The term " Bi now, Gay Later " do u agree ? or disagree?

  • MarcBodybuild...

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    Mar 07, 2012 10:06 PM GMT
    The term " Bi now, Gay Later " do u agree ? or disagree?

    if u agree on the term explain in ur own words why u think so.....

    same goes for if u disagree....










  • Teqkilla42

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    Mar 07, 2012 10:11 PM GMT
    It depends. Sexuality is more fluid than people give it credit for.

    If someone says they're bisexual, who the hell am I to say they're lying or are actually gay? It's their sexuality, not mine. I don't know what they're thinking, and if they don't want to tell me, it's not my business. I'd be pretty pissed if I told someone I was gay and they said "No way man, you're just confused, you're actually straight/bisexual/whatever," same principle.

    It all comes down to what I usually rail against on here: People giving WAY too many fucks about other people's sex/romantic lives.
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    Mar 07, 2012 10:26 PM GMT
    Holy crap, the kid in the first video is hot!
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    Mar 07, 2012 10:29 PM GMT
    I don't bother with fence-sitters.
  • Teqkilla42

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    Mar 07, 2012 10:32 PM GMT
    TellMe saidI don't bother with fence-sitters.


    So someone who is legitimately attracted to both sexes should HAVE to choose one just because you're only attracted to one sex? Cool story, bro. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Mar 07, 2012 10:38 PM GMT
    JayPride42 said
    TellMe saidI don't bother with fence-sitters.


    So someone who is legitimately attracted to both sexes should HAVE to choose one just because you're only attracted to one sex? Cool story, bro. icon_rolleyes.gif
    They don't HAVE to choose. And neither do I HAVE to choose them.

    Their choice. My choice.
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    Mar 07, 2012 11:55 PM GMT
    Bisexuality is equivalent of Atlanta in the magical journey some people make while they mature into a flaming homosexual...
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    Mar 08, 2012 12:06 AM GMT
    How someone decides to define his or herself is no business of mine. Live and let live.
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    Mar 08, 2012 12:37 AM GMT

    I disagree, if you mean to apply that to all Bi people.

    -Doug
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    Mar 08, 2012 12:51 AM GMT
    MarcBodybuilding saidThe term " Bi now, Gay Later " do u agree ? or disagree?

    if u agree on the term explain in ur own words why u think so.....

    same goes for if u disagree....

    Not the whole picture. There's tons of Bisexuals out there and there's also tons of gay men out there who identify first as Bi before coming out as gay.
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    Mar 14, 2012 2:17 AM GMT
    I wonder if there is any regional propensities toward this, particularly in the bible belt and the deep south; in general, are more homophobic places also places where gay men profess themselves to be bisexual?

    david hall
  • waccamatt

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    Mar 14, 2012 2:33 AM GMT
    You can't ever pigeonhole everyone into a certain circumstance. There are some gay people who first tell everyone that they're bi when they are really gay and there are some people who really are bi. When I was 17 and my mom found gy porn in my room I told her I was bi because I thought she could handle it better. I knew I was gay, but in that situation I kind of eased into telling my mom.
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    Mar 14, 2012 2:49 AM GMT
    No one cares what I think.

    Thank G-d.
  • Montague

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    Mar 14, 2012 3:11 AM GMT
    Oh you gays and your condescending views of everyone else.
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    Mar 14, 2012 3:15 AM GMT
    Montague saidOh you gays and your condescending views of everyone else.


    OOOOOH HE CALLED US OUT!!!! icon_eek.gif

    It's kinda true though, alot of us are superficially judgemental.
    Hypocritical huh?
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    Mar 14, 2012 3:18 AM GMT
    agree for some, and not for others
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    Mar 14, 2012 3:19 AM GMT
    People can fall anywhere on the spectrum. Some are more straight/bi while others are more gay/bi. Then there are those who are straight/str8 and gay/whatever fits in here... I'm mostly gay, and have no interest in being with a woman at all. Never had oral/penetrative sex with one, and don't plan on it!
  • armyguy86

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    Mar 14, 2012 3:19 AM GMT
    I'm bi now, bi later.
  • inuman

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    Mar 14, 2012 3:21 AM GMT
    I work in a sexshop and that's a porn title hahahaha icon_twisted.gif
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    Mar 14, 2012 3:24 AM GMT
    first video is true. I wish I could send that to one of my friends who always categorized people.
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    Mar 14, 2012 3:48 AM GMT
    the guy on the first video is pretty handsome

    the others all look too fem for me
  • BIG_N_TALL

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    Mar 14, 2012 3:55 AM GMT
    It is rather dismissive of bisexuality. It could be construed as a statement implying that bisexuality is used as an excuse or a 'crutch,' and after someone becomes more comfortable with their sexuality, it's 'ok' to be officially "gay" later.

    In effect, bisexuals 'hang on' to the 'correctness' of being attracted to women, and once they come to some sort of self-acceptance, they can let go of the correctness of heterosexual attraction and be completely homosexual.
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    Mar 14, 2012 4:10 AM GMT
    If we must define ourselves it should be by a certain set of behaviors at a certain time. We can only judge ourselves based on behaviors at a set time (the present), not what is or will be.


    Also, this:
    mikkeb saidHoly crap, the kid in the first video is hot!
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    Mar 14, 2012 4:14 AM GMT
    Who am I to judge someone else's sexuality when I am the one who is usually bothered about me going through "just a phase" when I know it is not. I can't say it is a phase for bisexual people, because I will be applying the same stupid logic people apply to me when I know homosexuality is not a phase like people beleive.
    If I ever end up with a bisexual guy or a gay guy I will not question his sexuality, the only thing I want is fidelity.
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    Mar 14, 2012 4:34 AM GMT
    JayPride42 saidIt depends. Sexuality is more fluid than people give it credit for.

    If someone says they're bisexual, who the hell am I to say they're lying or are actually gay? It's their sexuality, not mine. I don't know what they're thinking, and if they don't want to tell me, it's not my business. I'd be pretty pissed if I told someone I was gay and they said "No way man, you're just confused, you're actually straight/bisexual/whatever," same principle.

    It all comes down to what I usually rail against on here: People giving WAY too many fucks about other people's sex/romantic lives.


    AMEN!!!