Am I a TOP? Am I a BOTTOM? Wait, can I be VERSATILE?

  • SirEllingtonB...

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    Mar 07, 2012 6:57 PM GMT
    I've always identified as and been a bottom since I first became sexually active at age fifteen. Only recently did I start questioning the possibility of even being a top for anyone. Unfortunately as much as the idea turns me on, I just can't seem to perform. I have friends who were total tops, decided to try being the bottom, and enjoy it, versatile friends who tell me the joys of both, but no total bottoms who've tried and enjoyed the opposite role.

    My question is if it's possible for a total bottom to become versatile? I mean, sure, viagra is out there but I really hope I don't have to turn to pills in order to do it. icon_neutral.gif
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    Jan 06, 2015 5:04 AM GMT
    You have to enjoy the possibility of Topping, otherwise, it's not gonna work.
    And no pill can help that. It's all in your head. So to speak. Lol! icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 06, 2015 7:36 AM GMT
    Way to dredge up a three year old thread. I'm thinking that ship has sailed.

    Not sure why, but I've encountered numerous "total tops" who got really versatile really fast. Can't think of any "total bottoms" who did so. But then, not as many guys make a point of announcing that they are "total bottoms." icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Feb 16, 2015 11:00 PM GMT
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  • mystery905

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    Feb 22, 2015 10:03 PM GMT
    Why not be neither?

    I have no desire to be top or bottom.

  • SilverRRCloud

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    Feb 27, 2015 8:21 AM GMT
    SirEllingtonBear saidI've always identified as and been a bottom since I first became sexually active at age fifteen. Only recently did I start questioning the possibility of even being a top for anyone. Unfortunately as much as the idea turns me on, I just can't seem to perform. I have friends who were total tops, decided to try being the bottom, and enjoy it, versatile friends who tell me the joys of both, but no total bottoms who've tried and enjoyed the opposite role.

    My question is if it's possible for a total bottom to become versatile? I mean, sure, viagra is out there but I really hope I don't have to turn to pills in order to do it. icon_neutral.gif


    I have met/dated a guy who was a total bttm, and decided that he wanted to top, too. By that time, we became FwB, and he admitted that topping was his new game, and that he was all into it. This did not stop him from regularly bottoming for me, though.

    On several occasions, we ended up in small groups, and he topped other dudes without much adoicon_biggrin.gif.

    So, yup. This is possible. I would not call it likely, even very probable, but it is possible.

    SC
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    Feb 28, 2015 12:53 AM GMT
    I am extra turned on by guys who say that they only bottom. I don't know why, but that how it is for me. I consider myself a vers/top.