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We used to sit up and talk, smoke some botanicals, and laugh and have fun, but now he just gets off work, smokes, eats, and falls asleep to tv, and sometimes before 9pm!!!

On a side note, we own a business together and share a lot of responsibilities and jobs, however I am the more domestic one, hence I do more running around and work. He also has to be driven EVERYWHERE because he's dealing with legal issues. Which irritates me even more when I find him asleep after I get off work.

Heck. If you're going to be evil, go all the way and put some methamphetamine in his drink, his smoke, his food...well, he probably won't be hungry by then. Get him really amped and I'm sure you two will never need to go to sleep.

You'll have no problems.

First five hour energy...then date rape drugs...and then eventually you're slipping him arsenic.

Its pretty much immoral to put anything at all in someone's body without their conscious consent

I think it's perfectly fine. When I tie up my victims dates in the basement I really don't think they mind why I put into their IV's I have hooked up to them.

edit: not to mention...five hour energy shots are sour, and bitter - you think he won't notice it and question why the fuck you are slipping shit in his drink?

Martkell2007 saidWe used to sit up and talk, smoke some botanicals, and laugh and have fun, but now he just gets off work, smokes, eats, and falls asleep to tv, and sometimes before 9pm!!!

On a side note, we own a business together and share a lot of responsibilities and jobs, however I am the more domestic one, hence I do more running around and work. He also has to be driven EVERYWHERE because he's dealing with legal issues. Which irritates me even more when I find him asleep after I get off work.

I wouldn't recommend it..I've read somewhere that drinking more than one of those in one day can be really dangerous...ehhh I'll look for the place I saw it but yeah just be careful because if he doesn't know that you already put one in and he goes and decides to drink another, you might have an issue.

maybe try a few other alterations before you start slipping him drugs. I'm not entirely sure of what you mean by "botanicals" but maybe its making him tired. For no other reason than to halt the intake of carcinogens (i.e. smoke), maybe you should give up the smoking for a while and see what happens.

I'm horrified you have to ask.

Yes? Maybe not evil.

RoadsterRacer87 saidmaybe try a few other alterations before you start slipping him drugs. I'm not entirely sure of what you mean by "botanicals" but maybe its making him tired. For no other reason than to halt the intake of carcinogens (i.e. smoke), maybe you should give up the smoking for a while and see what happens.

"Botanicals" send a lot of people to sleepy-time... maybe cut back, or actually be OPEN about counteracting that with stimulants?

Seriously, spiking food/drink of someone unawares is reprehensible...

Yes it is wrong to spike his drink. Period.

I take, however, that you are really concerned about his lethargy. People who behave like that have something wrong. It could be depression, mono, diabetes, or who knows what.

Sit him down and tell him what bothers you and tell him that it is time to do something about it.

Yes, what is wrong with you???!!!

sprinkle some adderall in his drink, its not as nasty tasting and he will work for about 4 or 5 good hours.

Assuming this is not a rhetorical question:

YES. YES. A thousand times yes. Dosing someone is, IMO, one of the lowest things you can do.

"Botanicals" make lots of people sleepy. If this is a new trend, I second what a previous poster wrote - ASK him what's up with the recent lethargy. TELL him you miss your talks.

I guess I'm curious why from this post it sounds like you have been with your partner for a while and yet your profile states you are single. And I hope you are joking asking if it's ok to put anything in someone's drink without him knowing.

GreenHopper saidIts pretty much immoral to put anything at all in someone's body without their conscious consent

Please teach that to the food industry, which has a habit of putting unhealthy shit in food and labeling it "health food."

GreenHopper saidIts pretty much immoral to put anything at all in someone's body without their conscious consent

+1

Not much else to say or elaborate with.

If my partner ever did anything like that to me..... I'll be nice and say we'd probably have the largest fight we've ever had...

Total lack of respect and consideration.

For fucking real?

Spiking someone's food is hella cause for a serious beat-down.

And then kicking the spiker's ass to the curb.

Serious trust violation there.

Where's the communication in this relationship? For all you know he might have loved drinking an energy drink. You've already objectified him in place of talks, or even respecting what his feelings are, or what he thinks. You are treating him like a pet animal. A serious sit down talk is way overdue.

Ok, I have to assume you are not born evil or brain dead...

If you think he is excessively tired, maybe there is underlying health reason.
It can be hypothyroidism, sleep apnea, poor sleep habit, depression, anemia...

There are so many potential causes and masking them with quick fix is dangerous and irresponsible. If you really want to call your unfortunate friend as a partner, then please do your share and not to harm him.

1. How is his diet? Sounds like he may need to eat more high energy foods. And I don't mean caffeine. Decrease the heavy foods that are harder to digest, like beef and have him eat more high energy fresh foods and see if that helps.

2. Does he workout? I find that working out on a regular basis gives me more energy.

Some would think you're ignorant or evil, but I will be polite, and say that spiking your partner's drink qualifies as....domestic abuse.

Dump the "smoke some botanicals" crap, and he'll have more energy. Pot and other mind altering substances also cause depression...and a symptom of depression is loss of energy and lack of interest in activities.