MOC - Marriage of Convenience

  • mymoc

    Posts: 4

    Mar 08, 2012 7:50 AM GMT
    Greetings!
    Ideas? Thoughts?
    There are tons of gay individuals out there in the closet for valid reasons. May be a personal choice or not, bottom line is its there!
    I Personally am closeted (Lesbian) here and looking to beat this system.... Its really simple with a foolproof plan.. and its the only way thats gonna allow me to live a normal life with my partner (been going out for 5yrs now)
    The hardest bit is finding the guy the same situation...
    Is there anyone out there for me? icon_biggrin.gif
  • coolarmydude

    Posts: 9190

    Mar 08, 2012 12:51 PM GMT
    Don't do it.

    A str8 female friend of mine did this for the monetary benefits and I warned her that things may look good now (like you see it now with a "foolproof plan") but further down, something may change that complicates things.

    Later on, they developed personal complications between them, and even their divorce was ugly. She later admitted to me that she should have listened to my advice.

    It's not worth it. And to be honest, it's not fair to you or the whole LGBT community to not stand up for the fight and find an illegal solution as an alternative. I also don't believe that you will do a thing for marriage equality, because you've already indicated that you're the type of person that looks for the easy way.
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    Mar 08, 2012 4:29 PM GMT

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/LGBT_rights_in_South_Africa

    You're 100% fully equal in your country, like Canada.

  • waccamatt

    Posts: 1918

    Mar 08, 2012 4:46 PM GMT
    mymoc saidGreetings!
    Ideas? Thoughts?
    There are tons of gay individuals out there in the closet for valid reasons. May be a personal choice or not, bottom line is its there!
    I Personally am closeted (Lesbian) here and looking to beat this system.... Its really simple with a foolproof plan.. and its the only way thats gonna allow me to live a normal life with my partner (been going out for 5yrs now)
    The hardest bit is finding the guy the same situation...
    Is there anyone out there for me? icon_biggrin.gif


    This is a terrible idea and I don't care about the situation. Be true to yourself and you'll be much happier. I would never endorse such a farce, though I know it happens every day.
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    Mar 11, 2012 6:15 AM GMT
    tats as difficult idea indeed..
    please dont do it..unless u feel it outmost important for you
  • mymoc

    Posts: 4

    Apr 03, 2012 11:49 AM GMT
    thanks to every one icon_smile.gif