Are guys that you're friends are interested in off-limits to you?

  • heymikey

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    Mar 08, 2012 9:41 PM GMT
    Let's pretend (or maybe you are already in this situation) that you have a friend that really likes this guy. They're not boyfriends but they have slept together quite a few times. You know that your friend really likes him, but then you found out that the guy he likes is interested in you and thinks you are good-looking. You think that the guy is attractive as well. Will you pursue a relationship - serious or just casual NSA - with him despite knowing that your friend really likes him even though they are not together? And if you do end up being with this guy, do you expect to remain friends with your friend? Is it even considered backstabbing considering they were never in a relationship to begin with (but you know they slept together several times)?
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    Mar 09, 2012 1:39 AM GMT
    Let's pretend you want to be taken seriously on this site, would you:

    A). Post a face pic
    B). Post a thread asking for advice
    C). Post an idiotic and childish thread. What the fuck? Are you in high school?

    According to you, the answer is C. Sorry buddy, the correct answer is A
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    Mar 09, 2012 1:51 AM GMT
    Chainers in a mood.

    Chainers in a mood.

    Chainers in a mood.
  • kiwi_nomad

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    Mar 09, 2012 12:24 PM GMT
    heymikey saidLet's pretend (or maybe you are already in this situation) that you have a friend that really likes this guy. They're not boyfriends but they have slept together quite a few times. You know that your friend really likes him, but then you found out that the guy he likes is interested in you and thinks you are good-looking. You think that the guy is attractive as well. Will you pursue a relationship - serious or just casual NSA - with him despite knowing that your friend really likes him even though they are not together? And if you do end up being with this guy, do you expect to remain friends with your friend? Is it even considered backstabbing considering they were never in a relationship to begin with (but you know they slept together several times)?


    I don't think you are going to get with this guy without offending your friend. Is this guy worth losing a friendship for? Maybe talk to your friend about it.. you never know he could be completely cool about it and talk it through like an adult..
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    Mar 09, 2012 1:13 PM GMT
    Chainers saidLet's pretend you want to be taken seriously on this site, would you:

    A). Post a face pic
    B). Post a thread asking for advice
    C). Post an idiotic and childish thread. What the fuck? Are you in high school?

    According to you, the answer is C. Sorry buddy, the correct answer is A


    I couldn't agree more!