Question for you tops...

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    Mar 08, 2012 3:10 PM GMT
    Alright...not sure if this thread has been done before so I apologize in advanced. Ok so I've been with a handful of guys who frankly get turned off by my aggressiveness. I like to be the one to throw someone on the bed, pin them down, and frankly, if they can't take control of me, then I feel the sex would be boring.

    I am just not the type of guy to just lay down and let the top do all the work...its boring. I had two guys ask me if i was a top because of how aggressive I can be and CLEARLY...I am not.

    So my question for you tops is how aggressive do you like your bottoms?
  • Hothouse

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    Mar 08, 2012 3:29 PM GMT
    I like a man that goes after what he wants - top or bottom.
    As a top, I like a bottom that's agressive - lets me know he wants it and I match his agression.
    I DO NOT like a guy that just lays there.
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    Mar 08, 2012 7:27 PM GMT
    For some reason a lot of bottoms imagine that they're "role" is to just lay there and take direction... Which I guess has its place.

    Give me an active power bottom any day of the week though.