? You want us to comment on how you look and you don't post a pic??? You're an idiot. Next!
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    Mar 06, 2012 5:14 PM GMT
    DJBoston said
    These guys might be gay. Hard to say.
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    Ooh, my favorites!
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    Mar 06, 2012 5:16 PM GMT
    Caslon18453 saidSrsly? You want us to comment on how you look and you don't post a pic??? You're an idiot.


    Th!s*
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    Mar 06, 2012 5:16 PM GMT
    Actually Bergdorf Goodman is a more conservative shop than Barney's. Gays don't hang at Bergdorf Goodman, old conservative men and women do. Stop playing into stereotypes, the majority of men shopping at BG are straight corporate men from the looks of it.

    Just look at who works where. I've never heard male associates refer to each other as "GURL" like I have at Barney's!
  • ATXnative

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    Mar 06, 2012 5:16 PM GMT
    So youre gay, and you don't want guys to hit on you?


    This whole thing is a big failboat.