Underwear Night at a bar...

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    Mar 09, 2012 12:31 PM GMT
    thinking of attending my first tomorrow night...icon_redface.gif

    Any advice, stories, precautions?!
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    Mar 09, 2012 12:53 PM GMT
    I used to be a regular.

    If you can't handle people touching you in "hard to reach places," don't do it.
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    Mar 09, 2012 1:21 PM GMT
    Would that be 'man' handle in all those places?icon_redface.gif
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    Mar 09, 2012 1:22 PM GMT
    Just wondering if I should wear galoshes or not...
  • HndsmKansan

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    Mar 09, 2012 1:24 PM GMT
    Kind of a fun experience.... except for those handsy guys who can't seem to keep their hands off you. That was crazy.

    Been there and done it... lol
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    Mar 09, 2012 1:25 PM GMT
    So just where did you keep your wallet?!
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    Mar 09, 2012 1:40 PM GMT
    You dont bring your wallet... You take a credit card and your id... And i would suggest a comfortable set of trainers (adidas, new balance or the like) or flip flops (something thongy, not a pair of birkestocks or those awful adidas velcro numbers). As far as type of underwear... A full boxer brief or trunk says you want to show off the assets without being a whore. Briefs ride up in the wrong places, anything smaller screams slut and few men know what a truly well-cut boxer looks like.
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    Mar 09, 2012 1:41 PM GMT
    I'll take that great advice and run with it...or at least, stroll.

    Thanks!
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    Mar 09, 2012 1:42 PM GMT
    MarriedAdam saidJust wondering if I should wear galoshes or not...
    A chastity belt might be a better option.
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    Mar 09, 2012 1:48 PM GMT
    Nice...with reflectors
  • mybud

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    Mar 09, 2012 2:38 PM GMT
    MarriedAdam saidSo just where did you keep your wallet?!
    Between your teeth.....
  • Kwokpot

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    Mar 09, 2012 3:18 PM GMT
    I attend an annual swimsuit party @ our local gay club that's used to raise money for a local website; It's called, 'Philly's Boys of Summer Party'
    I have a pic on my profile from one of the events.
    I LOVE the event; it's actually quite liberating to dance in your swimsuit/undies!

    I'm an exhibitionist myself, so it defintely helps if you're not shy about yourself. You're in great shape, so you should have a ball!

    They'll probably have a clothes check where you put your stuff in a plastic bag; I wouldn't bring a wallet, just licence, cash, and put that stuff inside your sneaks(yes, not the most comfortable) or if you have one of those key/cash holder things for your sneaks and/or wrists. ( Shouldn't be a problem with leaving your keys in your pants pocket checked)

    Just have fun and leave the inhibitions @ home!
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    Mar 09, 2012 3:22 PM GMT
    I did that once in a NYC club. It was a mistake, but I was young and impetuous.

    Never. Again.
  • stratavos

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    Mar 09, 2012 3:56 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidI used to be a regular.

    If you can't handle people touching you in "hard to reach places," don't do it.


    important addition: it won't be the guys you give consent to only, anyone will feel like they can touch. Just establish that you aren't a stripper, or part of the staff and you should get some more respect.
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    Mar 09, 2012 4:16 PM GMT
    stratavos said
    paulflexes saidI used to be a regular.

    If you can't handle people touching you in "hard to reach places," don't do it.


    important addition: it won't be the guys you give consent to only, anyone will feel like they can touch. Just establish that you aren't a stripper, or part of the staff and you should get some more respect.
    Better yet, establish that you only want HOT guys touching you.
    Sure it'll piss lots of people off, but you'll get lots of peace of mind as a result. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 09, 2012 4:30 PM GMT
    MarriedAdam saidSo just where did you keep your wallet?!


    In your sock icon_biggrin.gificon_eek.gif

    When I lived in Amsterdam, there was a rather infamous club that had underwear (or less..usually less) night once a month. You checked your clothes at the door to a heavy set Indian guy wearing (what looked like) a diaper. They have you a sheet of paper with your claim check number on it and a blank checklist. When you ordered your drink, .the bartender listed what you got (2 drink minimum). In order to get your clothes back...you handed over your list and paid your tab. Pretty ingenious.
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    Mar 09, 2012 4:51 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    MarriedAdam saidJust wondering if I should wear galoshes or not...
    A chastity belt might be a better option.


    Won't help. When I first came out, I told a very aggressive trannie that my (non-existent) bf had put me in a chastity belt. Her response:

    Honey, I know the best locksmith in town.

    I still have nightmares.
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    Mar 09, 2012 4:53 PM GMT
    Oooh I wish I was 21, sounds fun
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    Mar 09, 2012 5:06 PM GMT
    credo saidI did that once in a NYC club. It was a mistake, but I was young and impetuous.

    Never. Again.


    "Impetuous"?
    Really
    Was?


    Tip: use extra tape on the Kielbasa; don't want it falling out on the dance floor.
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    Mar 09, 2012 5:19 PM GMT
    MarriedAdam saidthinking of attending my first tomorrow night...icon_redface.gif

    Any advice, stories, precautions?!


    Is this in Tampa? You never know - if it's in Tampa, I just might go! icon_wink.gif
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    Mar 09, 2012 5:32 PM GMT
    Yeah these kinds of parties in the USA attract certain kind of crowd that is definitely not my thing...
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    Mar 09, 2012 5:45 PM GMT
    They used to have an underwear night at a club in Toronto called "The Barn" - yes, it was exactly that. People were polite, but it was not an up-scale place. Sometimes your underwear would be the start of a conversation, if you had a style or brand that was interesting. e.g. 70s briefs, 80s bikinis, European brands that you can't get here, etc. What you wear also demonstrates something about you:

    boxerbriefs = conservative, old, or overweight icon_cry.gif
    trunks = modern, practical icon_cool.gif
    briefs = sexy show off icon_lol.gif
    bikinis = daring and naughty icon_twisted.gif
    jockstrap = athletic & hot, but only the flawless can get away with it icon_wink.gif
    thong = slutty bottom icon_eek.gif

    You would check your clothes into a plastic bag at the door, they give you a ticket number. You keep your money and ticket in your sock or shoe, or in the fly of your briefs/boxerbriefs. I was convinced that it was the bartenders' ploy to get more tips, since you wouldn't want to carry the loose change. Fashionista's might have a man bag or old men would have a fanny pack. haha!
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    Mar 09, 2012 6:09 PM GMT
    mybud said
    MarriedAdam saidSo just where did you keep your wallet?!
    Between your teeth.....


    Hmmm... Maybe just drop those in my Harvey Wallbanger...
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    Mar 09, 2012 6:14 PM GMT
    stratavos said
    paulflexes saidI used to be a regular.

    If you can't handle people touching you in "hard to reach places," don't do it.


    important addition: it won't be the guys you give consent to only, anyone will feel like they can touch. Just establish that you aren't a stripper, or part of the staff and you should get some more respect.


    Hopefully, I won't be the Rodney Dangerfield of the dance floor...
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    Mar 09, 2012 6:17 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    stratavos said
    paulflexes saidI used to be a regular.

    If you can't handle people touching you in "hard to reach places," don't do it.


    important addition: it won't be the guys you give consent to only, anyone will feel like they can touch. Just establish that you aren't a stripper, or part of the staff and you should get some more respect.
    Better yet, establish that you only want HOT guys touching you.
    Sure it'll piss lots of people off, but you'll get lots of peace of mind as a result. icon_biggrin.gif


    Should I write that on my chest or back in permanent marker or just print off a sign on the printer and hang it 'round neck?!